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OF THE EDUCATION OF CHILDREN TO MADAME DIANE DE FOIX, Comtesse de Gurson I never yet saw that father, but let his son be never so decrepit or deformed, would not, notwithstanding, own him: not, nevertheless, if he were not totally besotted, and blinded with his paternal affection, that he did not well enough discern his defects; but that with all defaults he was still his. Just so, I see better than any other, that all I write here are but the idle reveries of a man that has only nibbled upon the outward crust of sciences in his nonage, and only retained a general and formless image of them; who has got a little snatch of everything and nothing of the whole, ‘a la Francoise’. For I know, in general, that there is such a thing as physic, as jurisprudence: four parts in mathematics, and, roughly, what all these aim and point at; and, peradventure, I yet know farther, what sciences in general pretend unto, in order to the service of our life: but to dive farther than that, and to have cudgelled my brains in the study of Aristotle, the monarch of all modern learning, or particularly addicted myself to any one science, I have never done it; neither is there any one art of which I am able to draw the first lineaments and dead colour; insomuch that there is not a boy of the lowest form in a school, that may not pretend to be wiser...
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Summary
Montaigne presents his revolutionary philosophy of education in this deeply personal chapter, arguing against the cramming methods of his era. He begins by acknowledging his own intellectual limitations—he's not a scholar, just someone who has 'nibbled at the edges' of knowledge. But this humility leads to profound insights about how children should really learn. Rather than stuffing young minds with facts like 'pouring into a funnel,' Montaigne advocates for education that develops judgment and character. He wants tutors who have 'well-made heads' rather than 'well-filled' ones—teachers who can guide students to think critically rather than merely repeat information. The ideal student should travel, converse with all kinds of people, and learn from life itself. Montaigne emphasizes that physical development matters as much as mental—a weak body burdens the soul. He shares his own unconventional upbringing, where his father had him learn Latin as naturally as breathing, making it his first language through immersion rather than grammar drills. The chapter reveals Montaigne's core belief that education should create free-thinking individuals who can adapt to any situation, judge for themselves, and live well. He argues that philosophy—the art of living—should be taught from childhood, not saved for dusty academic halls. This isn't just educational theory; it's a manifesto for raising humans who can navigate an uncertain world with wisdom, courage, and authentic self-knowledge.
That's what happens. To understand what the author is really doing—and to discuss this chapter with confidence—keep reading.
Terms to Know
Tutor
In Montaigne's time, a private teacher who lived with wealthy families and guided a child's entire education. Unlike modern tutors who help with specific subjects, these tutors shaped character, judgment, and life skills through constant mentorship.
Modern Usage:
We see this in life coaches, mentors, or that one teacher who changed how you think about everything, not just their subject.
Liberal Arts
The traditional subjects considered essential for a free person's education: grammar, rhetoric, logic, arithmetic, geometry, astronomy, and music. Montaigne critiques how these were taught through rote memorization rather than understanding.
Modern Usage:
Today's debate about whether college should teach job skills or critical thinking mirrors Montaigne's argument about education's true purpose.
Scholasticism
The dominant medieval teaching method that emphasized memorizing ancient authorities like Aristotle rather than independent thinking. Students learned to repeat what scholars had said, not to question or explore.
Modern Usage:
Like when schools focus on standardized test prep instead of teaching kids to think creatively and solve real problems.
Natural Method
Montaigne's father's revolutionary approach to teaching Latin by having servants speak only Latin to young Michel, making him learn it naturally like a native language rather than through grammar rules.
Modern Usage:
This is how language immersion programs work today, or how kids naturally learn technology by using it rather than reading manuals.
Philosophy
For Montaigne, not abstract academic theory but practical wisdom about how to live well. He argues children should learn philosophy early because it teaches them how to face life's challenges with courage and good judgment.
Modern Usage:
Like teaching kids emotional intelligence, critical thinking, and life skills rather than just academic subjects.
Grand Tour
The practice of wealthy young men traveling across Europe to complete their education through exposure to different cultures, languages, and ways of thinking.
Modern Usage:
Similar to gap years, study abroad programs, or the idea that travel broadens your perspective and teaches you things no classroom can.
Characters in This Chapter
Madame Diane de Foix
Dedicatee and inspiration
The Countess to whom Montaigne addresses this essay on education. She represents the enlightened aristocrat who values real learning over empty show, and her request for educational advice prompts Montaigne's reflections.
Modern Equivalent:
The successful professional mom asking for advice on raising kids who can think for themselves
Montaigne's Father
Educational innovator
Pierre Eyquem created an unconventional learning environment for his son, having servants speak only Latin and waking young Michel with music instead of harsh commands. His methods shaped Montaigne's entire educational philosophy.
Modern Equivalent:
The progressive parent who homeschools or chooses alternative education because they think outside the box
The Ideal Tutor
Educational guide
Montaigne's vision of what a teacher should be: someone with a 'well-made head' rather than a 'well-filled' one, who guides students to think rather than just memorize, and who shapes character as much as intellect.
Modern Equivalent:
The teacher who becomes a life mentor, helping you figure out who you are, not just what to memorize for tests
The Traditional Schoolmaster
Educational antagonist
Represents the old system Montaigne opposes: teachers who cram students with facts, use harsh discipline, and produce graduates who can recite but cannot think or judge for themselves.
Modern Equivalent:
The rigid teacher who focuses only on test scores and following rules, never encouraging creativity or independent thought
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to recognize when someone truly understands versus when they're just reciting information convincingly.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when people (including yourself) give confident answers that sound right but lack real understanding—then ask follow-up questions that test actual comprehension.
You have the foundation. Now let's look closer.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"We are all patchwork, and so shapeless and diverse in composition that each bit, each moment, plays its own game."
