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OF THE DELECTABLE DISCOURSE WHICH THE DUCHESS AND HER DAMSELS HELD WITH SANCHO PANZA, WELL WORTH READING AND NOTING The history records that Sancho did not sleep that afternoon, but in order to keep his word came, before he had well done dinner, to visit the duchess, who, finding enjoyment in listening to him, made him sit down beside her on a low seat, though Sancho, out of pure good breeding, wanted not to sit down; the duchess, however, told him he was to sit down as governor and talk as squire, as in both respects he was worthy of even the chair of the Cid Ruy Diaz the Campeador. Sancho shrugged his shoulders, obeyed, and sat down, and all the duchess’s damsels and duennas gathered round him, waiting in profound silence to hear what he would say. It was the duchess, however, who spoke first, saying: “Now that we are alone, and that there is nobody here to overhear us, I should be glad if the señor governor would relieve me of certain doubts I have, rising out of the history of the great Don Quixote that is now in print. One is: inasmuch as worthy Sancho never saw Dulcinea, I mean the lady Dulcinea del Toboso, nor took Don Quixote’s letter to her, for it was left in the memorandum book in the Sierra Morena, how did he dare to invent the answer and all that about finding her sifting wheat, the whole story being a deception and...
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Summary
In a private conversation with the Duchess, Sancho reveals his most honest thoughts about his relationship with Don Quixote. He admits he knows his master is 'stark mad' but explains why he remains loyal anyway—they're from the same village, he's grateful, and he's faithful by nature. Sancho confesses that he invented the story about Dulcinea being enchanted to avoid Don Quixote's scolding, showing remarkable self-awareness about his own deceptions. When the Duchess questions whether a fool like him should govern an island, Sancho responds with characteristic wisdom wrapped in folksy proverbs, essentially saying he'd rather be a simple laborer than a corrupt ruler. The Duchess, impressed by his honesty and natural wisdom, reassures him that the promised governorship will come. This chapter reveals Sancho's growth into someone who can be both loyal and truthful, both humble and confident. His willingness to admit his faults while standing firm in his values shows a kind of emotional intelligence that many 'wiser' characters lack. The conversation demonstrates that real wisdom often comes not from education or status, but from lived experience and genuine self-knowledge.
That's what happens. To understand what the author is really doing—and to discuss this chapter with confidence—keep reading.
Terms to Know
Duenna
A Spanish chaperone or governess, typically an older woman who supervised younger ladies in noble households. These women held positions of trust and authority in managing social interactions and maintaining propriety.
Modern Usage:
Like a combination of personal assistant and social media manager for wealthy families today.
Governor
In Don Quixote's world, governors ruled islands or territories, often appointed by nobles as rewards for service. The position carried real power and responsibility, making it a significant social advancement for someone like Sancho.
Modern Usage:
Similar to being promoted from hourly worker to regional manager - a huge leap in status and responsibility.
Enchantment
A magical spell that changes someone's appearance or behavior. In this story, characters often claim enchantment to explain away uncomfortable truths or justify their actions.
Modern Usage:
Like saying someone is 'not themselves' or blaming outside forces when we don't want to face reality.
Good breeding
Proper manners and social etiquette expected of people in polite society. It involved knowing your place in the social hierarchy and acting accordingly.
Modern Usage:
Today's version of 'having class' or knowing how to act professionally in different situations.
Memorandum book
A small notebook for recording important information, letters, or reminders. In this era before widespread literacy, keeping written records was a mark of education and organization.
Modern Usage:
Like keeping notes in your phone or having a planner - a way to remember important things.
Sierra Morena
A mountain range in southern Spain where Don Quixote went to do penance and write love letters. It represents a wild, isolated place where reality and fantasy blur together.
Modern Usage:
Like going off-grid to 'find yourself' or taking a retreat when life gets overwhelming.
Characters in This Chapter
Sancho Panza
Protagonist's loyal companion
Shows remarkable honesty about his master's madness while explaining why he stays loyal anyway. Reveals his own deceptions but stands firm in his values about preferring honest poverty to corrupt power.
Modern Equivalent:
The friend who knows their buddy has problems but sticks by them anyway
The Duchess
Noble interrogator
Questions Sancho about his lies and contradictions, testing his wisdom and character. She's genuinely curious about how someone 'simple' can show such insight and moral clarity.
Modern Equivalent:
The HR director who interviews you for a promotion
Don Quixote
Absent master
Though not present, his influence dominates the conversation. Sancho's loyalty to him despite knowing he's 'stark mad' reveals the complexity of their relationship.
Modern Equivalent:
The difficult boss everyone talks about when they're not around
Dulcinea del Toboso
Fictional beloved
The subject of Sancho's admitted deception - he made up stories about her being enchanted to avoid Don Quixote's anger, showing how lies can spiral out of control.
Modern Equivalent:
The perfect girlfriend who only exists on social media
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to recognize when someone questions you out of care versus when they're trying to undermine your confidence.
Practice This Today
Next time someone challenges your decision, listen for whether they're asking questions to understand or to prove you wrong—then respond accordingly.
You have the foundation. Now let's look closer.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"I know he is stark mad, but for all that, and even worse, I follow and serve him, and keep faith with him"
Context: Sancho admits the truth about Don Quixote's mental state to the Duchess
This shows Sancho's remarkable emotional intelligence - he can see reality clearly while still choosing loyalty based on gratitude and shared history. It's not blind devotion but conscious choice.
