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ARGUMENT. FUNERAL GAMES IN HONOUR OF PATROCLUS.[280] Achilles and the Myrmidons do honours to the body of Patroclus. After the funeral feast he retires to the sea-shore, where, falling asleep, the ghost of his friend appears to him, and demands the rites of burial; the next morning the soldiers are sent with mules and waggons to fetch wood for the pyre. The funeral procession, and the offering their hair to the dead. Achilles sacrifices several animals, and lastly twelve Trojan captives, at the pile; then sets fire to it. He pays libations to the Winds, which (at the instance of Iris) rise, and raise the flames. When the pile has burned all night, they gather the bones, place them in an urn of gold, and raise the tomb. Achilles institutes the funeral games: the chariot-race, the fight of the caestus, the wrestling, the foot-race, the single combat, the discus, the shooting with arrows, the darting the javelin: the various descriptions of which, and the various success of the several antagonists, make the greatest part of the book. In this book ends the thirtieth day. The night following, the ghost of Patroclus appears to Achilles: the one-and-thirtieth day is employed in felling the timber for the pile: the two-and-thirtieth in burning it; and the three-and-thirtieth in the games. The scene is generally on the sea-shore. Thus humbled in the dust, the pensive train Through the sad city mourn’d her hero slain. The body soil’d with dust, and black with gore, Lies...
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Summary
After thirty days of mourning, Achilles finally honors his fallen friend Patroclus with elaborate funeral games. The ghost of Patroclus appears to Achilles in a dream, demanding proper burial rites and warning that Achilles too will soon die. The Greeks build a massive funeral pyre, and Achilles makes the ultimate sacrifice - not just animals, but twelve Trojan prisoners. The winds, summoned by the gods, fan the flames all night. Once the bones are collected in a golden urn, Achilles organizes athletic competitions: chariot racing, boxing, wrestling, running, armed combat, discus throwing, archery, and javelin throwing. These aren't just games - they're a way for the Greek army to channel their grief into something constructive and rebuild their sense of community. The competitions reveal character: young Antilochus shows cunning but learns humility when called out by Menelaus, while Achilles demonstrates wisdom in his judging. The games serve multiple purposes - they honor the dead, provide closure for the living, and allow warriors to prove themselves without killing each other. Most importantly, they show how a community can transform destructive emotions into constructive action. The chapter reveals that even in the midst of war, there are ways to compete that build rather than destroy relationships.
That's what happens. To understand what the author is really doing—and to discuss this chapter with confidence—keep reading.
Terms to Know
Funeral Games
Athletic competitions held to honor the dead, combining mourning with celebration of life. These weren't just entertainment - they were a way to channel grief into something constructive and rebuild community bonds after loss.
Modern Usage:
We see this pattern in memorial tournaments, charity runs for deceased loved ones, or any time communities come together through sports or competition to heal after tragedy.
Libation
The ritual pouring of wine, oil, or other liquids as an offering to gods or the dead. It's a physical act that makes grief and respect tangible - you're literally giving something of value.
Modern Usage:
We do this when we pour one out for a fallen friend, leave flowers at graves, or toast someone's memory at a funeral reception.
Pyre
A large pile of wood for burning a dead body, often built with great ceremony. The bigger and more elaborate the pyre, the more it showed respect for the deceased and their importance to the community.
Modern Usage:
Today we see this in elaborate funeral services, memorial services with expensive caskets, or any time families spend significantly to honor their dead.
Human Sacrifice
The killing of people as offerings to gods or the dead, considered the ultimate gift in ancient times. Achilles sacrifices twelve Trojan prisoners to honor Patroclus, showing how grief can drive people to extreme acts.
Modern Usage:
While we don't literally sacrifice humans, we see this pattern in revenge killings after gang deaths or when grief drives people to destructive acts they'd never normally consider.
Competitive Honor
The idea that your worth is proven through contests and competitions, where winning brings glory not just to yourself but to your family and community. Losing gracefully was just as important as winning.
