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M20:005:001 y son, attend unto my wisdom, and bow thine ear to my understanding: 20:005:002 That thou mayest regard discretion, and that thy lips may keep knowledge. 20:005:003 For the lips of a strange woman drop as an honeycomb, and her mouth is smoother than oil: 20:005:004 But her end is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword. 20:005:005 Her feet go down to death; her steps take hold on hell. 20:005:006 Lest thou shouldest ponder the path of life, her ways are moveable, that thou canst not know them. 20:005:007 Hear me now therefore, O ye children, and depart not from the words of my mouth. 20:005:008 Remove thy way far from her, and come not nigh the door of her house: 20:005:009 Lest thou give thine honour unto others, and thy years unto the cruel: 20:005:010 Lest strangers be filled with thy wealth; and thy labours be in the house of a stranger; 20:005:011 And thou mourn at the last, when thy flesh and thy body are consumed, 20:005:012 And say, How have I hated instruction, and my heart despised reproof; 20:005:013 And have not obeyed the voice of my teachers, nor inclined mine ear to them that instructed me! 20:005:014 I was almost in all evil in the midst of the congregation and assembly. 20:005:015 Drink waters out of thine own cistern, and running waters out of thine own well. 20:005:016 Let thy fountains be dispersed abroad, and rivers of waters in the streets. 20:005:017 Let...
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Summary
Solomon delivers a stark warning about the seductive power of destructive choices, using the metaphor of an unfaithful woman to represent any temptation that promises immediate pleasure but delivers long-term pain. He describes how these temptations start sweet as honey but end bitter as poison, leading people away from the stable path of life into chaos and regret. The chapter reveals a crucial pattern: destructive influences are deliberately unpredictable, keeping you off-balance so you can't see where you're headed until it's too late. Solomon warns that giving in to these temptations costs you your reputation, your resources, and ultimately your health and peace of mind. The antidote he prescribes is commitment to what's already good in your life - symbolized by drinking from your own well and rejoicing with the wife of your youth. This isn't just about marriage; it's about appreciating and investing in the relationships and opportunities you already have instead of chasing what looks more exciting elsewhere. The chapter emphasizes that our choices have consequences we can't hide from, even when we think no one is watching. Solomon's message is both a warning and a promise: stay faithful to good choices and good relationships, and they'll sustain you. Chase after what glitters, and you'll find yourself trapped by your own poor decisions, wondering how you ignored all the warning signs.
That's what happens. To understand what the author is really doing—and to discuss this chapter with confidence—keep reading.
Terms to Know
Strange woman
In Hebrew culture, this referred to any woman outside one's proper social circle - foreign, unmarried, or unfaithful. Solomon uses her as a symbol for any temptation that leads away from wisdom and stability.
Modern Usage:
We use 'stranger danger' or talk about people who are 'bad influences' - anyone who pulls us away from our values and commitments.
Honeycomb lips
A metaphor for speech that's sweet and appealing at first contact. Honey was the ultimate sweetener in ancient times, so this describes words designed to seduce and attract.
Modern Usage:
We say someone is 'smooth talking' or 'telling you what you want to hear' - that initial charm that hooks you before showing true intentions.
Wormwood
A bitter herb that was used medicinally but tasted terrible. Solomon contrasts the sweet beginning with this bitter end to show how temptation deceives us about consequences.
Modern Usage:
We talk about things 'leaving a bad taste in your mouth' or how something 'seemed great at first but turned sour.'
Two-edged sword
A weapon that cuts both ways, meaning it's dangerous no matter how you handle it. This represents how destructive choices harm both you and others around you.
Modern Usage:
We say something is 'a double-edged sword' when it causes damage in multiple directions or has unintended consequences.
Moveable ways
Paths that constantly shift and change, making it impossible to predict where you'll end up. This describes how destructive people and situations keep you off-balance on purpose.
Modern Usage:
We recognize this in people who 'keep moving the goalposts' or situations where 'the rules keep changing' - classic manipulation tactics.
Own cistern
Your personal water source - in desert climates, this meant survival and security. Solomon uses it to represent being content with and investing in what you already have.
Modern Usage:
We say 'the grass is always greener' or talk about 'appreciating what you have' instead of always wanting something different.
Characters in This Chapter
Solomon
Wise mentor
The king speaking as a father figure, sharing hard-won wisdom about recognizing and avoiding destructive temptations. He's been there and seen the consequences.
Modern Equivalent:
The experienced supervisor who pulls you aside to warn you about workplace drama
The strange woman
Symbolic antagonist
Represents any tempting choice that promises immediate pleasure but delivers long-term destruction. She's deliberately unpredictable and seductive, leading people away from stability.
Modern Equivalent:
The person who always has drama but makes it seem exciting and worth the chaos
My son
Student/advisee
The person receiving this wisdom - represents anyone young or inexperienced enough to be vulnerable to attractive but destructive choices.
Modern Equivalent:
The new employee or young person who hasn't learned to spot red flags yet
Wife of thy youth
Symbol of faithfulness
Represents commitment, stability, and the wisdom of investing in good relationships rather than chasing what seems more exciting elsewhere.
Modern Equivalent:
The reliable friend or partner you've built a real relationship with over time
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how manipulators deliberately keep situations unstable and confusing to prevent their targets from thinking clearly about consequences.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when someone can't give you straight answers about expectations, keeps changing the rules, or pressures you to decide quickly without time to think.
You have the foundation. Now let's look closer.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"For the lips of a strange woman drop as an honeycomb, and her mouth is smoother than oil: But her end is bitter as wormwood, sharp as a two-edged sword."
Context: Warning about how destructive temptations present themselves attractively at first
This reveals the classic pattern of how bad choices seduce us - they start sweet but end bitter. Solomon is teaching pattern recognition, showing how to spot the bait-and-switch before you're hooked.
