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CHAPTER XXIII. MISTAKES. “Which when his mother saw, she in her mind Was troubled sore, he wist well what to ween.” SPENSER. Margaret had not been gone five minutes when Mr. Thornton came in, his face all a-glow. “I could not come sooner: the superintendent would—— Where is she?” He looked round the dining-room, and then almost fiercely at his mother, who was quietly re-arranging the disturbed furniture, and did not instantly reply. “Where is Miss Hale?” asked he again. “Gone home,” said she, rather shortly. “Gone home!” “Yes. She was a great deal better. Indeed, I don’t believe it was so very much of a hurt; only some people faint at the least thing.” “I am sorry she has gone home,” said he, walking uneasily about. “She could not have been fit for it.” “She said she was; and Mr. Lowe said she was. I went for him myself.” “Thank you, mother.” He stopped, and partly held out his hand to give her a grateful shake. But she did not notice the movement. “What have you done with your Irish people?” “Sent to the Dragon, for a good meal for them, poor wretches. And then, luckily, I caught Father Grady, and I’ve asked him in to speak to them, and dissuade them from going off in a body. How did Miss Hale go home? I’m sure she could not walk.” “She had a cab. Everything was done properly, even to the paying. Let us talk of something else. She...
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Summary
In the aftermath of Margaret's brave intervention during the riot, everyone draws their own conclusions about her motives—and none of them match her reality. Mr. Thornton returns home glowing with hope, convinced that Margaret's protective gesture means she loves him. His mother, Mrs. Thornton, coldly agrees, seeing it as proof that Margaret has overcome her class prejudices to accept her feelings for a manufacturer. Meanwhile, Margaret herself is tormented by shame, not because she regrets her actions, but because others assume romantic motives behind what was purely moral courage. She's horrified that people think she's in love with Thornton, especially since she believes she dislikes him. The chapter reveals how the same action can be viewed through completely different lenses: Thornton sees love, his mother sees social climbing, and Margaret sees duty. Mrs. Thornton's pain is particularly poignant—she realizes she's about to lose her son's primary devotion to another woman, and her brief moment of maternal vulnerability goes unnoticed by John, who's consumed with thoughts of Margaret. The chapter explores the gap between intention and perception, showing how our own desires and fears color how we interpret others' actions. Margaret's internal struggle between her moral principles and social expectations highlights the difficult position of women who act independently—they're always assumed to be motivated by romance rather than conviction.
That's what happens. To understand what the author is really doing—and to discuss this chapter with confidence—keep reading.
Terms to Know
Superintendent
A factory overseer or manager who supervised workers and operations. In industrial towns, these men held significant power over workers' daily lives and could delay even the mill owner when business demanded it.
Modern Usage:
Today we see this in shift supervisors, plant managers, or department heads who can override even upper management decisions during operational crises.
Irish people
Refers to Irish workers brought in as strikebreakers during labor disputes. They were often desperate for work and willing to accept lower wages, making them targets of local workers' anger.
Modern Usage:
We see similar dynamics today when companies bring in temporary workers, contractors, or workers willing to cross picket lines during strikes.
Father Grady
An Irish Catholic priest who could influence the Irish workers' decisions. Mill owners often sought religious leaders' help to prevent mass walkouts or violence.
Modern Usage:
Today this would be like calling in union representatives, community leaders, or HR specialists to mediate workplace conflicts.
The Dragon
A local inn or tavern where workers could get meals. Mill owners sometimes paid for workers' food as a way to maintain goodwill or prevent unrest.
Modern Usage:
Modern equivalent would be company cafeterias, food trucks brought to job sites, or employers providing meals during overtime or crisis situations.
Projection of motives
The psychological tendency to assume others act from the same motivations we would have. Each character interprets Margaret's actions through their own desires and worldview.
Modern Usage:
We do this constantly on social media, assuming people post things for the same reasons we would, or interpreting colleagues' actions based on what we'd do.
Class consciousness
Awareness of social class differences and the assumption that romantic relationships must overcome class barriers. Mrs. Thornton assumes Margaret's actions show she's willing to lower her social standards.
Modern Usage:
Today we see this when people assume someone is 'dating up' or 'dating down' based on income, education, or social status.
Characters in This Chapter
Mr. Thornton
Romantic lead
Returns home glowing with hope, convinced Margaret's protective gesture during the riot proves she loves him. His intense focus on finding her and disappointment at missing her reveals how completely he's reinterpreted her actions through his own desires.
Modern Equivalent:
The guy who thinks a coworker bringing him coffee means she's interested
Mrs. Thornton
Protective mother
Coldly efficient in handling Margaret's departure but privately devastated by the realization that her son is in love. Her brief moment of vulnerability goes unnoticed by John, showing how his romantic obsession blinds him to others' needs.
Modern Equivalent:
The mother-in-law who realizes she's about to lose her place as the most important woman in her son's life
Margaret Hale
Conflicted protagonist
Though absent from most of the chapter, her internal torment drives the action. She's horrified that others assume romantic motives behind what was purely moral courage, revealing the impossible position of independent women.
Modern Equivalent:
The woman whose professional networking gets misinterpreted as flirting
Father Grady
Mediator
Called in to prevent the Irish workers from leaving en masse. Represents the power of religious and community authority in managing labor disputes and preventing further unrest.
Modern Equivalent:
The union rep or HR mediator brought in to calm workplace tensions
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to recognize when people are projecting their own hopes, fears, or worldview onto your actions instead of seeing your actual intentions.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when someone assumes you did something for reasons that surprise you—then ask yourself what they might be projecting from their own experience.
