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The mistake made by Alexey Alexandrovitch in that, when preparing for seeing his wife, he had overlooked the possibility that her repentance might be sincere, and he might forgive her, and she might not die—this mistake was two months after his return from Moscow brought home to him in all its significance. But the mistake made by him had arisen not simply from his having overlooked that contingency, but also from the fact that until that day of his interview with his dying wife, he had not known his own heart. At his sick wife’s bedside he had for the first time in his life given way to that feeling of sympathetic suffering always roused in him by the sufferings of others, and hitherto looked on by him with shame as a harmful weakness. And pity for her, and remorse for having desired her death, and most of all, the joy of forgiveness, made him at once conscious, not simply of the relief of his own sufferings, but of a spiritual peace he had never experienced before. He suddenly felt that the very thing that was the source of his sufferings had become the source of his spiritual joy; that what had seemed insoluble while he was judging, blaming, and hating, had become clear and simple when he forgave and loved. He forgave his wife and pitied her for her sufferings and her remorse. He forgave Vronsky, and pitied him, especially after reports reached him of his despairing action. He...
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Summary
Levin throws himself into farm work with desperate intensity, trying to escape his torment over Kitty's rejection. He works alongside his peasants in the fields, finding temporary relief in physical exhaustion and the rhythm of manual labor. The harder he works, the more he can forget his pain - but only while his body is moving. The moment he stops, the ache returns full force. His brother Sergey arrives unexpectedly and is shocked to find Levin looking haggard and wild, working like a common laborer rather than the estate owner he is. Sergey doesn't understand why his educated brother would choose such backbreaking work when he could hire others to do it. But for Levin, this isn't about the farm - it's about survival. The physical work gives him something his privileged life lacks: a way to exhaust himself so completely that he can't think about what he's lost. This chapter shows how differently people cope with heartbreak. While Anna earlier sought escape through passion and society, Levin seeks it through sweat and soil. There's something honest about his approach - he's not trying to replace Kitty or prove anything to anyone. He's simply trying to get through each day. Tolstoy captures how grief can make us return to the most basic human activities, finding in simple labor what sophisticated society cannot provide: the mercy of exhaustion. Levin's desperate work ethic reveals both his pain and his character - he faces his suffering head-on rather than running from it, even if his method seems extreme to others.
That's what happens. To understand what the author is really doing—and to discuss this chapter with confidence—keep reading.
Terms to Know
Estate owner
In 19th century Russia, wealthy landowners who inherited vast properties with peasants working the land. They typically lived off the labor of others and didn't do manual work themselves. Levin's choice to work alongside his peasants breaks social expectations.
Modern Usage:
Like a CEO who suddenly starts working the warehouse floor instead of staying in the executive suite
Peasant labor
The backbreaking farm work done by Russia's lowest social class - planting, harvesting, and maintaining the land. This was considered beneath the dignity of educated landowners. Physical work was seen as punishment, not therapy.
Modern Usage:
Similar to how we might judge someone with a college degree for taking a job at a fast-food restaurant
Grief work
Using intense physical activity to cope with emotional pain. Levin throws himself into manual labor to exhaust his body so his mind can't focus on his heartbreak. It's a form of self-medication through exhaustion.
Modern Usage:
Like someone hitting the gym obsessively after a breakup or working 80-hour weeks to avoid dealing with loss
Class transgression
When someone acts outside their expected social role, especially moving 'down' in status. Levin's brother is shocked because educated men weren't supposed to do peasant work. It violated the rigid social order.
Modern Usage:
The way people react when a doctor becomes a janitor or a lawyer starts driving for Uber
Productive suffering
Channeling pain into useful work rather than destructive behavior. Instead of drinking or lashing out, Levin pours his anguish into improving his farm. His suffering serves a purpose beyond just feeling bad.
Modern Usage:
Like someone who starts a nonprofit after losing a child, or writes a book after surviving trauma
Rhythmic meditation
Finding peace through repetitive physical motion. The steady rhythm of farm work - cutting, lifting, planting - quiets Levin's racing thoughts. The body's movement calms the mind's chaos.
Modern Usage:
Similar to how people find peace in running, knitting, or any repetitive activity that gets them 'in the zone'
Characters in This Chapter
Levin
Heartbroken protagonist
Works himself to exhaustion in the fields to escape the pain of Kitty's rejection. His desperate physical labor reveals both his suffering and his honest way of dealing with it - no pretense, just raw survival.
Modern Equivalent:
The guy who throws himself into work after a bad breakup
Sergey
Concerned brother
Arrives unexpectedly and is shocked by Levin's appearance and behavior. Represents conventional society's view that educated people shouldn't do manual labor. His concern shows the class divide.
Modern Equivalent:
The family member who worries you're 'wasting your potential' in a blue-collar job
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to identify when healthy activities become unhealthy escapes from emotional pain.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when you use work, exercise, or busyness to avoid difficult feelings—ask yourself if you're processing or just postponing.
You have the foundation. Now let's look closer.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"Only in work lay the possibility of forgetting, and to forget he must work."
