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Mihailov sold Vronsky his picture, and agreed to paint a portrait of Anna. On the day fixed he came and began the work. From the fifth sitting the portrait impressed everyone, especially Vronsky, not only by its resemblance, but by its characteristic beauty. It was strange how Mihailov could have discovered just her characteristic beauty. “One needs to know and love her as I have loved her to discover the very sweetest expression of her soul,” Vronsky thought, though it was only from this portrait that he had himself learned this sweetest expression of her soul. But the expression was so true that he, and others too, fancied they had long known it. “I have been struggling on for ever so long without doing anything,” he said of his own portrait of her, “and he just looked and painted it. That’s where technique comes in.” “That will come,” was the consoling reassurance given him by Golenishtchev, in whose view Vronsky had both talent, and what was most important, culture, giving him a wider outlook on art. Golenishtchev’s faith in Vronsky’s talent was propped up by his own need of Vronsky’s sympathy and approval for his own articles and ideas, and he felt that the praise and support must be mutual. In another man’s house, and especially in Vronsky’s palazzo, Mihailov was quite a different man from what he was in his studio. He behaved with hostile courtesy, as though he were afraid of coming closer to people he did not...
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Summary
Levin finds himself in an impossible situation as he watches Anna and Vronsky's relationship continue to deteriorate before his eyes. The tension in the household has reached a breaking point, with Anna's jealousy and emotional instability creating an atmosphere that makes everyone uncomfortable. Levin realizes he's witnessing something deeply private and painful - a love affair that's slowly destroying both people involved. Anna's behavior becomes increasingly erratic, swinging between desperate attempts to hold onto Vronsky and bitter accusations that push him further away. Vronsky, meanwhile, seems trapped between his genuine feelings for Anna and his growing exhaustion with the constant drama and social isolation their relationship has created. What makes this chapter particularly significant is how it shows Levin - who represents a different path in life - observing the consequences of choosing passion over social stability. Through Levin's eyes, we see how Anna and Vronsky's grand romantic gesture has led not to happiness, but to a kind of emotional prison. The chapter serves as a stark contrast to Levin's own relationship with Kitty, which is built on mutual respect and shared values rather than overwhelming passion. Tolstoy uses this moment to explore how different approaches to love lead to vastly different outcomes. For Anna and Vronsky, their intense connection has become a source of suffering rather than joy. The chapter also highlights how isolation from society takes its toll - without the support and structure of community, their relationship has nowhere to go but inward, becoming increasingly toxic and self-destructive.
That's what happens. To understand what the author is really doing—and to discuss this chapter with confidence—keep reading.
Terms to Know
Social isolation
When people are cut off from their community and support networks. In 19th century Russia, this was especially devastating because society provided structure, identity, and economic security.
Modern Usage:
We see this today when couples become so focused on their relationship drama that they lose all their friends and family connections.
Emotional volatility
Extreme mood swings and unpredictable emotional reactions. Anna's jealousy and desperation create chaos that affects everyone around her.
Modern Usage:
This is like when someone's constant emotional ups and downs make everyone walk on eggshells around them.
Passion versus stability
The conflict between intense romantic feelings and building a sustainable, peaceful life. Tolstoy shows how choosing pure passion can lead to destruction.
Modern Usage:
We see this in people who chase the high of dramatic relationships instead of building something steady and healthy.
Emotional prison
When a relationship becomes a trap where both people are miserable but can't escape. The very intensity that drew them together now destroys them.
Modern Usage:
This happens in toxic relationships where people stay because the connection feels too strong to break, even when it's hurting them.
Observer's perspective
Seeing a situation clearly because you're not emotionally involved. Levin can see what Anna and Vronsky cannot because he's not caught up in their drama.
Modern Usage:
Like when friends can see that your relationship is toxic even when you can't see it yourself.
Relationship deterioration
The gradual breakdown of a romantic partnership through repeated conflicts, loss of trust, and emotional exhaustion.
Modern Usage:
This is what happens when couples get stuck in cycles of fighting, making up, and fighting again until they're both worn down.
Characters in This Chapter
Anna
Tragic heroine
Her jealousy and emotional instability are destroying her relationship with Vronsky. She swings between desperate attempts to hold onto him and bitter accusations that push him away.
Modern Equivalent:
The person who checks their partner's phone constantly and creates fights to test if they still care
Vronsky
Conflicted lover
He's trapped between genuine feelings for Anna and exhaustion with the constant drama. His love is being killed by the very intensity that created it.
Modern Equivalent:
The partner who still cares but is emotionally drained from all the fights and accusations
Levin
Outside observer
He watches Anna and Vronsky's relationship fall apart and sees how different his own stable marriage with Kitty is. He represents the alternative path of choosing stability over passion.
Modern Equivalent:
The friend who visits a couple and realizes how much drama and chaos they live with compared to his own peaceful relationship
Kitty
Contrast figure
Though not directly present, her relationship with Levin serves as a counterpoint to Anna and Vronsky's destructive passion. She represents love built on mutual respect.
Modern Equivalent:
The partner in a healthy relationship who communicates openly instead of creating drama
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to identify when intense focus creates unhealthy pressure that damages what you're trying to protect.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when you feel like one relationship or situation is your whole world - that's your signal to reach out to someone outside the bubble.
