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CHAPTER XXIII On one of Cissy’s wakeful nights, she told Valancy her poor little story. They were sitting by the open window. Cissy could not get her breath lying down that night. An inglorious gibbous moon was hanging over the wooded hills and in its spectral light Cissy looked frail and lovely and incredibly young. A child. It did not seem possible that she could have lived through all the passion and pain and shame of her story. “He was stopping at the hotel across the lake. He used to come over in his canoe at night—we met in the pines down the shore. He was a young college student—his father was a rich man in Toronto. Oh, Valancy, I didn’t mean to be bad—I didn’t, indeed. But I loved him so—I love him yet—I’ll always love him. And I—didn’t know—some things. I didn’t—understand. Then his father came and took him away. And—after a little—I found out—oh, Valancy,—I was so frightened. I didn’t know what to do. I wrote him—and he came. He—he said he would marry me, Valancy.” “And why—and why?——” “Oh, Valancy, he didn’t love me any more. I saw that at a glance. He—he was just offering to marry me because he thought he ought to—because he was sorry for me. He wasn’t bad—but he was so young—and what was I that he should keep on loving me?” “Never mind making excuses for him,” said Valancy a bit shortly. “So you wouldn’t marry him?” “I couldn’t—not when...
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Summary
On a restless night, Cissy finally tells Valancy her story. She fell in love with a college student from Toronto who visited in secret. When she became pregnant, he offered to marry her out of duty, not love. Cissy refused, choosing the pain of unmarried motherhood over a loveless marriage. She describes the joy of her baby son—his blue eyes, golden hair, and sweet nature—and the devastating grief when he died. Now facing her own death, she finds peace in having shared her truth. A few nights later, Cissy dies quietly in Valancy's arms, smiling at something only she can see as the sun rises. Valancy watches an old moon fade into dawn, struck by how peacefully death can come. When Roaring Abel returns to find his daughter gone, he remembers the innocent girl who used to greet him with flowers in her hair. This chapter reveals the power of unconditional presence during someone's final moments. Cissy's story shows how love without judgment can transform shame into dignity. Her peaceful death teaches Valancy—and us—that dying doesn't have to be fearsome when you're not alone. The chapter explores how witnessing authentic courage, whether in life choices or death, can shift our understanding of what really matters.
That's what happens. To understand what the author is really doing—and to discuss this chapter with confidence—keep reading.
Terms to Know
Gibbous moon
A moon that's more than half full but not quite full, creating an eerie, uneven light. Montgomery uses this atmospheric detail to set the mood for Cissy's confession - the imperfect light mirrors the incomplete, shadowy nature of her story.
Modern Usage:
We still use lighting to create mood in movies and photography - dim, uneven lighting suggests something serious or mysterious is about to happen.
Fallen woman
A Victorian-era term for a woman who had sex outside marriage, especially if she became pregnant. Society viewed such women as permanently ruined and shameful. Cissy represents this social category but Montgomery treats her with dignity.
Modern Usage:
We still judge women more harshly than men for sexual choices, though the language has changed - terms like 'slut-shaming' describe the same basic pattern.
Duty marriage
When someone offers to marry not from love but from obligation or social pressure. Cissy's lover offered marriage because he felt he 'ought to,' not because he wanted to build a life with her.
Modern Usage:
Today we see this in relationships where people stay together 'for the kids' or get married because of pregnancy, even when love has died.
Social class barriers
The invisible walls between rich and poor that determine who can marry whom. Cissy's lover was from a wealthy Toronto family while she was a poor girl from the backwoods - a gap too wide for 1920s society to accept.
Modern Usage:
Dating apps and social media make these barriers more visible today - people often filter by education, income, or lifestyle before even meeting.
Unmarked grave
A burial without a headstone or marker, often used for those society deemed unworthy of remembrance. Cissy's baby would have been buried this way as an 'illegitimate' child.
Modern Usage:
We still see this pattern in how society remembers or forgets certain people - whose stories get told and whose get erased from official records.
Death vigil
The practice of staying awake with someone who is dying, providing comfort and ensuring they don't die alone. Valancy keeps this vigil with Cissy, showing love through presence rather than words.
Modern Usage:
Hospice care and 'death doulas' continue this tradition, recognizing that how we die matters as much as how we live.
Characters in This Chapter
Cissy
Dying confessor
Finally tells her story of love, betrayal, motherhood, and loss. Her peaceful death after sharing her truth shows how confession and acceptance can bring dignity to suffering.
Modern Equivalent:
The friend who's been carrying a secret shame for years and finally finds the courage to tell someone who won't judge
Valancy
Compassionate witness
Listens to Cissy's story without judgment and stays with her through death. Her presence transforms what could have been a lonely, shameful end into something peaceful and dignified.
Modern Equivalent:
The person who shows up during your worst moments and just sits with you without trying to fix everything
Cissy's lover
Absent coward
Though not physically present, his actions drive the story. He represents men who take what they want but abandon responsibility when consequences arise, offering duty instead of love when caught.
Modern Equivalent:
The guy who ghosts you after things get serious, then offers a half-hearted relationship when he feels guilty
Roaring Abel
Grieving father
Returns to find his daughter dead and remembers her as the innocent child she once was. His grief shows how death strips away judgment and returns us to love.