Context: Describing Levin's desperate need for physical exhaustion to escape his thoughts
This reveals how some people cope with emotional pain through action rather than reflection. Work becomes medicine, not just occupation. It shows Levin's practical approach to suffering.
In Today's Words:
The only way to stop thinking about it was to stay busy, so he kept himself crazy busy
"He felt that this grief was in him, and that work was the only thing that could drown it."
Context: Explaining why Levin chooses backbreaking farm work over his usual gentlemanly pursuits
Work isn't just distraction - it's drowning out the pain. The metaphor suggests grief as something that could overwhelm him if he doesn't actively fight it. Physical exhaustion becomes emotional survival.
In Today's Words:
He knew the sadness would eat him alive if he didn't work hard enough to shut it up
"The harder he worked, the better he felt."
Context: Describing the direct relationship between Levin's physical exertion and emotional relief
This simple equation reveals a coping mechanism many people discover: physical effort can provide emotional relief. It's not solving the problem, but it's managing the pain in a healthy way.
In Today's Words:
The more he pushed his body, the less his heart hurt
Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Productive Pain
Using physical or mental exhaustion as temporary anesthesia against emotional suffering.
Thematic Threads
Class
In This Chapter
Sergey is shocked that his educated brother works like a common laborer, revealing class expectations about who should do physical work
Development
Continues examining how class shapes identity and acceptable behavior
In Your Life:
You might feel judged for taking work others think is 'beneath' your education or background
Grief Processing
In This Chapter
Levin uses physical exhaustion to temporarily escape the pain of Kitty's rejection
Development
Contrasts with Anna's earlier escape through passion and society
In Your Life:
You might throw yourself into work or activity to avoid dealing with loss or disappointment
Authentic vs. Performative
In This Chapter
Levin's work is genuine survival mechanism, not trying to impress anyone or prove anything
Development
Builds theme of honest self-confrontation versus social performance
In Your Life:
You might recognize when your coping strategies are real versus when you're just trying to look strong
Physical Labor
In This Chapter
Manual work provides what sophisticated society cannot—the mercy of complete exhaustion
Development
Introduced here as counterpoint to intellectual/social solutions
In Your Life:
You might find that sometimes your hands and body can solve what your mind cannot
Isolation in Pain
In This Chapter
Levin works alone, unable to explain to his brother why this extreme approach is necessary
Development
Continues exploration of how suffering can be deeply personal and misunderstood
In Your Life:
You might struggle to explain your coping methods to people who haven't experienced your type of pain
Modern Adaptation
When Work Becomes Warfare
Following Anna's story...
After her affair exploded and Marcus left town, Anna throws herself into her legal work with frightening intensity. She takes on every pro bono case, every overtime assignment, every weekend research project. Sixteen-hour days become normal. She drafts briefs until her eyes burn, reviews depositions until her back screams, takes on cases other lawyers won't touch. Her assistant worries when Anna shows up looking hollow-eyed, surviving on coffee and determination. But Anna needs the crushing workload—when she's buried in legal precedents and client meetings, she can't think about Marcus or the wreckage of her marriage. The law library becomes her refuge. Only when she's researching until 2 AM does the ache in her chest quiet down. Her colleagues see dedication; Anna knows it's desperation. She's discovered that intellectual exhaustion can be just as numbing as physical labor—brief by brief, case by case, she's building a wall of work between herself and her pain.
The Road
The road Levin walked in 1877, Anna walks today. The pattern is identical: using exhausting work as emotional anesthesia, pushing the body or mind to its limits to override the heart's torment.
The Map
This chapter shows Anna that productive pain has boundaries—it can provide temporary relief but shouldn't become permanent escape. She can use work to process grief, not just avoid it.
Amplification
Before reading this, Anna might have worked herself into breakdown without understanding why. Now she can NAME her coping mechanism, PREDICT when it becomes harmful, and NAVIGATE toward healing instead of hiding.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
Why does Levin choose to work in the fields like a common laborer instead of managing his estate from a distance?
analysis • surface - 2
What does Levin's physical exhaustion accomplish that his privileged lifestyle cannot?
analysis • medium - 3
Where do you see people today using intense work or physical activity to cope with emotional pain?
application • medium - 4
When does productive pain become helpful versus when does it become a way of avoiding necessary healing?
application • deep - 5
What does Levin's approach to heartbreak reveal about the relationship between physical and emotional well-being?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Productive Pain Patterns
Think about the last time you faced significant emotional stress or disappointment. Write down what activities you threw yourself into during that period. Then categorize each activity as either 'helpful exhaustion' (gave you clarity and strength) or 'avoidance exhaustion' (just postponed dealing with the issue). Notice which type dominated your response and what that reveals about your coping style.
Consider:
- •Physical work can be healing medicine or emotional avoidance - the difference is intention
- •Healthy productive pain has natural stopping points; unhealthy patterns become compulsive
- •The goal is to work through emotions, not work around them permanently
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when physical work or intense activity helped you process difficult emotions. What made that experience healing rather than just distracting?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 121
As the story unfolds, you'll explore key events and character development in this chapter, while uncovering thematic elements and literary techniques. These lessons connect the classic to contemporary challenges we all face.