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XVII. Mrs. Dashwood was surprised only for a moment at seeing him; for his coming to Barton was, in her opinion, of all things the most natural. Her joy and expression of regard long outlived her wonder. He received the kindest welcome from her; and shyness, coldness, reserve could not stand against such a reception. They had begun to fail him before he entered the house, and they were quite overcome by the captivating manners of Mrs. Dashwood. Indeed a man could not very well be in love with either of her daughters, without extending the passion to her; and Elinor had the satisfaction of seeing him soon become more like himself. His affections seemed to reanimate towards them all, and his interest in their welfare again became perceptible. He was not in spirits, however; he praised their house, admired its prospect, was attentive, and kind; but still he was not in spirits. The whole family perceived it, and Mrs. Dashwood, attributing it to some want of liberality in his mother, sat down to table indignant against all selfish parents. “What are Mrs. Ferrars’s views for you at present, Edward?” said she, when dinner was over and they had drawn round the fire; “are you still to be a great orator in spite of yourself?” “No. I hope my mother is now convinced that I have no more talents than inclination for a public life!” “But how is your fame to be established? for famous you must be to satisfy...
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Summary
Elinor finally gets the truth about Edward's engagement to Lucy Steele, and it's a gut punch. Lucy reveals that she and Edward have been secretly engaged for four years - since he was just nineteen and studying with her uncle. This isn't some recent romance; it's a long-standing commitment that predates everything Elinor thought she knew about Edward. Lucy shares intimate details about their relationship, describing Edward's letters and their plans, making it impossible for Elinor to dismiss this as fantasy. What makes this revelation especially painful is Lucy's obvious pleasure in delivering the news. She claims she's confiding in Elinor because she needs a friend, but her satisfaction suggests she knows exactly what she's doing. Elinor realizes she's been completely blind - all those moments she treasured with Edward, all the signs she thought pointed to his feelings for her, were happening while he was bound to another woman. The chapter exposes the dangerous gap between what we see and what's really happening in other people's lives. Lucy has been playing a longer game than anyone realized, securing Edward when he was young and inexperienced. For Elinor, this is a masterclass in hidden realities - how someone can seem available and interested while being completely off-limits. It's also about the power of information: Lucy holds all the cards because she knows the truth while everyone else operates on assumptions. Elinor must now navigate not just heartbreak, but the social complexity of keeping Lucy's secret while watching her family continue to hope for a match between her and Edward.
That's what happens. To understand what the author is really doing—and to discuss this chapter with confidence—keep reading.
Terms to Know
Secret engagement
A formal commitment to marry that's hidden from family and society. In Austen's time, engagements were serious legal and social contracts that required family approval and public announcement. Breaking one could ruin reputations and had real financial consequences.
Modern Usage:
Like being in a serious relationship that you hide from your family or keeping your dating life secret from coworkers who might disapprove.
Confidante
Someone you trust with your deepest secrets. In this chapter, Lucy claims she's making Elinor her confidante about the engagement, but she's really using the role to deliver painful news while appearing innocent.
Modern Usage:
The friend who says 'I'm only telling you this because I trust you' but is actually stirring up drama or making sure you know something that will hurt.
Accomplishment
Skills that made women marriageable - playing piano, speaking French, drawing, singing. These weren't hobbies but social currency that demonstrated your value as a potential wife to wealthy men.
Modern Usage:
Like having the right college degree, knowing wine, or having certain social media skills - things that make you seem more desirable or sophisticated to potential partners.
Prudent match
A marriage based on practical considerations like money, social status, and family connections rather than love. Society expected you to be sensible about marriage since it determined your entire future security.
Modern Usage:
Dating someone because they have a good job and health insurance rather than because you're crazy about them - choosing stability over passion.
Entailment
A legal arrangement where property must pass to the nearest male heir, leaving daughters with little or no inheritance. This is why women like the Dashwood sisters have limited options and must marry well.
Modern Usage:
Like family businesses that only pass to sons, or any situation where women are systematically excluded from inheriting wealth or power.
Drawing room politics
The complex social maneuvering that happened in formal social spaces. Women especially had to navigate conversations carefully, sharing and withholding information strategically to protect their interests.
Modern Usage:
Office politics or the careful way you manage information in group chats - knowing what to say, when to say it, and who can be trusted with what.
Characters in This Chapter
Elinor Dashwood
Protagonist receiving devastating news
Gets blindsided by Lucy's revelation about Edward's secret engagement. Must process heartbreak while maintaining composure and keeping Lucy's confidence. Shows incredible emotional control under pressure.
Modern Equivalent:
The friend who finds out her boyfriend is already taken but has to act normal at work the next day
Lucy Steele
Antagonist delivering calculated blow
Reveals her four-year secret engagement to Edward with obvious satisfaction. Claims to need Elinor as a confidante but is clearly enjoying the power of her revelation. Shows strategic thinking and emotional manipulation.
Modern Equivalent:
The coworker who drops bombshell news about your crush while pretending to be helpful
Edward Ferrars
Absent but central figure
Revealed as secretly engaged for four years, making all his interactions with Elinor deceptive. His youthful commitment now traps him in an unwanted engagement while hurting someone he actually cares about.
Modern Equivalent:
The guy who's technically still with his high school girlfriend but acts single when he meets someone new
Anne Steele
Lucy's chatty sister
Nearly exposes Lucy's secret through her careless talk, showing how difficult it is to maintain deception. Her gossipy nature creates constant risk for Lucy's carefully managed revelation.
Modern Equivalent:
The friend who can't keep secrets and almost ruins your plans by posting on social media too early
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to recognize when someone weaponizes information by controlling what you know and when you know it.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when someone shares 'confidential' information—ask yourself why they're telling you now and what they gain from your reaction.