Modern Usage:
This shows up in everything from high school sports to workplace competitions, where how you handle victory or defeat reveals your character.
Ghost Visitation
The belief that the dead can return to communicate with the living, usually to demand proper treatment or give warnings. Patroclus appears to Achilles in a dream to demand burial rites.
Modern Usage:
We see this in people who dream of deceased relatives giving advice, or feeling like dead loved ones are trying to communicate through signs or coincidences.
Characters in This Chapter
Achilles
Grieving protagonist organizing the games
Shows remarkable wisdom and fairness as judge of the competitions, even giving prizes to losers who competed well. His grief has transformed from destructive rage into constructive leadership.
Modern Equivalent:
The boss who channels their pain into making sure everyone on the team is recognized and treated fairly
Patroclus (ghost)
Dead friend demanding proper burial
Appears to Achilles in a dream, warning him of his own coming death while demanding the burial rites he needs to rest in peace. Shows how the dead continue to influence the living.
Modern Equivalent:
The friend whose memory won't let you rest until you do right by them
Antilochus
Young competitor learning lessons
Uses cunning to win the chariot race but learns humility when Menelaus calls him out for cheating. Represents youth learning that how you win matters as much as winning.
Modern Equivalent:
The ambitious young employee who cuts corners but learns integrity when confronted by a respected colleague
Menelaus
Veteran competitor and moral voice
Calls out Antilochus for unfair driving but then graciously accepts his apology and gives up his prize. Shows how mature people handle conflicts - firmly but with forgiveness.
Modern Equivalent:
The experienced coworker who calls out bad behavior but doesn't hold grudges once someone makes it right
Diomedes
Skilled competitor
Wins the chariot race through skill and experience rather than tricks. Represents the rewards that come to those who compete with integrity and preparation.
Modern Equivalent:
The person who consistently wins through hard work and experience rather than shortcuts
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to recognize when grief or anger is destroying you versus building something meaningful, and how to consciously shift from one to the other.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when you feel destructive emotions building - ask yourself 'How can I honor what I've lost by creating something that helps others?' and take one small building action instead of a destructive one.
You have the foundation. Now let's look closer.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"My bones must not lie apart from yours, Achilles, but together, just as we were brought up together in your house."
Context: The ghost appears to Achilles demanding proper burial rites
Shows how deep friendship bonds transcend death. Patroclus wants their bones mixed together in the urn, symbolizing a connection that even death cannot break. It's about loyalty that lasts forever.
In Today's Words:
Don't leave me behind - we've been brothers since day one, and that doesn't end just because I'm gone.
"Let no man now be eager to fight me with his fists for the sake of these prizes, since I am heavy with grief."
Context: Achilles warns competitors that his grief makes him dangerous
Achilles recognizes that his emotional state makes him unpredictable and potentially harmful to others. It shows self-awareness about how grief affects judgment and the responsibility to protect others from your pain.
In Today's Words:
I'm not in a good headspace right now, so don't push me because I might not be able to control myself.
"Son of Atreus, this was not well done; you know that I am the better man."
Context: Antilochus initially defends his questionable chariot racing tactics
Shows youthful arrogance and the instinct to defend yourself even when you're wrong. But Antilochus learns and grows, eventually apologizing and making things right with Menelaus.
In Today's Words:
Come on, you know I'm better than you - I earned this win.
Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Constructive Grieving
The moment when we stop letting loss destroy us and start using it to create something meaningful for others.
Thematic Threads
Community
In This Chapter
Funeral games unite the Greek army in shared purpose, transforming individual grief into collective healing
Development
Evolved from earlier isolation and revenge cycles into constructive group bonding
In Your Life:
You might see this when a workplace tragedy brings coworkers together or a neighborhood loss creates lasting support networks.