You have the foundation. Now let's look closer.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"He felt that he was witnessing the slow destruction of two people who had once loved each other deeply."
Context: Levin realizes he's watching something deeply private and painful unfold
This shows how love can become its own destroyer when it lacks the foundation of stability and mutual respect. Tolstoy reveals that intense passion without wisdom leads to mutual destruction.
In Today's Words:
He could see that these two people were slowly killing each other with their love.
"Her jealousy had become a living thing that devoured everything in its path."
Context: Anna's emotional state has reached a breaking point
Tolstoy shows how unchecked jealousy becomes destructive not just to the person feeling it, but to everyone around them. It transforms love into something toxic.
In Today's Words:
Her jealousy was like a monster that destroyed everything good in their relationship.
"The very intensity of their connection had become their prison."
Context: Describing how Anna and Vronsky's passionate love has trapped them
This reveals Tolstoy's insight that relationships based purely on intense emotion can become self-destructive. Without other foundations, passion consumes itself.
In Today's Words:
They were so obsessed with each other that they couldn't have a normal, healthy relationship.
Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Passionate Isolation - When Love Becomes Prison
When intense focus on one relationship or situation cuts us off from outside support, creating pressure that destroys what we're trying to protect.
Thematic Threads
Isolation
In This Chapter
Anna and Vronsky's relationship has become completely cut off from society, creating unbearable internal pressure
Development
Evolved from earlier social ostracism to complete emotional imprisonment
In Your Life:
You might recognize this when you realize you've stopped talking to friends because 'they wouldn't understand' your situation.
Passion
In This Chapter
Their intense love has transformed from a source of joy into a source of constant suffering and jealousy
Development
Passion has shifted from liberating force to destructive obsession
In Your Life:
This appears when you find yourself saying 'I love you so much it hurts' and meaning it literally.
Social Expectations
In This Chapter
The cost of defying social norms becomes clear as their isolation deepens
Development
Consequences of earlier rebellion against society now fully manifest
In Your Life:
You see this when choices that felt brave and independent start feeling lonely and unsustainable.
Observation
In This Chapter
Levin serves as witness to the destruction, representing an alternative path based on stability rather than intensity
Development
Levin's perspective provides contrast to show different approaches to love
In Your Life:
This is the uncomfortable moment when you watch someone else's drama and recognize patterns you want to avoid.
Relationships
In This Chapter
The chapter contrasts destructive passionate love with healthy partnership through Levin's perspective
Development
Clear distinction emerges between sustainable and unsustainable relationship models
In Your Life:
You experience this when comparing your relationship to others and questioning which model actually leads to happiness.
Modern Adaptation
When the Affair Becomes Your Whole World
Following Anna's story...
Anna's secret relationship with Marcus has consumed everything. They meet at his apartment during her lunch breaks, text constantly, and she's stopped hanging out with her law school friends or calling her sister. What started as exciting stolen moments has become suffocating - every conversation is about their relationship, every decision revolves around when they can see each other next. Anna finds herself checking his social media obsessively, getting angry when he doesn't respond immediately, and feeling like she can't breathe when they're apart. Marcus is pulling back, exhausted by the intensity, which only makes Anna cling harder. She's isolated herself so completely that she has no one to talk to about what's happening. Her work is suffering, her relationship with her daughter is strained, and she feels trapped in a cycle where the thing she thought would save her is slowly destroying everything she worked for.
The Road
The road Anna Karenina walked in 1877, Anna walks today. The pattern is identical: passionate isolation that cuts off all outside support until the relationship becomes a pressure cooker that destroys both people involved.
The Map
This chapter shows Anna how to recognize when intensity becomes isolation. The navigation tool is maintaining connection bridges - keeping at least two relationships active outside the drama to maintain perspective and prevent emotional claustrophobia.
Amplification
Before reading this, Anna might have thought cutting off friends showed loyalty to Marcus and that their problems meant they needed to be even closer. Now she can NAME the Passionate Isolation Pattern, PREDICT how it leads to suffocation, and NAVIGATE by deliberately reconnecting with her sister and one law school friend.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
What does Levin observe about Anna and Vronsky's relationship that makes him uncomfortable?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does their intense passion seem to be destroying their relationship rather than strengthening it?
analysis • medium - 3
Where do you see people today getting so focused on one relationship or crisis that they cut themselves off from friends and family?
application • medium - 4
How could Anna and Vronsky have maintained healthier boundaries while still honoring their feelings for each other?
application • deep - 5
What does this chapter reveal about the difference between sustainable love and destructive obsession?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Connection Bridges
Think about the most intense situation in your life right now - a relationship, work stress, family crisis, or personal challenge. Draw a simple map showing this situation in the center, then identify all the people and activities that exist outside of it. Mark which connections you've maintained and which ones you've let slide since this situation intensified.
Consider:
- •Notice if you've been making one situation your entire world
- •Identify which outside connections help you maintain perspective
- •Consider how isolation might be amplifying the pressure you feel
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you got so absorbed in one relationship or problem that you lost touch with friends or activities that normally grounded you. What happened to your perspective during that time?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 138
What lies ahead teaches us key events and character development in this chapter, and shows us thematic elements and literary techniques. These patterns appear in literature and life alike.