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LETTER LXIII. EVELINA IN CONTINUATION. Bristol Hotwells, Sept. 16th. OH, Sir, Lord Orville is still himself! still what, from the moment I beheld, I believed him to be-all that is amiable in man! and your happy Evelina, restored at once to spirits and tranquillity, is no longer sunk in her own opinion, nor discontented with the world;-no longer, with dejected eyes, sees the prospect of passing her future days in sadness, doubt, and suspicion!-with revived courage she now looks forward, and expects to meet with goodness, even among mankind:-though still she feels, as strongly as ever, the folly of hoping, in any second instance, to meet with perfection. Your conjecture was certainly right; Lord Orville, when he wrote that letter, could not be in his senses. Oh that intemperance should have power to degrade so low, a man so noble! This morning I accompanied Mrs. Selwyn to Clifton Hill, where, beautifully situated, is the house of Mrs. Beaumont. Most uncomfortable were my feelings during our walk, which was very slow; for the agitation of my mind made me more than usually sensible how weak I still continue. As we entered the house, I summoned all my resolution to my aid, determined rather to die than give Lord Orville reason to attribute my weakness to a wrong cause. I was happily relieved from my perturbation, when I saw Mrs. Beaumont was alone. We sat with her for, I believe, an hour without interruption; and then we saw a phaeton drive up...
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Summary
Evelina visits Mrs. Beaumont's house with Mrs. Selwyn, dreading the possibility of seeing Lord Orville after his offensive letter. She encounters his affected sister Lady Louisa, who is engaged to the shallow Lord Merton—a pairing that helps explain some of the earlier social tensions Evelina witnessed. When Lord Orville arrives, Evelina is struck by his genuine warmth and politeness, so different from the cruel tone of his letter. She maintains a cold, distant manner toward him, determined to show her displeasure despite being charmed by his respectful behavior. Her strategy works—Lord Orville clearly notices her changed attitude and becomes more serious himself. When he offers to drive them home in his phaeton, Evelina initially refuses but then accepts, and during the careful, courteous ride, her resentment begins to dissolve. She realizes that his current behavior proves the letter couldn't have been written in his right mind, likely due to drinking. Mrs. Selwyn comments on Lord Orville's old-fashioned politeness, and Evelina concludes she can now abandon her anger without compromising her self-respect. This chapter shows how Evelina has learned to stand up for herself while remaining open to evidence that might change her judgment—a crucial skill for navigating relationships where miscommunication and outside influences can create temporary rifts.
That's what happens. To understand what the author is really doing—and to discuss this chapter with confidence—keep reading.
Terms to Know
phaeton
A light, open carriage pulled by horses, often driven by the owner rather than a coachman. It was considered fashionable and showed off driving skills. The equivalent of a sports car today.
Modern Usage:
We still use personal vehicles to make impressions and show status, like offering someone a ride in your nice car.
Clifton Hill
An upscale area near Bristol known for wealthy residents and beautiful views. Living there was a sign of social status and good taste in the 18th century.
Modern Usage:
Every city has its prestigious neighborhoods where the wealthy live - think Beverly Hills or Manhattan's Upper East Side.
intemperance
Lack of self-control, especially with drinking alcohol. In this era, excessive drinking was seen as degrading to a gentleman's character and reputation.
Modern Usage:
We still judge people harshly for losing control due to drinking, especially when it affects their professional or personal relationships.
conjecture
An educated guess or theory based on incomplete information. Evelina's guardian had guessed that Lord Orville wasn't in his right mind when he wrote the offensive letter.
Modern Usage:
We make conjectures all the time about why people act certain ways, especially when their behavior seems out of character.
perturbation
Mental distress or anxiety that disrupts your normal state of mind. Evelina feels this when anticipating an uncomfortable social encounter.
Modern Usage:
We call this being stressed out or anxious, especially before facing someone after a conflict or misunderstanding.
cold civility
Being polite but distant - following social rules while making it clear you're displeased. A way to show disapproval without being openly rude.
Modern Usage:
This is giving someone the cold shoulder while still being professional - like being formally polite to a coworker you're mad at.
Characters in This Chapter
Evelina
protagonist
She's learned to stand up for herself by maintaining a cold but polite distance from Lord Orville. Her strategy works - he notices her changed attitude and becomes more serious, proving she can defend her dignity without being rude.
Modern Equivalent:
The woman who gives her boyfriend the silent treatment until he figures out what he did wrong
Lord Orville
love interest
His genuine warmth and politeness contrast sharply with the cruel letter, convincing Evelina that he couldn't have written it while sober. He clearly notices her coldness and adjusts his behavior accordingly, showing he respects her feelings.
Modern Equivalent:
The good guy who acts completely different when he's drunk and has to earn back trust
Mrs. Selwyn
chaperone/mentor
She accompanies Evelina and provides commentary on Lord Orville's old-fashioned politeness. Her presence gives Evelina confidence to maintain her dignified stance.
Modern Equivalent:
The wise friend who comes with you for moral support when you have to face an ex
Lady Louisa
social rival
Lord Orville's affected sister who is engaged to the shallow Lord Merton. Her presence helps explain the social tensions and artificial behavior Evelina has witnessed in this social circle.
Modern Equivalent:
The snobby sister-in-law who's marrying someone equally shallow and fake
Mrs. Beaumont
society hostess
The wealthy woman whose house serves as the setting for this crucial encounter. Her absence during part of the visit allows for more intimate conversation.
Modern Equivalent:
The well-connected friend whose house becomes the backdrop for relationship drama
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to evaluate someone's sincerity by observing their response to your changed energy rather than just listening to their words.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when someone hurts you—instead of immediately accepting their explanation, pull back your usual warmth and watch how they respond to the shift.