You have the foundation. Now let's look closer.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"I could not come sooner: the superintendent would—— Where is she?"
Context: His first words upon entering, showing his priorities and urgency
The interrupted sentence reveals how completely Margaret dominates his thoughts. He can't even finish explaining his delay because finding her is all that matters. This shows how love makes us abandon normal social conventions.
In Today's Words:
Sorry I'm late, work kept me but—where is she?
"Indeed, I don't believe it was so very much of a hurt; only some people faint at the least thing."
Context: Dismissing Margaret's injury and her dramatic response to it
This reveals Mrs. Thornton's attempt to minimize Margaret's heroic actions, possibly from jealousy or class prejudice. She's trying to make Margaret seem weak and overly dramatic rather than brave.
In Today's Words:
Honestly, it wasn't that bad—some people are just drama queens.
"Everything was done properly, even to the paying."
Context: Describing how Margaret's departure was handled
The emphasis on 'even to the paying' shows Mrs. Thornton's surprise that Margaret handled things with proper independence, not expecting charity. This reveals class assumptions about who pays their own way.
In Today's Words:
She handled everything herself, even picked up the tab.
Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Projected Motives
We automatically interpret others' ambiguous actions through the lens of our own hopes, fears, and expectations rather than seeking their actual motives.
Thematic Threads
Misinterpretation
In This Chapter
Three people witness the same protective gesture but see completely different motives—love, social climbing, and duty
Development
Building from earlier miscommunications between Margaret and Thornton about class and values
In Your Life:
You might misread a coworker's helpfulness as romantic interest when they're just being professional
Class Assumptions
In This Chapter
Mrs. Thornton assumes Margaret overcame class prejudice to accept feelings for a manufacturer
Development
Deepening the exploration of how class shapes every interpretation of behavior
In Your Life:
You might assume someone's career choice reflects their values when it actually reflects their circumstances
Gender Expectations
In This Chapter
Margaret's moral courage is automatically interpreted as romantic motivation because she's a woman
Development
Expanding on how society limits acceptable reasons for women's independent action
In Your Life:
Your professional assertiveness might be labeled as emotional or personal when it's actually strategic
Maternal Loss
In This Chapter
Mrs. Thornton realizes she's losing her son's primary devotion and her pain goes unnoticed
Development
Introduced here as a new dimension of family dynamics
In Your Life:
You might feel invisible when someone you've always been close to gets seriously involved with a partner
Internal Shame
In This Chapter
Margaret is tormented not by her actions but by others' assumptions about her motives
Development
Continuing Margaret's struggle between doing right and social expectations
In Your Life:
You might feel ashamed for doing the right thing when others judge your reasons incorrectly
Modern Adaptation
When Everyone Reads the Room Wrong
Following Margaret's story...
After Margaret publicly defended a group of warehouse workers facing illegal retaliation, everyone at the legal aid office is buzzing with theories about her motives. Her colleague Jake, who's had feelings for her, is convinced her passionate advocacy means she's finally ready to date someone who 'gets' labor issues. The office manager assumes Margaret is angling for the senior attorney position by taking high-profile cases. Meanwhile, Margaret is mortified that people think she acted for personal gain rather than principle. She defended those workers because it was right, not because she wanted attention or romance. But now she has to navigate office dynamics where everyone's projecting their own assumptions onto her actions. Jake keeps bringing her coffee and asking about weekend plans. The manager starts assigning her more complex cases, expecting her to leverage this 'career move.' Margaret realizes that doing the right thing doesn't protect you from others' misinterpretations—and sometimes those misreadings create complications worse than the original problem.
The Road
The road Margaret Hale walked in 1854, Margaret walks today. The pattern is identical: when we act from principle, others assume we're acting from self-interest, romance, or ambition.
The Map
This chapter provides the Motive Projection Map—recognizing that people interpret your actions through their own desires and fears, not your actual intentions. Margaret can use this to anticipate misreadings and communicate her real motives clearly.
Amplification
Before reading this, Margaret might have been confused and hurt when people misinterpreted her principled actions. Now she can NAME the projection pattern, PREDICT which motives others will assume, and NAVIGATE by stating her actual reasons upfront.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
What are the three different interpretations of Margaret's actions during the riot, and who holds each view?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does each character see Margaret's motives so differently, and what does this reveal about their own inner worlds?
analysis • medium - 3
Think about a recent misunderstanding in your life. How might each person involved have been projecting their own hopes or fears onto the situation?
application • medium - 4
When someone's actions could mean multiple things, how do you decide what to believe? What strategies could help you see more clearly?
application • deep - 5
Margaret acts from moral duty but everyone assumes romance. What does this suggest about how society interprets women's independent actions, and how might this pattern still operate today?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
The Three-Lens Test
Think of someone's recent behavior that confused or bothered you. Write down three completely different explanations for why they acted that way - one based on your hopes, one based on your fears, and one that has nothing to do with you at all. Then consider which explanation you automatically believed and why.
Consider:
- •Notice which lens feels most 'obviously true' - that's probably your projection
- •The explanation that has nothing to do with you is often closest to reality
- •Your emotional state when interpreting affects which lens you choose
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you completely misread someone's motives. What were you projecting, and how did you discover the truth? How might you catch this pattern earlier next time?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 24: When Love Becomes a Weapon
Moving forward, we'll examine misread signals can turn gratitude into unwanted romantic pressure, and understand defensive pride often masks deeper hurt and vulnerability. These insights bridge the gap between classic literature and modern experience.