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XXXIX It was three weeks after the marriage that Clare found himself descending the hill which led to the well-known parsonage of his father. With his downward course the tower of the church rose into the evening sky in a manner of inquiry as to why he had come; and no living person in the twilighted town seemed to notice him, still less to expect him. He was arriving like a ghost, and the sound of his own footsteps was almost an encumbrance to be got rid of. The picture of life had changed for him. Before this time he had known it but speculatively; now he thought he knew it as a practical man; though perhaps he did not, even yet. Nevertheless humanity stood before him no longer in the pensive sweetness of Italian art, but in the staring and ghastly attitudes of a Wiertz Museum, and with the leer of a study by Van Beers. His conduct during these first weeks had been desultory beyond description. After mechanically attempting to pursue his agricultural plans as though nothing unusual had happened, in the manner recommended by the great and wise men of all ages, he concluded that very few of those great and wise men had ever gone so far outside themselves as to test the feasibility of their counsel. “This is the chief thing: be not perturbed,” said the Pagan moralist. That was just Clare’s own opinion. But he was perturbed. “Let not your heart be troubled, neither...
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Summary
Three weeks after abandoning Tess, Angel Clare returns to his parents' home, planning to escape to Brazil. He's a man transformed—where he once saw beauty in life, he now sees only ugliness and despair. His parents welcome him warmly but immediately ask about his new wife. Clare finds himself trapped in an elaborate web of lies, telling them Tess is visiting her family while he prepares for his journey abroad. His mother's genuine excitement about meeting her daughter-in-law becomes torture for Clare. When his father reads from Proverbs about the virtuous wife, praising exactly the qualities Tess possesses, Clare nearly breaks down. His mother's innocent questions probe closer to the truth, asking if there's been trouble in the marriage. Clare insists Tess is 'spotless,' a lie that feels like damnation. The chapter reveals how Angel's supposed progressive thinking crumbles under pressure—he's still enslaved by conventional morality when tested. His parents' blind faith in his judgment only deepens his guilt. Meanwhile, Hardy reminds us that Tess, alone somewhere else, still believes in her husband's goodness. The tragedy isn't just what Angel has done, but his inability to see past his own prejudices to recognize Tess's true worth. His plan to flee to Brazil represents the ultimate act of cowardice—abandoning both his wife and his problems rather than facing them.
That's what happens. To understand what the author is really doing—and to discuss this chapter with confidence—keep reading.
Terms to Know
Pagan moralist
Refers to ancient philosophers like Marcus Aurelius who taught wisdom without Christian beliefs. Clare quotes them to try to stay calm about his situation. Shows how educated people used classical wisdom to handle problems.
Modern Usage:
Like quoting self-help books or motivational speakers when you're going through a crisis.
Wiertz Museum
A museum in Brussels known for disturbing, grotesque paintings of death and horror. Hardy uses this to show how Clare now sees life as ugly and frightening instead of beautiful. It's the opposite of peaceful Italian art.
Modern Usage:
When someone's worldview shifts from seeing beauty everywhere to only noticing what's wrong and depressing.
Desultory conduct
Acting without purpose or direction, jumping from one thing to another aimlessly. Clare can't focus or make decisions because he's emotionally destroyed. He's going through the motions of normal life.
Modern Usage:
Like scrolling social media for hours or cleaning random things when you're avoiding dealing with real problems.
Parsonage
The house where a church minister lives, usually provided by the church. Clare's father is a clergyman, so this is the family home. It represents religious authority and moral expectations.
Modern Usage:
Like returning to your childhood home where your parents still see you as their 'good kid' despite your mistakes.
Proverbs 31
A Bible passage describing the 'virtuous wife' - exactly what Tess actually is, though Clare can't see it. His father reads this unknowingly torturing Clare, who has abandoned a woman with all these qualities.
Modern Usage:
When someone praises exactly the qualities your ex had that you were too blind to appreciate.
Agricultural plans
Clare's original dream of becoming a modern farmer, which he tries to continue as if nothing happened. Represents his attempt to live normally while his world has collapsed.
Modern Usage:
Going to work and acting normal when your personal life is falling apart.
Characters in This Chapter
Angel Clare
Protagonist in crisis
Returns home planning to flee to Brazil, lying to his parents about Tess. Shows his cowardice and how his supposed progressive thinking crumbles under pressure. He's running from his problems instead of facing them.
Modern Equivalent:
The guy who ghosts his girlfriend then avoids mutual friends
Mr. Clare
Angel's father
The clergyman father who unknowingly tortures Angel by reading Bible verses about virtuous wives. His innocent questions and assumptions make Angel's guilt worse.
Modern Equivalent:
The parent who keeps asking about your relationship status when you just broke up
Mrs. Clare
Angel's mother
Excited to meet her new daughter-in-law, making plans and asking innocent questions that probe too close to the truth. Her genuine warmth makes Angel's deception more painful.
Modern Equivalent:
The mother-in-law who's already planning holidays with the spouse you just left
Tess
Absent wife
Though not present, her influence dominates the chapter. Angel lies about her constantly while Hardy reminds us she still believes in him. She represents the truth he's running from.
Modern Equivalent:
The ex who still thinks you're working things out while you're already planning your escape
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to recognize when protecting your image becomes more important than protecting your relationships.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when you feel tempted to lie to maintain someone's good opinion of you, then ask: am I protecting them or protecting my reputation?