Context: Explaining why education must be flexible and adapted to each individual child's nature
This captures Montaigne's revolutionary idea that there's no one-size-fits-all approach to education. Each person is unique and constantly changing, so teaching methods must be equally flexible and responsive.
In Today's Words:
Every kid is different and changes all the time, so you can't use the same approach with everyone.
"I would have a tutor correct this fault, and from the very beginning accustom his pupil to being content with what he has, and to fighting only for himself."
Context: Describing how education should build inner strength rather than competitive comparison
Montaigne wants education to create self-reliant individuals who measure success by their own growth, not by beating others. This builds genuine confidence rather than fragile ego.
In Today's Words:
Teach kids to compete with themselves, not constantly compare themselves to everyone else.
"Let him be taught not so much the histories as how to judge them."
Context: Arguing that critical thinking matters more than memorizing facts
This perfectly encapsulates Montaigne's educational philosophy: don't just stuff kids with information, teach them how to evaluate, analyze, and think critically about what they encounter.
In Today's Words:
Don't just teach kids what happened - teach them how to figure out what it means and whether it's true.
"The soul that lodges philosophy ought to make the body healthy too."
Context: Emphasizing that physical and mental education must go together
Montaigne rejects the false separation between mind and body. True education develops the whole person - physical strength supports mental clarity, and both are needed for a good life.
In Today's Words:
You can't have a sharp mind in a weak body - both need to be strong.
Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of True Learning - Breaking the Cramming Trap
The tendency to prioritize accumulating information over developing the judgment to use it effectively.
Thematic Threads
Class
In This Chapter
Montaigne challenges educational elitism by arguing that wisdom comes from experience and good judgment, not academic credentials
Development
Builds on earlier themes by showing how true nobility comes from character development, not inherited status
In Your Life:
You might notice how some colleagues with advanced degrees struggle with practical decisions while others with less formal education show remarkable wisdom
Identity
In This Chapter
Montaigne advocates for education that develops authentic selfhood rather than conformity to external standards
Development
Continues his theme of self-knowledge by showing how true learning must align with individual nature and potential
In Your Life:
You might recognize the difference between learning that makes you more yourself versus learning that makes you perform a role
Social Expectations
In This Chapter
He rejects conventional educational expectations that prioritize appearance of knowledge over substance
Development
Extends his critique of social performance by attacking educational systems that reward conformity over critical thinking
In Your Life:
You might see this when choosing between training that looks impressive on paper versus skills that actually help you do better work
Personal Growth
In This Chapter
Montaigne presents learning as lifelong character development rather than information acquisition
Development
Deepens his philosophy of self-improvement by showing how education should cultivate judgment and adaptability
In Your Life:
You might notice whether your own learning makes you more flexible and wise, or just more able to repeat what others have said
Human Relationships
In This Chapter
He emphasizes learning through conversation and interaction rather than solitary study
Development
Builds on his belief in the value of diverse human perspectives by making relationship central to education
In Your Life:
You might recognize how your best learning happens through discussion and shared experience rather than isolated study
Modern Adaptation
When the Promotion Goes Sideways
Following Arthur's story...
Arthur just got promoted to department chair, and the dean expects him to implement a new 'data-driven' curriculum that reduces philosophy to measurable outcomes. His colleagues want him to play along—the funding depends on it. But Arthur knows this approach will kill everything he loves about teaching. Students won't learn to think; they'll learn to perform thinking for assessments. He remembers his own education, how his high school teacher Mrs. Rodriguez never made him memorize philosophical terms but instead asked questions that made him wrestle with ideas until they became part of him. Now he has to choose: protect his career by going along with educational theater, or risk everything to defend real learning. The irony isn't lost on him—he's become exactly what Montaigne warned against, an authority figure who might prioritize institutional demands over genuine education.
The Road
The road Montaigne's ideal tutor walked in 1580, Arthur walks today. The pattern is identical: choosing between cramming students with testable content versus developing their capacity for independent thought and judgment.
The Map
Montaigne's chapter provides a framework for distinguishing authentic education from performance. Arthur can use this to evaluate whether his teaching develops judgment or just fills heads with facts.
Amplification
Before reading this, Arthur might have assumed all learning methods are basically equivalent. Now he can NAME the difference between information transfer and wisdom development, PREDICT which approach creates adaptable thinkers, and NAVIGATE the political pressure to choose substance over metrics.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
What's the difference between Montaigne's father's approach to teaching Latin and the traditional school methods of his time?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does Montaigne prefer tutors with 'well-made heads' over 'well-filled' ones, and what does this reveal about his view of intelligence?
analysis • medium - 3
Where do you see the 'pouring into a funnel' approach to learning in today's workplaces, schools, or training programs?
application • medium - 4
If you were training someone new at your job, how would you apply Montaigne's principles to help them develop real competence rather than just memorize procedures?
application • deep - 5
What does Montaigne's emphasis on judgment over information tell us about what makes someone truly capable in uncertain situations?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Audit Your Learning Style
Think of something you've learned recently - a work skill, hobby, or life lesson. Write down how you learned it, then analyze whether your approach was more like 'funnel filling' (memorizing facts) or 'judgment building' (understanding principles through practice). Consider what made the difference in how well you retained and can apply what you learned.
Consider:
- •Did you learn by doing or by being told?
- •Can you explain it to someone else in your own words?
- •How well does your knowledge transfer to new situations?
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you had to unlearn something you thought you knew well. What made you realize your understanding was shallow, and how did you rebuild it more solidly?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 26: Don't Judge by Your Own Limits
As the story unfolds, you'll explore to recognize when your personal experience creates blind spots, while uncovering dismissing things you don't understand limits your growth. These lessons connect the classic to contemporary challenges we all face.