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VII. Among these I reckon in the first place those who devote their time to nothing but drinking and debauchery: for no men are busied more shamefully: the others, although the glory which they pursue is but a counterfeit, still deserve some credit for their pursuit of it—though you may tell me of misers, of passionate men, of men who hate and who even wage war without a cause—yet all such men sin like men: but the sin of those who are given up to gluttony and lust is a disgraceful one. Examine all the hours of their lives: consider how much time they spend in calculation, how much in plotting, how much in fear, how much in giving and deceiving flattery, how much in entering into recognizances for themselves or for others, how much in banquets, which indeed become a serious business, you will see that they are not allowed any breathing time either by their pleasures or their pains. Finally, all are agreed that nothing, neither eloquence nor literature, can be done properly by one who is occupied with something else; for nothing can take deep root in a mind which is directed to some other subject, and which rejects whatever you try to stuff into it. No man knows less about living than a business man: there is nothing about which it is more difficult to gain knowledge. Other arts have many folk everywhere who profess to teach them: some of them can be so thoroughly learned...
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Summary
Seneca takes aim at two types of people who waste their lives: those lost in pleasure-seeking and those consumed by busyness. He argues that drunkards and gluttons live shamefully, but even supposedly respectable busy people are missing the point entirely. These perpetually occupied individuals spend their days calculating, plotting, flattering, and attending endless meetings and social obligations, never getting a moment to breathe or think about what they actually want from life. Seneca makes a striking observation: we can learn other skills quickly, but learning how to live takes an entire lifetime—and most people die still not knowing how to do it well. The key insight is that truly successful people guard their time fiercely, refusing to let others steal it from them. They don't exchange their precious hours for things that don't matter. Meanwhile, even powerful and successful people constantly complain 'I'm not allowed to live my own life' because they've given control of their time to clients, candidates, social climbers, and manipulative friends. Seneca uses the metaphor of a ship caught in a storm, blown in circles rather than making real progress. Having gray hair doesn't mean you've lived long—it just means you've been alive for a long time. The chapter challenges readers to examine where their time actually goes and whether they're living their own life or just fulfilling other people's agendas.
That's what happens. To understand what the author is really doing—and to discuss this chapter with confidence—keep reading.
Terms to Know
Debauchery
Excessive indulgence in physical pleasures like drinking, eating, and sex. In Seneca's time, this was seen as a complete abandonment of self-control and virtue. It represents living purely for immediate gratification without thought for consequences.
Modern Usage:
We see this in people who live only for the weekend, binge culture, or anyone whose life revolves around their next high or pleasure fix.
Recognizances
Legal obligations or bonds that required someone to appear in court or fulfill certain duties. In Roman times, wealthy people constantly had to vouch for others or guarantee debts. This created endless chains of obligation and worry.
Modern Usage:
Today this looks like co-signing loans, being someone's emergency contact, or getting pulled into other people's financial or legal drama.
Flattery
Insincere praise given to gain favor or advantage. Seneca saw this as a major time-waster because it required constant calculation about what people wanted to hear. It corrupted both the giver and receiver.
Modern Usage:
Office politics, sucking up to the boss, social media validation-seeking, or telling people what they want to hear instead of the truth.
Stoic Philosophy
The school of thought Seneca belonged to, emphasizing self-control, virtue, and focusing only on what you can actually control. Stoics believed in living according to reason rather than being driven by emotions or external circumstances.
Modern Usage:
Modern self-help often borrows Stoic ideas like 'focus on what you can control' and 'don't let other people's opinions run your life.'
Roman Banquets
Elaborate dinner parties that were part social networking, part business meeting, part status display. They could last for hours and required careful attention to social hierarchies and political maneuvering.
Modern Usage:
Corporate networking events, work happy hours, or any social gathering where you have to 'work the room' instead of actually enjoying yourself.
Liberal Arts
In Roman times, these were studies considered worthy of free citizens - rhetoric, philosophy, literature. Seneca contrasts these deeper pursuits with the shallow busyness that consumes most people's lives.
Modern Usage:
Any learning that makes you a more thoughtful person rather than just teaching you job skills - reading, critical thinking, understanding history.
Characters in This Chapter
The Drunkards and Gluttons
Negative examples
Seneca uses these people as his first example of wasted lives. They're completely absorbed in physical pleasures and have no higher purpose. He calls their sin 'disgraceful' because it's purely selfish and animalistic.
Modern Equivalent:
The person whose whole life revolves around partying, shopping, or getting high
The Perpetually Busy
Primary target of criticism
These are the people Seneca really wants to wake up - those who think they're being productive but are actually just spinning their wheels. They're always calculating, plotting, attending meetings, but never actually living.
Modern Equivalent:
The workaholic who's always 'networking' but never has time for family or personal growth
The Teachers of Other Arts
Contrast figures
Seneca mentions that every other skill has plenty of teachers and can be learned relatively quickly. This makes his point that learning how to live is uniquely difficult and takes a lifetime to master.
Modern Equivalent:
YouTube tutorials and online courses that can teach you anything except what actually matters
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to spot when others use guilt, flattery, or manufactured urgency to claim your time for their priorities.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when someone frames their request as urgent but offers no real deadline, or makes you feel selfish for having boundaries—those are red flags.
You have the foundation. Now let's look closer.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"No man knows less about living than a business man: there is nothing about which it is more difficult to gain knowledge."
Context: After describing how busy people waste their time on calculations and social obligations
This is Seneca's most cutting observation about modern life. The very people who think they're most successful are actually failing at the most important skill of all. They've mastered everything except what matters most.