You have the foundation. Now let's look closer.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"Oh, Sir, Lord Orville is still himself! still what, from the moment I beheld, I believed him to be-all that is amiable in man!"
Context: Writing to her guardian after seeing Lord Orville's true character again
This shows Evelina's relief at discovering that her first impression was right and the cruel letter was an aberration. She's learned to trust her instincts while remaining open to evidence that changes her judgment.
In Today's Words:
Thank God, he's still the good guy I thought he was from the beginning!
"Oh that intemperance should have power to degrade so low, a man so noble!"
Context: Reflecting on how drinking could make Lord Orville write such a cruel letter
Evelina shows wisdom in understanding that good people can do terrible things under the influence, while still holding them accountable for the damage caused.
In Today's Words:
It's so sad how drinking can make even the best people act like complete jerks.
"I summoned all my resolution to my aid, determined rather to die than give Lord Orville reason to attribute my weakness to a wrong cause."
Context: Preparing herself mentally before potentially seeing Lord Orville
This shows Evelina's growth in self-respect and strategic thinking. She's determined to control how others perceive her reactions and won't let anyone misinterpret her feelings.
In Today's Words:
I psyched myself up and decided I'd rather collapse than let him think I was acting weird for the wrong reasons.
Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Strategic Distance - When Pulling Back Creates Progress
Temporarily withdrawing warmth to signal that relationship terms have changed and adjustment is needed.
Thematic Threads
Self-Respect
In This Chapter
Evelina maintains her dignity by staying cold toward Lord Orville despite his charm, refusing to pretend nothing happened
Development
Evolved from earlier passive acceptance to active boundary-setting
In Your Life:
You might need this when someone hurts you but expects everything to go back to normal without acknowledgment.
Communication
In This Chapter
Evelina communicates her displeasure through changed behavior rather than direct confrontation
Development
Shows growing sophistication in her social skills
In Your Life:
You might use this when words haven't worked but you need someone to understand they've crossed a line.
Class Dynamics
In This Chapter
Mrs. Selwyn comments on Lord Orville's 'old-fashioned' politeness, highlighting changing social codes
Development
Continues exploration of how different classes express respect and courtesy
In Your Life:
You might notice this when different generations or backgrounds have different ideas about proper behavior.
Forgiveness
In This Chapter
Evelina allows her anger to dissolve when she sees evidence that Lord Orville wasn't himself when writing the letter
Development
Shows maturity in distinguishing between character and temporary lapses
In Your Life:
You might apply this when deciding whether someone's hurtful action reflects their true character or unusual circumstances.
Social Performance
In This Chapter
Lady Louisa's affected behavior contrasts with Lord Orville's genuine warmth, highlighting authenticity versus artifice
Development
Continues theme of learning to distinguish real from fake in social interactions
In Your Life:
You might use this skill when trying to figure out who's genuine versus who's just playing a role.
Modern Adaptation
When the Promotion Goes Sideways
Following Evelyn's story...
Evelyn arrives at the hospital break room dreading her shift after receiving a harsh text from Marcus, the respiratory therapist she's been getting close to. When she sees him talking with Ashley, the ICU nurse who always acts superior, Evelyn feels her stomach drop. Marcus approaches with his usual warm smile, asking about her weekend plans, but Evelyn keeps her responses short and professional. She notices his confusion at her coldness but maintains her distance. When he offers to walk her to her floor after break, she initially declines, then accepts when he persists. During their walk, his genuine concern and respectful manner remind her why she liked him in the first place. She realizes the harsh text might have been sent when he was stressed after a difficult code situation. His current behavior proves he's not actually cruel, just overwhelmed sometimes.
The Road
The road Evelina walked in 1778, Evelyn walks today. The pattern is identical: using strategic emotional distance to test someone's character and force them to examine their behavior without direct confrontation.
The Map
This chapter provides a navigation tool for relationship conflicts: strategic withdrawal of warmth creates productive tension that allows both people to reassess without losing face. It's more effective than immediate confrontation or explanation.
Amplification
Before reading this, Evelyn might have either exploded in anger or immediately forgiven Marcus, missing the chance to see his true character. Now she can NAME strategic distance, PREDICT how it shifts dynamics, and NAVIGATE conflicts while protecting her self-respect.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
Why does Evelina decide to act cold toward Lord Orville despite his genuine kindness when she sees him?
analysis • surface - 2
How does Lord Orville respond to Evelina's changed behavior, and what does this tell us about his character?
analysis • medium - 3
Think about a time when someone hurt you but then acted normally afterward. How did you handle it, and how might Evelina's approach have worked differently?
application • medium - 4
When is strategic distance more effective than direct confrontation, and when might it backfire?
application • deep - 5
What does Evelina's ability to soften her stance when she sees genuine change teach us about balancing self-protection with forgiveness?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Energy Shifts
Think of a recent situation where someone's behavior toward you changed for the worse. Write down how you typically respond to being hurt or dismissed. Then imagine using Evelina's strategy: staying polite but pulling back your usual warmth. How would this change the dynamic? What signals would you send differently?
Consider:
- •Consider the difference between being cold/rude versus being politely distant
- •Think about how your usual energy level affects others and what happens when you adjust it
- •Notice whether the person in your scenario would be likely to self-reflect or just move on
Journaling Prompt
Write about a relationship where you gave too much energy after being hurt. How might strategic distance have protected your self-respect while creating space for positive change?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 64: Dinner with the Upper Class
Moving forward, we'll examine to navigate social situations where you feel out of place, and understand recognizing when someone's kindness comes from genuine care vs. obligation. These insights bridge the gap between classic literature and modern experience.