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CHAPTER THIRTY-NINE LAZY LAURENCE Laurie went to Nice intending to stay a week, and remained a month. He was tired of wandering about alone, and Amy’s familiar presence seemed to give a homelike charm to the foreign scenes in which she bore a part. He rather missed the ‘petting’ he used to receive, and enjoyed a taste of it again, for no attentions, however flattering, from strangers, were half so pleasant as the sisterly adoration of the girls at home. Amy never would pet him like the others, but she was very glad to see him now, and quite clung to him, feeling that he was the representative of the dear family for whom she longed more than she would confess. They naturally took comfort in each other’s society and were much together, riding, walking, dancing, or dawdling, for at Nice no one can be very industrious during the gay season. But, while apparently amusing themselves in the most careless fashion, they were half-consciously making discoveries and forming opinions about each other. Amy rose daily in the estimation of her friend, but he sank in hers, and each felt the truth before a word was spoken. Amy tried to please, and succeeded, for she was grateful for the many pleasures he gave her, and repaid him with the little services to which womanly women know how to lend an indescribable charm. Laurie made no effort of any kind, but just let himself drift along as comfortably as possible, trying to...
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Summary
Laurie has been drifting through Nice for a month, enjoying Amy's company but sinking into lazy self-indulgence after Jo's rejection. Amy, initially charmed by his attention, grows increasingly disappointed as she watches him waste his talents and opportunities. During a romantic carriage ride to sketch at Valrosa, a villa covered in roses, Amy delivers a brutal but necessary lecture. She calls him 'Lazy Laurence' and systematically tears apart his behavior—pointing out that he's become selfish, wasteful, and content to be petted by silly people instead of earning respect from wise ones. Through careful observation, Amy realizes Laurie is still nursing his broken heart over Jo, symbolized by the little ring Jo gave him that he still wears. Her harsh words sting because they're true: Laurie has been using his heartbreak as an excuse to avoid any real effort or growth. Amy shows him two sketches—one of his current lazy self, another of him dynamically taming a horse in better days. The contrast forces Laurie to see how far he's fallen. Though he tries to brush off her criticism, Amy's lecture hits home. The next morning, he leaves for his grandfather's house, finally ready to stop wallowing. Amy's tough love succeeds where sympathy failed, proving that sometimes the people who care about us most are the ones willing to tell us hard truths. The chapter explores how genuine growth often requires someone brave enough to hold up an unflattering mirror.
That's what happens. To understand what the author is really doing—and to discuss this chapter with confidence—keep reading.
Terms to Know
The Grand Tour
A traditional trip through Europe taken by wealthy young Americans and Europeans in the 1800s, meant to provide cultural education and sophistication. Laurie is essentially on an extended version of this, but wasting the opportunity.
Modern Usage:
Like gap years or study abroad programs today - meant to broaden horizons but sometimes just become expensive ways to avoid responsibility.
Nice (France)
A fashionable resort town on the French Riviera where wealthy people went to socialize during 'the season.' It was known for being a place where you could be idle and indulgent without judgment.
Modern Usage:
Think Miami Beach or the Hamptons - places where rich people go to see and be seen, often avoiding real work or growth.
Sisterly adoration
The unconditional love and admiration the March sisters always showed Laurie, treating him like a beloved brother. He's used to being petted and praised without having to earn it.
Modern Usage:
Like being the favorite child or the friend everyone always coddles - it feels good but doesn't help you grow up.
Womanly women
Alcott's phrase for women who knew how to make small gestures - bringing tea, arranging flowers, listening - that made men feel cared for. These weren't grand gestures but thoughtful daily kindnesses.
Modern Usage:
The emotional labor many women still do - remembering birthdays, checking in on people, making others feel comfortable and valued.
Valrosa
The villa covered in roses where Amy and Laurie go to sketch. The romantic, beautiful setting contrasts sharply with the harsh truths Amy delivers there about Laurie's character.
Modern Usage:
Like having a serious relationship talk at a beautiful vacation spot - sometimes the prettiest places become the backdrop for the hardest conversations.
Tough love
Amy's approach of telling Laurie brutal truths about his behavior instead of comforting him. She risks hurting his feelings because she cares enough to want him to improve.
Modern Usage:
What good friends do when they stage interventions or call out destructive behavior - it's harder than being supportive but sometimes more helpful.
Characters in This Chapter
Laurie
Protagonist in decline
He's wallowing in self-pity after Jo rejected him, using his heartbreak as an excuse to be lazy and self-indulgent. Amy's criticism forces him to see how far he's fallen from the dynamic young man he used to be.
Modern Equivalent:
The guy who never got over his ex and uses it as an excuse to stop trying at everything
Amy
Truth-telling mentor
She delivers the harsh but necessary wake-up call Laurie needs. Through careful observation and genuine care, she holds up a mirror to his behavior and refuses to enable his self-pity.
Modern Equivalent:
The friend brave enough to tell you you're being a mess when everyone else just feels sorry for you
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to recognize when legitimate pain becomes an excuse for avoiding growth and responsibility.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when you or others use past hurts to justify present inaction—then ask whether this is healing or hiding from the next step forward.
You have the foundation. Now let's look closer.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"You are getting to be rather conceited, my dear, and it's quite time you set about correcting it. You have a good many little gifts and virtues, but there is no need of parading them, for conceit spoils the finest genius."