In Today's Words:
The people who are always busy making money and networking are usually the worst at actually enjoying their lives.
"Other arts have many folk everywhere who profess to teach them: some of them can be so thoroughly learned by boys that they can even teach them to others."
Context: Explaining why learning to live is uniquely difficult compared to other skills
Seneca points out the irony that we can quickly learn complex technical skills, but the art of living well takes decades to understand. Most people die before they figure it out.
In Today's Words:
You can learn to code or fix cars in a few months, but figuring out how to be happy and fulfilled? That takes your whole life.
"You will see that they are not allowed any breathing time either by their pleasures or their pains."
Context: Describing how busy people are trapped in endless cycles of activity
This reveals the trap of constant busyness - even when these people try to relax, they can't truly rest because their minds are always racing to the next obligation or worry.
In Today's Words:
These people are so wound up they can't even enjoy their downtime - they're always thinking about work or the next thing they have to do.
Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Borrowed Time
Surrendering your finite time to others' agendas while believing you're being responsible or successful.
Thematic Threads
Time
In This Chapter
Seneca distinguishes between being alive and actually living—most people waste their years on activities that don't align with their values
Development
Builds on earlier themes of mortality awareness, now focusing specifically on how we squander our limited time
In Your Life:
You might realize you've been busy for years without making progress on what actually matters to you
Social Expectations
In This Chapter
People feel obligated to attend endless meetings, social functions, and respond to others' demands, losing control of their own lives
Development
Deepens the exploration of how social pressure shapes our choices, showing how respectability can become a prison
In Your Life:
You might recognize how often you say yes to things you don't want to do because you think you 'should'
Identity
In This Chapter
Seneca argues that being perpetually busy becomes a false identity that prevents people from discovering who they actually are
Development
Continues examining how external roles can overshadow authentic self-knowledge
In Your Life:
You might question whether your busy schedule reflects your true priorities or just what others expect from you
Class
In This Chapter
Even wealthy, powerful people complain they can't live their own lives because they're trapped serving clients and social obligations
Development
Shows how class privilege doesn't automatically grant personal freedom—different classes face different versions of the same trap
In Your Life:
You might see how your own work and social obligations, regardless of your income level, can control your life
Personal Growth
In This Chapter
Learning to live well takes an entire lifetime, but most people never start because they're too busy with trivial pursuits
Development
Reinforces that wisdom requires intentional practice and protected time for reflection
In Your Life:
You might realize you've been so busy managing daily life that you've never actually learned how to live according to your own values
Modern Adaptation
When Success Feels Like Drowning
Following Jordan's story...
Jordan's been promoted to shift supervisor at the warehouse, but now spends twelve-hour days juggling schedules, covering for call-outs, and fielding complaints from both workers and management. At home, there's always something—mom needs help with bills, the neighbor wants Jordan to watch their kids, friends expect weekend hangouts. Jordan used to love reading, hiking, maybe taking a night class. Now there's barely time to eat dinner without someone texting about another crisis. 'I should be grateful,' Jordan thinks, scrolling through work emails at 11 PM. 'Good job, people depending on me.' But lying in bed, Jordan realizes it's been months since doing anything that actually mattered personally. The promotion was supposed to mean more control over life, not less. Every day feels reactive—putting out fires, managing other people's problems, being the reliable one everyone turns to. Jordan wonders when being needed became more important than having a life worth living.
The Road
The road Seneca's busy Romans walked in 49 AD, Jordan walks today. The pattern is identical: mistaking being needed for being successful, surrendering personal time to other people's agendas, then wondering why life feels empty despite constant activity.
The Map
This chapter provides the Boundary Test: before saying yes to any request, ask 'Does this serve my actual priorities or just make me feel important?' Jordan can start scheduling personal priorities first, then fitting others' requests around them.
Amplification
Before reading this, Jordan might have kept saying yes to everything, thinking that's what good people do. Now they can NAME the Borrowed Time trap, PREDICT where endless availability leads (burnout and resentment), and NAVIGATE it by protecting their own priorities first.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
Seneca describes two types of people who waste their lives: pleasure-seekers and the perpetually busy. What's his main criticism of each group?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does Seneca say that even powerful, successful people complain 'I'm not allowed to live my own life'? What's happening to their time?
analysis • medium - 3
Think about your own week. Where do you see Seneca's pattern of people surrendering their time to others' agendas while calling it their own life?
application • medium - 4
Seneca argues that truly successful people 'guard their time fiercely.' What would this look like in your life? What would you have to say no to?
application • deep - 5
Seneca claims we can learn other skills quickly, but learning how to live takes a lifetime. What makes living well so much harder than other skills?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Track Your Time Surrenders
For the next three days, keep a simple log of every time someone asks for your time or attention. Write down: who asked, what they wanted, whether you said yes or no, and how you felt about it afterward. Don't change your behavior yet—just observe. At the end of three days, look for patterns in who gets your time and why.
Consider:
- •Notice the difference between requests that align with your priorities versus those that just make you feel needed
- •Pay attention to which requests you automatically say yes to without thinking
- •Observe how you feel after giving time to different types of requests—energized or drained?
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you realized you were living someone else's agenda instead of your own. How did you recognize it, and what did you do about it?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 8: The Time We Give Away
What lies ahead teaches us we unconsciously treat time as worthless while desperately clinging to life, and shows us people freely give away their most precious resource without thinking. These patterns appear in literature and life alike.