You have the foundation. Now let's look closer.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"The picture of life had changed for him... humanity stood before him no longer in the pensive sweetness of Italian art, but in the staring and ghastly attitudes of a Wiertz Museum"
Context: Describing how Angel's worldview has shifted after leaving Tess
Shows how trauma and guilt can completely change how we see the world. Angel went from seeing beauty everywhere to seeing only horror and ugliness. This reveals his mental state and how his actions have poisoned his ability to find joy.
In Today's Words:
Everything that used to seem beautiful now looks ugly and disturbing to him.
"This is the chief thing: be not perturbed... But he was perturbed"
Context: Angel trying to use ancient wisdom to calm himself
Exposes the gap between theory and reality. All the philosophical advice in the world can't help when you're dealing with real emotional crisis. Shows Angel's education is useless for actual life problems.
In Today's Words:
All the self-help advice says 'don't stress,' but he was completely stressed out.
"She is spotless!"
Context: Defending Tess to his mother while lying about their situation
The irony is devastating - Angel knows Tess is pure and good, yet he abandoned her for not being 'pure' enough. His passionate defense shows he knows the truth but can't act on it due to his prejudices.
In Today's Words:
She's perfect! (Even though I left her for not being perfect enough for me.)
Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Righteous Lies - When Good Intentions Become Prison Bars
When maintaining others' faith in your goodness becomes more important than actually being good, trapping you in escalating deception.
Thematic Threads
Deception
In This Chapter
Angel weaves elaborate lies about Tess's whereabouts to protect his parents from the truth
Development
Evolved from Angel's self-deception about his progressive values to active deception of others
In Your Life:
You might catch yourself embellishing stories to maintain someone's good opinion of you
Class
In This Chapter
Angel's 'refined' upbringing makes him unable to handle the messy reality of Tess's past
Development
Deepened from early class tensions to show how privilege creates moral blindness
In Your Life:
You might judge others more harshly when their struggles don't match your background
Identity
In This Chapter
Angel's identity as 'the good son' traps him in lies rather than honest confession
Development
Progressed from Angel defining himself against convention to being enslaved by family expectations
In Your Life:
You might find yourself performing a version of yourself that others expect rather than who you are
Cowardice
In This Chapter
Angel plans to flee to Brazil rather than face his marriage or his lies
Development
Escalated from emotional abandonment of Tess to complete physical escape from consequences
In Your Life:
You might recognize the urge to run away from problems rather than work through them
Social Expectations
In This Chapter
His parents' innocent faith in his judgment becomes unbearable pressure to maintain the lie
Development
Intensified from societal judgment to family expectations becoming emotional prison
In Your Life:
You might feel crushed by loved ones' expectations even when they're meant with love
Modern Adaptation
When the Promotion Goes Sideways
Following Teresa's story...
Three weeks after walking out on Teresa, Marcus finally visits his family for Sunday dinner. His parents beam with pride about his engagement to 'that sweet girl from the diner,' asking when they'll meet her. Marcus finds himself trapped, spinning lies about Teresa visiting her sick grandmother while he 'gets things ready' for their future. His mother pulls out wedding magazines, chattering about venues and flowers. When his father mentions how proud he is that Marcus found someone 'pure and hardworking,' Marcus nearly chokes on his food. His sister asks innocent questions: 'Is everything okay? You seem stressed.' Marcus insists everything's perfect, that Teresa is 'amazing,' while internally planning his escape to the oil fields in North Dakota. Each lie digs him deeper. Meanwhile, Teresa is working double shifts at the truck stop, still wearing the promise ring he gave her, still believing he'll come back when he's 'ready.' His family's genuine excitement about meeting their future daughter-in-law becomes torture. He can't admit he abandoned her the night she needed him most.
The Road
The road Angel Clare walked in 1891, Marcus walks today. The pattern is identical: when we build our identity on being 'the good one,' we become prisoners of others' expectations, choosing elaborate deception over honest vulnerability.
The Map
This chapter provides a navigation tool for recognizing when reputation protection becomes self-destruction. When you feel trapped by others' faith in your goodness, that's the moment to choose difficult honesty over comfortable lies.
Amplification
Before reading this, Teresa might have thought people who lie to their families are just selfish. Now they can NAME the reputation trap, PREDICT how it escalates with each deception, and NAVIGATE toward authentic relationships that can handle their humanity.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
Why does Angel lie to his parents about Tess instead of telling them the truth about their separation?
analysis • surface - 2
How do his parents' expectations and love for him actually make his situation worse rather than better?
analysis • medium - 3
Where do you see people today trapped by their reputation as 'the good one' or 'the reliable one'?
application • medium - 4
What would happen if Angel told his parents the truth about his marriage? What's the worst case versus the likely reality?
application • deep - 5
Why is it sometimes harder to be honest with people who love and trust us than with strangers?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Reputation Trap
Think of a role where people see you as 'the reliable one' - at work, in family, with friends. Write down what people expect from you in this role, then list what you actually struggle with that they don't see. Finally, imagine telling one trusted person about one real struggle. What would actually happen versus what you fear would happen?
Consider:
- •Consider how maintaining a perfect image might be costing you authentic connection
- •Think about whether your fear of disappointing others is realistic or exaggerated
- •Notice if you're protecting others' feelings or protecting your own image
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you lied or covered up a mistake to protect your reputation. Looking back, what would have happened if you'd been honest? How did the lie affect your relationships and your own peace of mind?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 40: The Moment of Almost Betrayal
In the next chapter, you'll discover grief can make us act against our own values, and learn honest friends sometimes save us from ourselves. These insights reveal timeless patterns that resonate in our own lives and relationships.