Context: Amy is beginning her systematic takedown of Laurie's behavior during their carriage ride
Amy identifies that Laurie's problem isn't lack of talent but his attitude about his talents. She's calling out how his self-pity has turned into arrogance and waste of potential.
In Today's Words:
You're getting a big head and wasting your gifts because you think the world owes you something.
"I despise you for being so lazy and self-indulgent when you have every reason to be happy and useful."
Context: Amy delivers her harshest criticism, refusing to coddle Laurie's feelings
This is the core of Amy's tough love - she's not attacking his character but his choices. She sees his potential and is frustrated by his waste of advantages others would kill for.
In Today's Words:
I'm disgusted that you're throwing your life away when you have everything going for you.
"You have been spoiled, and I'm afraid it has done you harm. You are not half so nice as when I knew you first."
Context: Amy explains why Laurie has changed for the worse since his heartbreak
Amy pinpoints how being constantly petted and excused has made Laurie worse, not better. She's comparing his current self to his better past self to show him what he's lost.
In Today's Words:
Everyone babying you has made you worse, not better - you used to be so much more than this.
Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Comfortable Decline
When emotional pain becomes an excuse for lowered standards and stagnation disguised as self-care.
Thematic Threads
Tough Love
In This Chapter
Amy delivers brutal honesty about Laurie's decline when gentle sympathy has failed
Development
Builds on Jo's earlier directness, showing how real care sometimes requires uncomfortable truth
In Your Life:
Sometimes the people who truly love you are the ones willing to tell you what you don't want to hear.
Wasted Potential
In This Chapter
Laurie has natural talents and advantages but chooses lazy indulgence over meaningful effort
Development
Contrasts with earlier chapters showing his capabilities and promise
In Your Life:
Your gifts don't automatically fulfill themselves—they require deliberate cultivation and effort.
Self-Deception
In This Chapter
Laurie convinces himself his aimless lifestyle is justified by his heartbreak over Jo
Development
Shows how rationalization can become a comfortable substitute for growth
In Your Life:
We're remarkably good at creating stories that excuse our avoidance of difficult but necessary changes.
Social Mirrors
In This Chapter
Amy uses sketches to show Laurie who he was versus who he's become
Development
Continues the theme of how others can see us more clearly than we see ourselves
In Your Life:
Sometimes you need an outside perspective to recognize how far you've drifted from your better self.
Catalyst Moments
In This Chapter
Amy's confrontation becomes the wake-up call that finally motivates Laurie to leave
Development
Shows how change often requires a specific moment of clarity or confrontation
In Your Life:
Real change usually happens not gradually but in response to a moment when the truth becomes undeniable.
Modern Adaptation
When the Promotion Goes Sideways
Following Jo's story...
Jo's been coasting at the community college writing center for months after getting rejected for the head tutor position she desperately wanted. She shows up late, does the bare minimum with students, and spends breaks complaining about how the administration doesn't appreciate real talent. Her coworker Maya, who got promoted to lead the peer tutoring program, finally confronts her during their lunch break. 'You used to care about these kids,' Maya says bluntly. 'Now you're just collecting a paycheck and feeling sorry for yourself. The Jo I knew would have used that rejection as fuel to get better, not as an excuse to give up.' Maya pulls out Jo's old lesson plans—creative, detailed, inspiring—and compares them to her recent half-hearted efforts. 'You're becoming exactly what you used to complain about: someone who phones it in because they're bitter.' The words sting because they're true. Jo realizes she's been using her disappointment as permission to stop trying, surrounding herself with other disgruntled staff who validate her complaints instead of challenging her to grow.
The Road
The road Laurie walked in 1868, Jo walks today. The pattern is identical: using legitimate hurt as an excuse for comfortable decline, choosing sympathy over growth.
The Map
This chapter provides a tool for recognizing when pain has become a prison. It shows how to distinguish between processing disappointment and wallowing in it.
Amplification
Before reading this, Jo might have seen her behavior as justified self-protection. Now she can NAME the pattern of comfortable decline, PREDICT how it leads to stagnation, NAVIGATE back to growth by setting concrete goals that rebuild momentum.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
What specific behaviors does Amy criticize in Laurie, and how does she use the two sketches to make her point?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does Amy's harsh criticism succeed where sympathy from others failed to motivate Laurie?
analysis • medium - 3
Where do you see people today using past hurt as an excuse to avoid growth or effort?
application • medium - 4
How would you distinguish between someone who needs compassionate support versus someone who needs tough love like Amy gave Laurie?
application • deep - 5
What does this chapter reveal about the difference between healing from disappointment and hiding behind it?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
The Comfort Trap Audit
Think of an area in your life where you might be settling for comfort instead of growth. Write down three specific behaviors that show you're 'dawdling' like Laurie, then identify one small action you could take this week to break the pattern. Be honest about whether you're using past disappointments as an excuse to avoid trying.
Consider:
- •Look for areas where you do the minimum instead of your best
- •Notice if you're surrounding yourself with people who only tell you what you want to hear
- •Consider whether you're wearing your own version of Jo's ring - holding onto something that keeps you stuck
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when someone gave you tough love that you didn't want to hear but needed. How did it feel in the moment versus how you view it now?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 40: Grace in the Valley of Shadows
In the next chapter, you'll discover families can create meaning and beauty even during the hardest times, and learn small acts of service matter more than grand gestures. These insights reveal timeless patterns that resonate in our own lives and relationships.