Modern Equivalent:
The parent who's been estranged from their child and only realizes what they've lost after it's too late
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to become someone others can confide in by offering presence without judgment.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when someone starts to share something vulnerable—resist the urge to give advice and instead ask 'How did that feel for you?'
You have the foundation. Now let's look closer.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"I couldn't—not when he didn't love me any more. I couldn't marry him just because he was sorry for me."
Context: Explaining why she refused marriage when her lover offered it out of duty
This shows Cissy's dignity and self-respect despite society's judgment. She chose the harder path of single motherhood rather than accept a loveless marriage based on pity.
In Today's Words:
I couldn't marry someone who was only with me out of guilt - I'd rather be alone than settle for someone who doesn't actually want me.
"He was so little and sweet, Valancy—with such blue, blue eyes and little golden rings of hair."
Context: Describing her baby son who died
Cissy transforms her 'shameful' experience into something beautiful by focusing on the joy her child brought, not society's judgment. Her love redeems what others called sin.
In Today's Words:
He was the most beautiful little boy - those bright blue eyes and curly blonde hair - he was perfect.
"She was smiling—as if she saw something lovely that they could not see."
Context: Describing Cissy's expression as she dies
Death becomes not an ending but a reunion. Cissy's peaceful smile suggests she's seeing her child again, transforming death from fearsome to hopeful.
In Today's Words:
She looked happy, like she was seeing something beautiful that no one else could see.
Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Witnessed Dignity - How Presence Transforms Shame into Peace
Shame transforms into dignity when someone witnesses our truth with compassion rather than judgment.
Thematic Threads
Social Expectations
In This Chapter
Cissy's unmarried motherhood brings social shame and isolation from her community
Development
Evolved from Valancy's family expectations to Cissy's more severe social punishment
In Your Life:
You might feel this when your life choices don't match what others expect of you.
Authentic Love
In This Chapter
Cissy chooses genuine love over socially acceptable but empty marriage
Development
Builds on Valancy's growing understanding of real versus performed love
In Your Life:
You face this choice when deciding between what looks right and what feels true.
Human Connection
In This Chapter
Valancy's non-judgmental presence allows Cissy to share her deepest truth
Development
Shows Valancy's growth from isolated to genuinely connecting with others
In Your Life:
You experience this when someone truly listens to you without trying to fix or judge.
Dignity in Death
In This Chapter
Cissy dies peacefully, having been witnessed and accepted for who she truly was
Development
Introduced here as new understanding of what peaceful death requires
In Your Life:
You might see this when sitting with someone who's dying and offering your simple presence.
Courage
In This Chapter
Cissy's choice to refuse loveless marriage shows quiet but profound bravery
Development
Contrasts with Valancy's earlier timidity, showing different forms of courage
In Your Life:
You show this courage when you choose difficult truth over easy acceptance.
Modern Adaptation
When Someone Finally Listens
Following Valancy's story...
Valancy sits with her elderly patient Mrs. Chen during the night shift at the nursing home. Mrs. Chen has been agitated for weeks, but tonight she finally opens up. She tells Valancy about the daughter she gave up for adoption sixty years ago—how she was unmarried, how her family disowned her, how she's carried the shame alone ever since. She describes holding her baby girl for one precious hour before the social worker took her away. Mrs. Chen has been dying slowly, but as she shares her story with Valancy—who listens without judgment, just holding her hand—something shifts. Her breathing becomes peaceful. Three days later, Mrs. Chen dies quietly during Valancy's shift, smiling as she whispers her daughter's name. Valancy realizes she witnessed something sacred: how shame transforms into dignity when someone finally listens without condemning. She thinks about her own secrets, her own need to be heard without judgment.
The Road
The road Cissy walked in 1926, Valancy walks today. The pattern is identical: shame dissolves when met with unconditional witness rather than judgment.
The Map
This chapter provides a navigation tool for both giving and receiving compassion. When someone trusts you with their deepest shame, your job is to witness, not judge.
Amplification
Before reading this, Valancy might have rushed to offer advice or tried to 'fix' people's problems. Now she can NAME the difference between witnessing and judging, PREDICT how shame transforms in the light of acceptance, and NAVIGATE her role as a compassionate presence.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
What finally allows Cissy to share her story with Valancy, and how does she describe her experience of love and loss?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does Cissy choose to refuse marriage to her baby's father, even though it would solve her social problems?
analysis • medium - 3
Where do you see people today carrying shame alone that might transform if they found the right person to listen?
application • medium - 4
How would you create the kind of safe space that allows someone to share their deepest truth without fear of judgment?
application • deep - 5
What does Cissy's peaceful death teach us about the power of being truly seen and accepted before we die?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Practice Being a Safe Witness
Think of someone in your life who might be carrying a burden alone. Write down three specific things you could say or do to signal that you're a safe person to talk to, without forcing them to share. Focus on creating invitation, not interrogation.
Consider:
- •Safe witnesses listen more than they talk
- •Questions like 'How are you really doing?' work better than 'What's wrong?'
- •Your reaction to small truths determines if someone will share bigger ones
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when someone listened to you without trying to fix you or judge you. How did that change how you felt about your situation?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 24: Death Makes Everything Respectable
Moving forward, we'll examine death can suddenly change society's judgment of someone's life, and understand people often show up for appearances rather than genuine care. These insights bridge the gap between classic literature and modern experience.