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CHAPTER XLIII. “This figure hath high price: ’t was wrought with love Ages ago in finest ivory; Nought modish in it, pure and noble lines Of generous womanhood that fits all time That too is costly ware; majolica Of deft design, to please a lordly eye: The smile, you see, is perfect—wonderful As mere Faience! a table ornament To suit the richest mounting.” Dorothea seldom left home without her husband, but she did occasionally drive into Middlemarch alone, on little errands of shopping or charity such as occur to every lady of any wealth when she lives within three miles of a town. Two days after that scene in the Yew-tree Walk, she determined to use such an opportunity in order if possible to see Lydgate, and learn from him whether her husband had really felt any depressing change of symptoms which he was concealing from her, and whether he had insisted on knowing the utmost about himself. She felt almost guilty in asking for knowledge about him from another, but the dread of being without it—the dread of that ignorance which would make her unjust or hard—overcame every scruple. That there had been some crisis in her husband’s mind she was certain: he had the very next day begun a new method of arranging his notes, and had associated her quite newly in carrying out his plan. Poor Dorothea needed to lay up stores of patience. It was about four o’clock when she drove to Lydgate’s house in Lowick...
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Summary
Dorothea drives to Middlemarch seeking Dr. Lydgate to learn about her husband's health, but finds only his wife Rosamond at home. When Will Ladislaw unexpectedly appears, having been socializing with Rosamond, Dorothea feels suddenly uncomfortable and quickly leaves for the hospital instead. The encounter forces Dorothea to confront her own feelings about concealing things from her husband and the appropriateness of her friendship with Will. Meanwhile, Will feels mortified that Dorothea discovered him in what might appear to be a compromising social situation, worried that it makes him look less devoted to her. Rosamond, observing the tension, begins to understand the power dynamics between men and women, realizing that even married women can inspire devotion from other men. The chapter exposes how social expectations and class consciousness create barriers between people who genuinely care for each other. Dorothea's guilt about seeking medical information behind her husband's back parallels her growing awareness that her relationship with Will might be viewed as inappropriate by society. Will's frustration reveals how social positioning can undermine authentic connections, while Rosamond's newfound awareness of romantic power dynamics shows her growing sophistication about human relationships.
That's what happens. To understand what the author is really doing—and to discuss this chapter with confidence—keep reading.
Terms to Know
Majolica
Decorative tin-glazed pottery, often colorful and ornate, popular among the wealthy in Victorian times. Eliot uses it as a metaphor for beautiful but artificial things that exist mainly to impress others.
Modern Usage:
Like designer handbags or luxury cars - items that signal status but may lack deeper substance.
Lady of wealth
A married woman from the upper class who was expected to engage in charitable works and shopping as her main activities. Her movements and social interactions were carefully monitored by society.
Modern Usage:
Similar to how we judge stay-at-home spouses of wealthy people, expecting them to volunteer and maintain social appearances.
Propriety
The Victorian concept of behaving according to strict social rules, especially for women. Breaking these unwritten rules could damage one's reputation permanently.
Modern Usage:
Like unwritten workplace rules or social media etiquette - invisible boundaries that everyone understands but no one explicitly teaches.
Calling hours
Specific times when it was socially acceptable to visit someone's home unannounced. These visits followed strict protocols about duration and conversation topics.
Modern Usage:
Similar to how we have unspoken rules about texting times or when it's okay to drop by someone's house.
Romantic devotion
The Victorian ideal of pure, often unspoken love that was considered more noble when it remained unconsummated. Society valued this kind of distant admiration.
Modern Usage:
Like having a crush on someone who's unavailable - the tension between wanting someone and knowing you can't have them.
Social positioning
How your relationships and associations determine your place in society's hierarchy. Being seen with the wrong person could damage your reputation.
Modern Usage:
Like how your social media connections or who you're photographed with can affect your professional or personal reputation.
Characters in This Chapter
Dorothea
Protagonist
She drives to town seeking information about her husband's health but becomes uncomfortable when she finds Will socializing with Rosamond. Her guilt about both seeking medical information and her feelings for Will creates internal conflict.
Modern Equivalent:
The wife who checks her husband's medical records online, then feels guilty about both the snooping and her attraction to someone else
Will Ladislaw
Love interest
Found socializing with Rosamond when Dorothea arrives unexpectedly. He feels mortified that Dorothea might think he's not devoted to her, showing how much her opinion matters to him.
Modern Equivalent:
The guy who gets caught hanging out with another woman and panics about how it looks to his crush
Rosamond Lydgate
Social observer
Hosts Will and observes the tension when Dorothea arrives. She begins to understand how married women can still inspire devotion from other men, gaining insight into romantic power dynamics.
Modern Equivalent:
The friend who suddenly realizes she has more romantic power than she thought after watching others react to her
Dr. Lydgate
Absent authority figure
Though not present, he's the reason for Dorothea's visit. She wants medical information about her husband but must navigate social protocols to get it.
Modern Equivalent:
The doctor whose professional knowledge you need but can't access directly due to privacy rules
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to recognize when we're hiding information under the guise of protecting others, but actually avoiding difficult conversations ourselves.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when you're tempted to handle something 'behind the scenes' - then ask yourself if you're truly protecting someone or just avoiding an uncomfortable discussion.
You have the foundation. Now let's look closer.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"She felt almost guilty in asking for knowledge about him from another, but the dread of being without it—the dread of that ignorance which would make her unjust or hard—overcame every scruple."