In Today's Words:
Yeah, I know my friend is completely nuts, but I'm still going to have their back
"I'd rather be a good man under a fig tree than a bad governor in a palace"
Context: Sancho explains his values when questioned about his fitness to govern
This reveals Sancho's core wisdom - he values integrity over status. He understands that power without character leads to corruption, showing moral clarity that many educated people lack.
In Today's Words:
I'd rather stay broke and honest than get rich by screwing people over
"The whole story being a deception and falsehood, or at least something very like it"
Context: She's questioning Sancho about his made-up stories regarding Dulcinea
The Duchess is testing whether Sancho will continue lying or come clean. Her phrasing shows she already suspects the truth but wants to see if he has the courage to admit it.
In Today's Words:
We both know you're making this up, so are you going to keep lying to my face?
Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Honest Loyalty
The ability to see someone's flaws clearly while choosing to remain committed based on deeper values and shared history.
Thematic Threads
Class
In This Chapter
Sancho proves that wisdom doesn't require education or status—his honest self-reflection impresses the educated Duchess
Development
Evolved from early comedy about class differences to serious exploration of where real wisdom comes from
In Your Life:
You might find your practical experience gives you insights that college-educated colleagues miss
Identity
In This Chapter
Sancho shows remarkable self-knowledge, admitting his deceptions while standing firm in his core values
Development
Developed from simple peasant character to someone with complex understanding of his own motivations
In Your Life:
You might discover that knowing your flaws honestly makes you stronger, not weaker
Personal Growth
In This Chapter
Sancho demonstrates emotional maturity by being both loyal and truthful, no longer seeing them as contradictory
Development
Culmination of his journey from simple follower to wise companion who can balance competing values
In Your Life:
You might learn that growing up means holding multiple truths at once—loving someone and seeing their problems clearly
Human Relationships
In This Chapter
The friendship between Sancho and Don Quixote deepens through honesty rather than despite it
Development
Evolved from master-servant dynamic to genuine partnership based on mutual understanding
In Your Life:
You might find that your closest relationships are with people who see your flaws and choose to stay anyway
Social Expectations
In This Chapter
Sancho rejects the idea that he must be corrupt to govern, preferring honest simplicity to dishonest power
Development
Built on earlier themes about how society expects certain behaviors from certain classes
In Your Life:
You might face pressure to compromise your values for advancement and have to choose what matters more
Modern Adaptation
When Your Best Friend Questions Your Dream
Following Daniel's story...
Daniel's longtime friend Marcus pulls him aside at their high school reunion. 'I know you think this food truck idea is going to work,' Marcus says, 'but man, you're 52. You had a good thing going at the plant.' Daniel finds himself being completely honest for the first time in months. He admits the business is struggling, that he's burned through most of his savings, that some nights he lies awake wondering if everyone's right about him being crazy. But then he explains why he can't go back: 'I'd rather fail at something I believe in than succeed at something that was killing my soul.' Marcus, surprised by Daniel's raw honesty, asks how he can help. Daniel realizes that admitting his fears out loud doesn't make him weak—it makes his commitment stronger. His friend's willingness to listen, really listen, reminds him that the people who matter will stick around even when they think you're making mistakes.
The Road
The road Sancho walked in 1605, Daniel walks today. The pattern is identical: honest loyalty means seeing someone's flaws clearly while choosing commitment anyway—even when that someone is yourself.
The Map
This chapter provides a navigation tool for maintaining relationships during life transitions. When people question your choices, respond with honest self-assessment plus clear commitment to your path.
Amplification
Before reading this, Daniel might have gotten defensive or cut off doubting friends. Now he can NAME the difference between concern and criticism, PREDICT which friends will support him through honesty, and NAVIGATE difficult conversations with both vulnerability and strength.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
What does Sancho admit to the Duchess about Don Quixote, and why does he stay loyal despite knowing this?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does Sancho confess to lying about Dulcinea's enchantment, and what does this reveal about his character growth?
analysis • medium - 3
Think of someone in your life whose flaws you can see clearly but whom you choose to stay loyal to anyway. What keeps you committed?
application • medium - 4
How do you balance honesty about someone's problems with maintaining a relationship with them? When does loyalty become enabling?
application • deep - 5
What's the difference between blind loyalty and conscious commitment? Which one leads to healthier relationships?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Loyalty Choices
Think of three important relationships in your life. For each one, write down one major flaw or frustrating trait you see clearly, then identify what you value about the relationship despite that flaw. Notice the difference between relationships where you've made a conscious choice to stay committed versus those where you're loyal out of habit or guilt.
Consider:
- •Are you staying loyal because you've chosen to, or because you feel you have to?
- •Which flaws can you live with, and which ones cross your boundaries?
- •How do you show loyalty while still being honest about problems?
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you had to decide whether to stay loyal to someone despite their flaws. What helped you make that decision, and how did it turn out?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 106: The Elaborate Hunt and Demon's Message
As the story unfolds, you'll explore people in power use elaborate schemes to manipulate others for entertainment, while uncovering the difference between practical wisdom and book learning in real situations. These lessons connect the classic to contemporary challenges we all face.