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CHAPTER X “Bless this food to our use and consecrate our lives to Thy service,” said Uncle Herbert briskly. Aunt Wellington frowned. She always considered Herbert’s graces entirely too short and “flippant.” A grace, to be a grace in Aunt Wellington’s eyes, had to be at least three minutes long and uttered in an unearthly tone, between a groan and a chant. As a protest she kept her head bent a perceptible time after all the rest had been lifted. When she permitted herself to sit upright she found Valancy looking at her. Ever afterwards Aunt Wellington averred that she had known from that moment that there was something wrong with Valancy. In those queer, slanted eyes of hers—“we should always have known she was not entirely _right_ with eyes like that”—there was an odd gleam of mockery and amusement—as if Valancy were laughing at _her_. Such a thing was unthinkable, of course. Aunt Wellington at once ceased to think it. Valancy was enjoying herself. She had never enjoyed herself at a “family reunion” before. In social functions, as in childish games, she had only “filled in.” Her clan had always considered her very dull. She had no parlour tricks. And she had been in the habit of taking refuge from the boredom of family parties in her Blue Castle, which resulted in an absent-mindedness that increased her reputation for dulness and vacuity. “She has no social presence whatever,” Aunt Wellington had decreed once and for all. Nobody dreamed that...
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Summary
At the family dinner, Valancy experiences a profound shift in how she sees her relatives—and how they see her. For the first time, she's not afraid of them, and this freedom transforms everything. She notices Uncle Herbert giving her a second look and extra turkey, while Aunt Wellington senses something different about Valancy's eyes—a new gleam of mockery and amusement that unsettles her. Valancy methodically observes each family member with brutal honesty: Aunt Mildred's boring self-importance, Cousin Gladys's convenient neuritis, Aunt Isabel's multiple chins and sharp tongue, Uncle James's soul-crushing solemnity. She sees them as they really are—flawed, petty, ordinary people she once feared and revered. The chapter culminates with Valancy's assessment of her beautiful cousin Olive, the family paragon who has everything Valancy lacks: beauty, confidence, admirers, and a bright future with her fiancé Cecil. Yet even while acknowledging Olive's stunning appearance and success, Valancy perceives something missing—describing her as 'like a dewless morning.' This moment represents Valancy's psychological liberation from the family dynamics that have oppressed her for twenty-nine years. Her new clarity of vision extends beyond just seeing others differently; she's beginning to see herself as someone worthy of notice and respect.
That's what happens. To understand what the author is really doing—and to discuss this chapter with confidence—keep reading.
Terms to Know
Family reunion
A formal gathering where extended family members come together, often with strict social expectations and hierarchies. In 1920s Canada, these were serious affairs with proper etiquette and unspoken rules about behavior and conversation.
Modern Usage:
We still have family gatherings where everyone puts on their 'best behavior' and certain relatives dominate the conversation while others feel invisible.
Parlour tricks
Social skills or talents that made someone entertaining at gatherings - playing piano, reciting poetry, or witty conversation. Having these abilities determined your social value and whether you were considered interesting company.
Modern Usage:
Today's equivalent might be being good at small talk, having Instagram-worthy hobbies, or being the person who always has funny stories to tell at parties.
Social presence
The ability to command attention and respect in social situations through confidence, charm, or conversational skills. Without it, you were considered dull and forgettable by society's standards.
Modern Usage:
We call this charisma or 'main character energy' - some people naturally draw attention and seem confident in any room they enter.
Filling in
Being present at social events only to make up numbers, not because you contribute anything meaningful. You're there but essentially invisible, neither sought out nor particularly noticed.
Modern Usage:
Like being the person who gets invited to events because someone needs a plus-one, but you spend most of the time on your phone in the corner.
Absent-mindedness
The habit of mentally escaping boring situations by daydreaming or retreating into your own thoughts. In Valancy's time, this was seen as a character flaw rather than a coping mechanism.
Modern Usage:
We might call this 'spacing out' or 'dissociating' - mentally checking out when situations feel overwhelming or tedious.
Dewless morning
A poetic way of describing something beautiful but lacking freshness or life. Dew represents vitality and natural beauty, so a dewless morning suggests something is missing despite surface perfection.
Modern Usage:
Like describing someone as 'Instagram perfect but somehow empty' - they look amazing but lack genuine warmth or depth.
Characters in This Chapter
Valancy
Protagonist experiencing transformation
She's seeing her family clearly for the first time, no longer intimidated by them. This new perspective gives her confidence and amusement rather than fear, marking a major psychological shift in her character development.
Modern Equivalent:
The quiet person who finally stops caring what toxic family members think
Aunt Wellington
Judgmental family matriarch
She notices something different about Valancy's eyes and feels unsettled by it. Her discomfort shows how Valancy's new confidence threatens the family power structure that kept her submissive.
Modern Equivalent:
The controlling relative who freaks out when the family scapegoat stops playing their role
Uncle Herbert
Mild family member
He gives Valancy a second look and extra turkey, suggesting he's beginning to notice her as a person rather than just overlooking her as usual.
Modern Equivalent:
The family member who's not mean but never really paid attention to you before
Olive
Perfect cousin and family favorite
She represents everything Valancy has been told she should be - beautiful, accomplished, engaged. Yet Valancy now sees her as lacking something essential despite her surface perfection.
Modern Equivalent:
The golden child cousin who seems to have it all together but somehow feels hollow
Aunt Mildred
Self-important family member
Valancy observes her with new clarity, seeing through her pretensions and boring self-importance rather than being impressed by her authority.