You have the foundation. Now let's look closer.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"I thought it my duty to tell you that though we have not been engaged very long, we have been attached to each other for many years."
Context: Lucy reveals her secret engagement to Edward while pretending it's recent
This is Lucy's calculated way of dropping the bombshell while appearing innocent. She's actually been engaged for four years but frames it as duty rather than cruelty. The word 'attached' sounds romantic but hides the legal reality of their commitment.
In Today's Words:
I felt like you should know that me and your crush have actually been together way longer than you think.
"We have been engaged these four years, and it was our mutual wish that it should not be known to any one."
Context: Lucy provides the devastating details of her long relationship with Edward
This reveals the full scope of Elinor's misunderstanding. Four years means this predates everything Elinor thought she knew about Edward. Lucy emphasizes it was mutual to show Edward's complicity in the deception.
In Today's Words:
We've been together since way before you even met him, and we both agreed to keep it secret.
"I have no doubt in the world of your faithfully keeping this secret, because I am sure you must feel how very much it is to my interest that it should not be known."
Context: Lucy ensures Elinor will keep the secret by appealing to her sense of honor
This is masterful manipulation. Lucy binds Elinor to secrecy by making it seem like a favor while actually trapping her. Elinor can't expose the truth without appearing vindictive, and Lucy knows it.
In Today's Words:
I know you won't tell anyone because you're too decent a person to mess up my situation, even though it's killing you.
Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Information Warfare
Those who control key information can manipulate entire situations by strategically revealing or withholding what others need to know.
Thematic Threads
Deception
In This Chapter
Lucy's calculated revelation disguised as friendship-seeking vulnerability
Development
Evolved from Willoughby's charm-based deception to Lucy's information-based manipulation
In Your Life:
You might encounter this when someone shares 'secrets' that conveniently serve their interests.
Power
In This Chapter
Lucy's four-year strategic positioning gives her control over Edward and leverage over Elinor
Development
Builds on earlier themes of social power, now showing how hidden knowledge creates dominance
In Your Life:
You might feel this when discovering others have been making decisions based on information you weren't given.
Social Expectations
In This Chapter
Elinor must now navigate keeping Lucy's secret while watching her family's false hopes
Development
Continues exploring the burden of social roles, now complicated by forced complicity
In Your Life:
You might face this when asked to keep secrets that affect other people you care about.
Hidden Realities
In This Chapter
Edward's true situation completely contradicts what everyone believed about his availability
Development
Introduced here as major theme about the gap between appearance and truth
In Your Life:
You might experience this when discovering someone's real circumstances differ drastically from what they've shown.
Emotional Intelligence
In This Chapter
Elinor must process heartbreak while recognizing Lucy's manipulation tactics
Development
Builds on Elinor's growing awareness of others' motivations and her own responses
In Your Life:
You might need this when dealing with people who use emotional situations to gain advantage.
Modern Adaptation
When the Promotion Goes Sideways
Following Maya's story...
Maya's been quietly crushing on David from IT for months, treasuring their coffee breaks and thinking she's reading real interest in his lingering looks. Then Jessica from HR corners her in the break room with devastating news: she and David have been secretly engaged for two years. Jessica shares intimate details—how David proposed during their weekend trip to his hometown, their plans to move in together after her lease ends, even shows Maya the ring she keeps on a chain under her work clothes. What makes it worse is Jessica's obvious satisfaction in delivering this bombshell. She claims she's telling Maya because they're 'friends' and she needs someone to talk to about wedding planning, but her smug smile suggests she knows exactly what she's doing. Maya realizes every moment she thought was special—David bringing her coffee, staying late to help with spreadsheets, their easy conversations—was happening while he was completely committed to someone else. Jessica has been watching Maya develop feelings while holding all the cards, timing this revelation perfectly to crush any hopes Maya might have had.
The Road
The road Elinor walked in 1811, Maya walks today. The pattern is identical: someone weaponizes secret information, timing its release to maximize emotional damage while positioning themselves as the innocent party seeking friendship.
The Map
This chapter teaches Maya to question what she doesn't know before investing emotionally. When someone suddenly shares 'confidential' information, she should examine their timing and motives rather than accepting it at face value.
Amplification
Before reading this, Maya might have dismissed her suspicions as paranoia or jealousy. Now she can NAME information warfare, PREDICT when someone is controlling the narrative, and NAVIGATE by seeking multiple sources before making emotional investments.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
What specific information does Lucy reveal to Elinor, and how long has she been keeping this secret?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does Lucy choose this moment to tell Elinor about her engagement to Edward, and what does her timing reveal about her motives?
analysis • medium - 3
Where have you seen someone use private information as a power move in your workplace, family, or social circle?
application • medium - 4
If you were in Elinor's position, how would you verify Lucy's claims and protect yourself from being manipulated by partial information?
application • deep - 5
What does Lucy's behavior teach us about how people can use secrets and selective honesty to control situations?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Information Gaps
Think of a current situation where you're making assumptions about someone's feelings, availability, or intentions. List what you actually know versus what you're assuming. Then identify three specific ways you could gather more complete information before making your next move.
Consider:
- •Consider who might benefit from your current incomplete understanding
- •Think about whether someone might be strategically withholding information from you
- •Reflect on times when you've controlled information to maintain an advantage
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you discovered that someone close to you had been keeping important information from you. How did it change your understanding of the situation, and what did you learn about the relationship between information and power?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 18: The Letter
The next chapter brings new insights and deeper understanding. Continue reading to discover how timeless patterns from this classic literature illuminate our modern world and the choices we face.