Leadership
In This Chapter
Achilles demonstrates wisdom in organizing and judging competitions, showing growth from his earlier rage-driven decisions
Development
Major shift from the destructive leader who withdrew from battle to one who builds community
In Your Life:
You might recognize this when you move from complaining about problems to organizing solutions that help everyone.
Honor
In This Chapter
Honor is redefined from killing enemies to creating meaningful competition and fair judgment
Development
Transformed from battlefield glory to community service and wise stewardship
In Your Life:
You might experience this when you realize true respect comes from lifting others up, not putting them down.
Competition
In This Chapter
Athletic contests channel warrior energy into constructive rivalry that builds rather than destroys relationships
Development
First appearance of positive competition versus the destructive warfare throughout the epic
In Your Life:
You might apply this when workplace tensions need channeling into productive challenges rather than destructive politics.
Wisdom
In This Chapter
Achilles shows mature judgment in resolving disputes and distributing prizes fairly during the games
Development
Dramatic evolution from the impulsive, rage-driven warrior of earlier books
In Your Life:
You might recognize this growth when you find yourself mediating conflicts instead of escalating them.
Modern Adaptation
The Memorial Tournament
Following Achilles's story...
After Marcus's funeral, Achilles can't sleep. His best friend and training partner appears in his dreams, asking why there's been no proper memorial. The next morning, Achilles calls the gym owner and proposes something unprecedented: a memorial tournament in Marcus's honor. Not just any competition, but something that brings the whole community together. He organizes multiple events - boxing matches, powerlifting competitions, running races, even arm wrestling. Local businesses sponsor prizes. Families come to watch. Instead of the destructive rage that's been eating him alive, Achilles channels his grief into building something that honors Marcus while giving everyone a way to compete constructively. He referees disputes fairly, shows respect to veterans and newcomers alike. The tournament becomes an annual tradition. What started as one man's need to process loss becomes the community's way of turning pain into connection.
The Road
The road Achilles walked in ancient Troy, Achilles walks today. The pattern is identical: devastating loss transformed from destructive rage into constructive community-building through organized competition that honors the dead while strengthening the living.
The Map
When grief threatens to destroy you, look for ways to build something meaningful that honors the loss. Channel destructive emotions into constructive action that serves others facing similar pain.
Amplification
Before reading this, Achilles might have stayed trapped in rage, lashing out at anyone who tried to help. Now he can recognize the difference between destructive and constructive grieving, and choose to build rather than destroy when loss hits.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
What changes in Achilles' behavior when Patroclus's ghost appears to him, and how does he shift from thirty days of destructive mourning to organizing the funeral games?
analysis • surface - 2
Why do you think the funeral games work better than continued warfare for helping the Greek army process their grief and rebuild their community bonds?
analysis • medium - 3
Where have you seen people channel grief or loss into something constructive rather than destructive? What made the difference in their approach?
application • medium - 4
If you were helping someone stuck in destructive grieving (like Achilles in his first thirty days), what specific steps would you suggest to help them move toward building something meaningful?
application • deep - 5
What does Achilles' transformation from destroyer to community builder reveal about how humans can use competition and ritual to heal rather than harm?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Design Your Own Healing Ritual
Think about a loss or setback you've experienced (job, relationship, dream, person). Design a constructive 'funeral game' or ritual that could help you and others process similar losses. What activities would honor what was lost while building something new? How would you bring people together rather than push them away?
Consider:
- •Consider what made Achilles' games effective: they honored the past, engaged the community, and channeled competitive energy constructively
- •Think about what skills or strengths you could use to help others facing similar challenges
- •Focus on activities that create connection and purpose rather than just distraction
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you had to choose between staying stuck in destructive patterns or channeling your pain into something that could help others. What did you learn about yourself in that process?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 24: The Ransom of Hector
Moving forward, we'll examine grief can transform even the hardest hearts, and understand the power of shared humanity to bridge enemies. These insights bridge the gap between classic literature and modern experience.