Context: Describing Dorothea's internal conflict about seeking medical information about her husband
This reveals Dorothea's moral struggle between respecting her husband's privacy and her need to understand his condition. Her fear of being 'unjust or hard' shows how much she values being a good wife, even when it conflicts with her desire for truth.
In Today's Words:
She felt bad about going behind his back, but not knowing was worse - she was afraid she'd be unfair to him if she didn't understand what was really going on.
"Poor Dorothea needed to lay up stores of patience."
Context: After describing her husband's new secretive behavior and methods
This simple statement captures the emotional toll of living with someone who's withdrawing from you. The word 'stores' suggests patience is a finite resource that can be depleted.
In Today's Words:
Dorothea was going to need all the patience she could get.
"The smile, you see, is perfect—wonderful As mere Faience! a table ornament To suit the richest mounting."
Context: Opening metaphor comparing beautiful objects to people who exist mainly for display
This sets up the chapter's theme about appearances versus reality. Like decorative pottery, people can be valued more for how they look than for their substance, especially women in Victorian society.
In Today's Words:
Look at that perfect smile - beautiful as expensive china, designed to impress the wealthy.
Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Guilty Transparency - When Hiding Truth Creates More Problems
Attempting to protect others by hiding information creates more complications and distance than honest, respectful communication would.
Thematic Threads
Social Expectations
In This Chapter
All three characters worry about how their innocent interactions might appear to society
Development
Building from earlier themes about reputation and propriety
In Your Life:
You might recognize this when you avoid certain friendships or activities because of how others might judge them
Class Consciousness
In This Chapter
Will feels his social position makes him appear opportunistic when socializing with the wealthy
Development
Deepening exploration of how class differences create barriers between genuine connections
In Your Life:
You might feel this tension when your income or background differs significantly from your friends or romantic interests
Concealment
In This Chapter
Dorothea hides her medical inquiry from Casaubon while feeling guilty about the deception
Development
Continuing theme of characters keeping secrets to avoid conflict
In Your Life:
You might recognize this when you hide purchases, friendships, or concerns from family members to avoid arguments
Power Dynamics
In This Chapter
Rosamond realizes that married women can still inspire devotion and wield romantic influence
Development
Rosamond's growing awareness of her own social and romantic power
In Your Life:
You might notice this when you realize how your attention or approval affects others, even in committed relationships
Authentic Connection
In This Chapter
Will and Dorothea's genuine care for each other is complicated by social positioning and appearances
Development
Ongoing tension between true feeling and social acceptability
In Your Life:
You might experience this when real friendships or attractions are constrained by workplace rules, family expectations, or social norms
Modern Adaptation
When Good Intentions Backfire
Following Dorothy's story...
Maya drives to the community center to quietly ask the director about funding cuts that might affect her after-school program, but doesn't want to worry her kids or co-workers yet. She finds only Jessica, the new volunteer coordinator, chatting with Derek - the activist Maya's been working closely with on grant applications. Seeing them together, Maya feels suddenly awkward about her own relationship with Derek and quickly leaves to check on her classroom instead. The encounter forces Maya to confront uncomfortable questions: Is she hiding the funding crisis to protect her kids, or to avoid facing reality herself? Is her partnership with Derek purely professional, or something more? Derek feels embarrassed that Maya found him socializing when he should be focused on their urgent grant deadlines. Jessica, watching the tension, realizes there's more going on between Maya and Derek than either admits. Everyone's attempt to handle things 'appropriately' has created exactly the kind of awkward situation they were trying to avoid.
The Road
The road Dorothea walked in 1871, Maya walks today. The pattern is identical: trying to protect others by operating in secret creates the very complications we're attempting to prevent.
The Map
This chapter provides a navigation tool for recognizing when 'protection' becomes deception. Maya can use it to ask herself whether she's hiding information to truly help others, or to avoid difficult conversations.
Amplification
Before reading this, Maya might have continued coordinating behind everyone's back, creating more tension and mistrust. Now she can NAME the pattern of protective deception, PREDICT how secrets create awkwardness, and NAVIGATE toward honest communication with kindness.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
What awkward situation does Dorothea walk into at the Lydgates' house, and how does each person react?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does Dorothea feel guilty about seeking information about her husband's health, and how does this guilt affect her behavior with Will?
analysis • medium - 3
Think about a time when you tried to protect someone by hiding information from them. What complications did this create that you hadn't expected?
application • medium - 4
If you were Will, how would you handle Dorothea's obvious discomfort without making the situation worse for everyone involved?
application • deep - 5
What does this chapter reveal about how trying to protect people through secrecy often backfires and creates the very problems we're trying to avoid?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Secret-Keeping Patterns
Think of three situations where you're currently hiding information to 'protect' someone - at work, in your family, or with friends. For each situation, write down what you're hiding, why you think they can't handle it, and what complications this secrecy is actually creating. Then consider: what would happen if you were directly honest instead?
Consider:
- •Are you protecting them, or avoiding a difficult conversation for yourself?
- •What signals might they already be picking up that something's wrong?
- •How is maintaining this secret affecting your relationship with this person?
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when someone hid something from you 'for your own good.' How did it feel when you found out? What would you have preferred they do instead?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 44: Finding Purpose in Opposition
Moving forward, we'll examine to recognize when personal attacks mask legitimate causes, and understand having resources creates responsibility to act. These insights bridge the gap between classic literature and modern experience.