In Today's Words:
They'll tell you exactly what you want to hear at first, but once you're in, it's going to hurt you badly.
"Her ways are moveable, that thou canst not know them."
Context: Explaining why destructive influences are so hard to predict or navigate
This identifies a key manipulation tactic - keeping you confused and off-balance so you can't make good decisions. It's about recognizing when someone or something deliberately keeps changing the rules.
In Today's Words:
They keep changing the game so you never know what to expect - that's not confusion, that's control.
"Lest strangers be filled with thy wealth; and thy labours be in the house of a stranger."
Context: Warning about the long-term cost of giving in to destructive temptations
This shows how bad choices don't just hurt you emotionally - they cost you financially and professionally. Your hard work ends up benefiting people who don't care about you.
In Today's Words:
You'll end up working hard to pay for someone else's lifestyle while your own life falls apart.
"Rejoice with the wife of thy youth."
Context: Prescribing the antidote to destructive temptation
This isn't just about marriage - it's about appreciating and investing in the good relationships and opportunities you already have instead of always looking elsewhere for something better.
In Today's Words:
Find joy in the good things you've already built instead of always chasing something that looks more exciting.
Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Sweet Poison - How Destructive Choices Disguise Themselves
Destructive choices disguise themselves as immediately pleasurable while hiding their long-term costs through deliberate instability and unpredictability.
Thematic Threads
Deception
In This Chapter
Solomon shows how destructive choices deliberately hide their true nature, appearing sweet while being poison
Development
Introduced here
In Your Life:
You might see this in any situation where someone keeps changing the rules or won't give you straight answers about expectations.
Consequences
In This Chapter
The chapter emphasizes that poor choices lead to loss of honor, strength, wealth, and ultimately regret
Development
Builds on earlier warnings about wisdom's protective power
In Your Life:
You might recognize this when you're tempted to take shortcuts that could damage your reputation or relationships.
Commitment
In This Chapter
Solomon advocates for faithfulness to 'your own well' and 'the wife of your youth' as protection against temptation
Development
Introduced here
In Your Life:
You might apply this by investing in relationships and opportunities you already have instead of constantly seeking something better.
Identity
In This Chapter
The chapter warns that giving in to these temptations costs you your reputation and how others see you
Development
Builds on earlier themes about how wisdom shapes who you become
In Your Life:
You might consider this when making choices that could affect how your family, coworkers, or community view you.
Personal Growth
In This Chapter
Solomon presents self-control and discernment as skills that protect you from being trapped by poor decisions
Development
Continues the theme that wisdom is practical protection
In Your Life:
You might practice this by learning to pause and ask 'where does this path actually lead?' before making impulsive choices.
Modern Adaptation
When the Promotion Goes Sideways
Following The Practical Sage's story...
Arthur has been steady at the warehouse for three years when Derek, the new shift supervisor, starts offering him 'special opportunities.' First it's overtime that pays cash under the table. Then it's moving inventory that 'fell off the books.' Derek keeps the offers vague, changes the details, makes Arthur feel like he's missing out on easy money while his coworkers struggle. The extra cash feels good at first, but Arthur notices Derek never gives straight answers about procedures, always has excuses when things go wrong, and the 'opportunities' keep requiring bigger risks. Meanwhile, Arthur's girlfriend Lisa has been talking about saving for a house, and his current legitimate overtime could get them there in two years. But Derek's promises of quick money are tempting, especially when Arthur sees other guys driving newer trucks. The warehouse has cameras everywhere, and Arthur knows the company has fired people for less. He's starting to realize that Derek's constantly shifting explanations and urgent deadlines are designed to keep him from thinking clearly about where this path actually leads.
The Road
The road Solomon's young man walked in 950 BC, Arthur walks today. The pattern is identical: what promises sweetness at first taste delivers destruction at the end, using deliberate instability to prevent clear thinking about consequences.
The Map
This chapter provides a navigation tool for recognizing manipulation disguised as opportunity. Arthur can spot the warning signs: vague promises, shifting explanations, and pressure to act without thinking.
Amplification
Before reading this, Arthur might have focused only on the immediate money and missed the manipulation tactics. Now he can NAME the pattern of sweet poison, PREDICT that unstable paths lead to destruction, and NAVIGATE by investing in his legitimate opportunities with Lisa instead of chasing Derek's honey trap.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
What specific warnings does Solomon give about choices that seem attractive at first but lead to destruction?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does Solomon emphasize that destructive influences have 'unstable paths' - what advantage does this give them?
analysis • medium - 3
Where do you see this 'sweet at first, bitter at the end' pattern in modern life - in relationships, work, or financial decisions?
application • medium - 4
When you encounter something that feels deliberately unstable or keeps changing the rules, how would you apply Solomon's advice to 'drink from your own well'?
application • deep - 5
What does this chapter reveal about why humans are drawn to what's harmful for them, and how can we use this knowledge to make better choices?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Own Wells vs. Honey Traps
Make two lists: your current 'wells' (relationships, opportunities, or habits that consistently nourish you) and recent 'honey offers' (things that promised quick rewards but felt unstable or kept changing expectations). For each honey offer, identify what made it feel unstable and what your gut was telling you that you might have ignored.
Consider:
- •Look for patterns in what makes something feel 'off' even when it sounds good
- •Notice whether your wells get neglected when you chase honey offers
- •Consider how much energy unstable situations drain compared to stable ones
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you ignored warning signs because something looked too good to pass up. What would you do differently now that you understand the pattern of deliberate instability?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 6: Financial Traps and Life Patterns
As the story unfolds, you'll explore to recognize when you're financially overextended and get out fast, while uncovering consistent small actions beat sporadic big efforts. These lessons connect the classic to contemporary challenges we all face.