Modern Equivalent:
The relative who thinks they're fascinating but actually just loves the sound of their own voice
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how fear distorts our perception of others, making ordinary people seem like giants or threats.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when you feel intimidated by someone and ask yourself: what would I see if I weren't afraid of them?
You have the foundation. Now let's look closer.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"She had never enjoyed herself at a 'family reunion' before."
Context: Valancy realizes she's actually having fun for the first time at a family gathering
This marks a complete reversal in Valancy's experience. Her newfound confidence transforms what was once torture into entertainment, showing how our internal state shapes our external reality.
In Today's Words:
For the first time ever, she wasn't miserable at a family dinner.
"We should always have known she was not entirely right with eyes like that."
Context: Aunt Wellington reflects on the strange new gleam in Valancy's eyes
This reveals how the family has always looked for reasons to dismiss Valancy. Now that she's showing confidence, they're scrambling to pathologize it rather than accept her transformation.
In Today's Words:
We should have known something was off about her - just look at those weird eyes.
"She has no social presence whatever."
Context: A past judgment that Valancy remembers while observing the family
This past criticism now seems irrelevant as Valancy develops real confidence. It shows how family labels can stick long past their expiration date and how liberation involves rejecting these limiting definitions.
In Today's Words:
She's completely forgettable and has zero personality.
Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Clear Seeing
Fear makes us see people as either giants or monsters instead of the ordinary humans they actually are.
Thematic Threads
Fear
In This Chapter
Valancy's lifelong terror of family judgment evaporates, allowing her to see them clearly
Development
Evolved from paralyzing anxiety to complete liberation
In Your Life:
You might recognize how fear of certain people's opinions has kept you from seeing their actual flaws and limitations.
Identity
In This Chapter
Valancy discovers she's someone worth Uncle Herbert's extra attention and kindness
Development
Growing from invisible family burden to someone who commands notice
In Your Life:
You might realize that changing how you see yourself changes how others respond to you.
Class
In This Chapter
Valancy sees through the family's pretensions to their ordinary, middle-class reality
Development
Developing from intimidation by perceived superiority to recognition of shared humanity
In Your Life:
You might notice how certain people use small status markers to seem more important than they actually are.
Social Expectations
In This Chapter
The family dynamics that once controlled Valancy now seem absurd and powerless
Development
Shifting from desperate conformity to amused observation
In Your Life:
You might recognize family or workplace rules that seem important but actually have no real power over you.
Perception
In This Chapter
Valancy's new clarity extends to seeing Olive's beauty but also her emptiness
Development
Introduced here as a new capacity for seeing both surface and depth
In Your Life:
You might start noticing when someone looks perfect on the outside but something essential is missing.
Modern Adaptation
When Fear Lifts
Following Valancy's story...
At the annual family barbecue, Valancy feels different. Since her diagnosis, the fear that used to grip her stomach around relatives has vanished. Uncle Dave actually gives her a second helping and asks about her job. Aunt Linda keeps staring, unsettled by something new in Valancy's eyes—a spark of amusement where terror used to live. For the first time, Valancy really sees them: Cousin Sarah's constant complaining about her 'perfect' life, Uncle Mike's desperate need to be the center of attention, Aunt Carol's passive-aggressive digs disguised as concern. They're not the intimidating judges she once thought—they're just ordinary people with their own insecurities and flaws. Even her golden cousin Emma, the family success story with her nursing degree and doctor boyfriend, seems somehow incomplete despite her obvious advantages. Without fear clouding her vision, Valancy observes the family dynamics with startling clarity, recognizing patterns she'd been too scared to see before.
The Road
The road Valancy walked in 1926, Valancy walks today. The pattern is identical: when we stop fearing people, we finally see them clearly for who they really are.
The Map
This chapter provides a navigation tool for reading people accurately. When fear lifts, you gain X-ray vision into family and workplace dynamics.
Amplification
Before reading this, Valancy might have continued seeing intimidating relatives as powerful judges. Now they can NAME the fear distortion, PREDICT how it clouds judgment, NAVIGATE relationships with clearer vision.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
What changes in Valancy's behavior do her relatives notice at the dinner, and how do they react to these changes?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does losing her fear allow Valancy to see her family members so clearly for the first time?
analysis • medium - 3
Think about a time when you stopped being afraid of someone (a boss, teacher, popular person). How did your perception of them change?
application • medium - 4
When you're afraid of someone, what strategies could you use to see them more clearly without being disrespectful?
application • deep - 5
What does Valancy's new ability to see both Olive's beauty and her 'dewless morning' quality teach us about balanced perception?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Fear Distortions
Think of someone who intimidates you or makes you nervous. Write down three things that seem powerful or perfect about them. Then, imagine you're observing them from a place of complete emotional safety - what ordinary human qualities might you notice? What fears might be making them seem larger than life?
Consider:
- •Fear often makes us focus only on someone's strengths while ignoring their struggles
- •People who seem confident often have their own insecurities and challenges
- •Notice whether you're seeing the person or seeing your own projection of power
Journaling Prompt
Write about a relationship where fear has distorted your perception. How might that relationship change if you could see the person clearly, without the fear filter?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 11: Valancy's Dinner Party Revolution
As the story unfolds, you'll explore to recognize when family dynamics are toxic and suffocating, while uncovering the power of speaking your truth, even when it shocks everyone. These lessons connect the classic to contemporary challenges we all face.