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T22. 1. he partial becomes complete; the crooked, straight; the empty, full; the worn out, new. He whose (desires) are few gets them; he whose (desires) are many goes astray. 2. Therefore the sage holds in his embrace the one thing (of humility), and manifests it to all the world. He is free from self-display, and therefore he shines; from self-assertion, and therefore he is distinguished; from self-boasting, and therefore his merit is acknowledged; from self-complacency, and therefore he acquires superiority. It is because he is thus free from striving that therefore no one in the world is able to strive with him. 3. That saying of the ancients that 'the partial becomes complete' was not vainly spoken:--all real completion is comprehended under it.
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Summary
Lao Tzu flips our usual thinking upside down with a powerful paradox: the things we see as weaknesses are actually our greatest strengths. When something is partial or incomplete, it has room to grow and become whole. When it's crooked, it can be straightened. When it's empty, it can be filled. This isn't just philosophical poetry—it's a practical life strategy. The person who admits they don't know everything is the one who keeps learning. The person who acknowledges their mistakes is the one who gets better. Meanwhile, those who chase after everything they want end up scattered and lost, like someone trying to catch a dozen balls at once. The sage in this chapter understands something crucial about human nature: real strength comes from humility, not from showing off. When you're not constantly trying to prove how great you are, you actually shine brighter. When you're not fighting for every scrap of recognition, people naturally respect you more. It's like that coworker who never brags but consistently delivers—everyone knows they're the real deal. This chapter reveals why the most successful people often seem the most humble. They're not competing in the same game everyone else is playing. While others exhaust themselves trying to be the loudest voice in the room, the wise person becomes so solid and genuine that no one can compete with them. They've discovered that the fastest way to win is to stop fighting battles that don't matter. This ancient wisdom applies perfectly to modern life: in a world of constant self-promotion and social media performance, the person who stays authentic and focused on what truly matters has an almost unfair advantage.
That's what happens. To understand what the author is really doing—and to discuss this chapter with confidence—keep reading.
Terms to Know
The Sage
In Taoist philosophy, the sage is the ideal wise person who has mastered the art of living in harmony with the Tao. They don't seek power or recognition but naturally become influential through their authenticity and wisdom.
Modern Usage:
We see this in leaders who don't need to constantly self-promote but earn respect through consistent, genuine actions.
Wu Wei (Non-Striving)
The Taoist principle of not forcing things or fighting against the natural flow of life. It's about achieving goals through strategic non-action rather than aggressive pursuit.
Modern Usage:
This shows up when someone gets promoted not by office politics but by quietly doing excellent work, or when you solve a problem by stepping back instead of pushing harder.
Paradoxical Thinking
The idea that opposite things can both be true, or that weakness can actually be strength. Lao Tzu uses this throughout the Tao Te Ching to challenge conventional wisdom.
Modern Usage:
We use this when we say things like 'less is more' or recognize that admitting you don't know something makes you seem smarter, not dumber.
Self-Display vs. Natural Shine
The difference between trying to show off your abilities versus letting your genuine qualities speak for themselves. Lao Tzu argues that the latter is more effective.
Modern Usage:
This is the difference between someone who constantly posts about their achievements on social media versus someone whose character naturally draws people to them.
The One Thing (Unity)
In Taoist thought, this refers to staying centered on what truly matters rather than being scattered across many desires or goals. It's about finding your core principle.
Modern Usage:
Modern productivity experts call this 'focus' - successful people often say no to good opportunities so they can say yes to great ones.
Completion Through Incompletion
The Taoist idea that things which appear broken, partial, or imperfect actually have the most potential for growth and wholeness.
Modern Usage:
We see this in how people who acknowledge their flaws often improve faster than those who pretend to be perfect, or how businesses that admit mistakes often gain more customer loyalty.
Characters in This Chapter
The Sage
Ideal wise person
Represents the person who has mastered the art of influence through humility. Shows how real power comes from not needing to prove yourself constantly.
Modern Equivalent:
The respected mentor everyone turns to for advice
He whose desires are few
Successful person
Demonstrates how focusing on fewer things leads to actually getting what you want, while trying to have everything leads to having nothing.
Modern Equivalent:
The person who has clear priorities and sticks to them
He whose desires are many
Cautionary example
Shows the consequences of being scattered and wanting too much at once. Represents the path that leads to frustration and failure.
Modern Equivalent:
The person who's always chasing the next shiny thing
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to distinguish between real authority and performed authority by watching how people handle what they don't know.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when someone admits ignorance versus when they bluff—track who actually gets better results over time.
You have the foundation. Now let's look closer.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"The partial becomes complete; the crooked, straight; the empty, full; the worn out, new."
Context: Opening the chapter with the main paradox
This sets up the entire chapter's theme that what looks like weakness or damage is actually potential for growth. It challenges our assumption that 'broken' things are worthless.
In Today's Words:
What's incomplete has room to grow; what's messed up can be fixed; what's empty can be filled; what's old can become new again.
"He whose desires are few gets them; he whose desires are many goes astray."
Context: Explaining the practical application of focus versus scattered attention
This is ancient wisdom about focus and priorities. When you try to chase everything, you catch nothing. When you focus on what really matters, you're much more likely to succeed.
In Today's Words:
The person who wants fewer things actually gets what they want; the person who wants everything ends up with nothing.
"He is free from self-display, and therefore he shines; from self-assertion, and therefore he is distinguished."
Context: Describing how the sage gains influence through humility
This captures the paradox of authentic influence. The people who don't need to constantly prove themselves are the ones others naturally notice and respect.
In Today's Words:
Because he doesn't show off, people actually notice him; because he doesn't brag, he stands out from the crowd.
"It is because he is thus free from striving that therefore no one in the world is able to strive with him."
Context: Explaining why the sage is unbeatable
This reveals the ultimate strategic advantage of not playing competitive games. When you're not fighting the same battles as everyone else, you become unbeatable because you're playing by different rules.
In Today's Words:
Because he's not trying to compete with everyone, nobody can compete with him.
Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Strategic Weakness
Those who acknowledge their limitations and focus on growth consistently outperform those who maintain facades of perfection.
Thematic Threads
Authenticity
In This Chapter
Being genuine rather than performing strength yields better results
Development
Introduced here
In Your Life:
You might notice how people respond better when you're real about your struggles versus when you pretend everything's fine.
Competition
In This Chapter
The wise person stops competing in games that scatter their energy
Development
Introduced here
In Your Life:
You might recognize times when trying to win every argument actually made you lose respect.
Growth
In This Chapter
Admitting incompleteness creates space for improvement and learning
Development
Introduced here
In Your Life:
You might see how saying 'I don't know' at work led to better training opportunities than pretending you understood.
Recognition
In This Chapter
Not seeking constant validation allows natural respect to develop
Development
Introduced here
In Your Life:
You might notice how the coworkers who don't brag are often the ones everyone actually trusts and respects.
Strength
In This Chapter
True strength comes from humility and self-awareness, not from displays of power
Development
Introduced here
In Your Life:
You might recognize that the strongest people you know are often the most willing to admit when they need help.
Modern Adaptation
When the Promotion Goes Sideways
Following Lin's story...
Lin watches two colleagues compete for department head at the community center where she coaches staff. Marcus constantly interrupts meetings, name-drops his certifications, and takes credit for team wins. Sarah admits when she doesn't know something, asks clarifying questions, and gives others credit. Marcus seems like the obvious choice—he's louder, more aggressive, appears more confident. But when the board interviews both candidates, something interesting happens. Marcus can't answer basic questions about actual operations because he's been too busy performing to pay attention. Sarah demonstrates deep understanding of problems and solutions because she's been listening all along. The promotion goes to Sarah. Marcus is baffled—he did everything 'right' according to the playbook he learned. But he was playing the wrong game entirely. Lin realizes she's been watching the Humility Advantage in action. While Marcus exhausted himself trying to appear perfect, Sarah built real competence. While he fought for every scrap of recognition, she earned genuine respect through substance.
The Road
The road the ancient sage walked in -400, Lin walks today. The pattern is identical: those who admit their incompleteness become whole, while those who grasp for everything lose what matters most.
The Map
This chapter provides a navigation tool for recognizing authentic strength versus performance. Lin can identify when someone is competing in the wrong game—trying to appear perfect instead of getting better.
Amplification
Before reading this, Lin might have mistaken loudness for leadership and confidence for competence. Now she can NAME the difference between authentic and performed authority, PREDICT who will succeed long-term based on their approach to learning, and NAVIGATE by choosing substance over image in her own coaching practice.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
According to Lao Tzu, what advantages do 'incomplete' or 'crooked' things have over things that appear perfect?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does the chapter suggest that people who constantly try to prove themselves end up weaker than those who admit their limitations?
analysis • medium - 3
Where have you seen the 'Humility Advantage' play out in your workplace, family, or community—where someone's willingness to admit they don't know something actually made them more respected?
application • medium - 4
Think about a situation where you felt pressure to appear like you had everything figured out. How might acknowledging your uncertainty have changed the outcome?
application • deep - 5
What does this paradox reveal about the difference between genuine confidence and the need to constantly prove yourself?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Humility Advantage
Think of an area in your life where you feel pressure to appear perfect or all-knowing. Write down three specific things you don't fully understand about this area. Then, identify one person you could ask for help or guidance. Consider how admitting these knowledge gaps might actually strengthen your position rather than weaken it.
Consider:
- •Notice any resistance you feel to admitting what you don't know—where does that come from?
- •Think about people you respect most—do they pretend to know everything, or are they comfortable learning?
- •Consider how much energy you spend maintaining the appearance of having it all figured out
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when someone's willingness to say 'I don't know' or 'I need help' actually made you trust them more. What did that teach you about real strength?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 23: When Less Is More
What lies ahead teaches us forcing outcomes usually backfires on you, and shows us to recognize when you're trying too hard. These patterns appear in literature and life alike.