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XXIII Edna’s father was in the city, and had been with them several days. She was not very warmly or deeply attached to him, but they had certain tastes in common, and when together they were companionable. His coming was in the nature of a welcome disturbance; it seemed to furnish a new direction for her emotions. He had come to purchase a wedding gift for his daughter, Janet, and an outfit for himself in which he might make a creditable appearance at her marriage. Mr. Pontellier had selected the bridal gift, as every one immediately connected with him always deferred to his taste in such matters. And his suggestions on the question of dress—which too often assumes the nature of a problem—were of inestimable value to his father-in-law. But for the past few days the old gentleman had been upon Edna’s hands, and in his society she was becoming acquainted with a new set of sensations. He had been a colonel in the Confederate army, and still maintained, with the title, the military bearing which had always accompanied it. His hair and mustache were white and silky, emphasizing the rugged bronze of his face. He was tall and thin, and wore his coats padded, which gave a fictitious breadth and depth to his shoulders and chest. Edna and her father looked very distinguished together, and excited a good deal of notice during their perambulations. Upon his arrival she began by introducing him to her atelier and making a sketch...
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Summary
Edna's father visits New Orleans, and his presence unexpectedly energizes her in ways her marriage never has. The retired Confederate colonel is formal and military in bearing, but he and Edna discover they're surprisingly compatible companions. She sketches his portrait, takes him to social events, and even accompanies him to the horse races—activities that make her feel more alive than she has in years. At a musical evening, Edna observes how other women use flirtation and charm to captivate men, but realizes she lacks this instinct entirely. She's drawn to certain men not through coquetry but through genuine interest in their personalities. When Dr. Mandelet dines with the family, he notices Edna's transformation from the listless woman her husband described to someone 'palpitant with the forces of life.' The evening becomes animated with stories—Léonce reminisces about his youth, the Colonel recounts war memories, and the Doctor tells of a woman's love seeking new channels. Edna contributes her own tale of lovers who escaped together in a boat and were never seen again. This chapter reveals how the right companionship can awaken dormant energy, even in unexpected relationships. Edna's connection with her father suggests she's capable of deep engagement when she feels genuine compatibility rather than social obligation.
That's what happens. To understand what the author is really doing—and to discuss this chapter with confidence—keep reading.
Terms to Know
Confederate colonel
An officer in the Confederate Army during the American Civil War (1861-1865). These men often maintained their military titles and bearing long after the war ended, especially in the South.
Modern Usage:
Like veterans today who still identify strongly with their military service and carry themselves with that discipline and formality years later.
Atelier
A French word for an artist's studio or workshop. In wealthy 19th-century homes, ladies often had dedicated spaces for painting, sketching, or other artistic pursuits.
Modern Usage:
Similar to having a craft room, home office, or creative space where someone pursues their hobbies or side projects.
Perambulations
Formal walks or strolls, often for leisure or social purposes. In this era, being seen walking together in public was a way to display social status and relationships.
Modern Usage:
Like when people post photos of themselves at events or locations on social media to show off their lifestyle or connections.
Coquetry
The art of flirting in a playful, teasing way to attract romantic attention. It was considered a refined social skill for women in this period.
Modern Usage:
The same as modern flirting techniques - using charm, playful banter, and subtle signals to attract someone's interest.
Palpitant
Throbbing or pulsing with life, energy, or emotion. The word suggests someone who is fully alive and engaged rather than going through the motions.
Modern Usage:
When someone seems to come alive around certain people or activities - like they're finally in their element and radiating energy.
Creditable appearance
Looking respectable and appropriate for one's social position and the occasion. In this era, proper dress was crucial for maintaining social standing.
Modern Usage:
Dressing the part for important events - like wearing your best outfit to a wedding or job interview to make a good impression.
Characters in This Chapter
Edna's father (the Colonel)
Visiting patriarch
A retired Confederate colonel who unexpectedly energizes Edna during his visit. His military bearing and compatible personality awaken something in her that her marriage never has.
Modern Equivalent:
The distinguished older relative who still commands respect and brings out your best self when they visit
Edna
Protagonist
Discovers she's capable of genuine companionship and engagement when with someone who truly connects with her. Her father's visit reveals her capacity for deep connection outside her marriage.
Modern Equivalent:
The woman who feels more like herself around certain people than she does with her own spouse
Mr. Pontellier (Léonce)
Husband
Takes charge of selecting gifts and giving advice, as everyone defers to his taste. His role highlights how he manages rather than connects with family relationships.
Modern Equivalent:
The husband who handles all the logistics and decisions but misses the emotional connections
Dr. Mandelet
Observant family friend
Notices Edna's transformation from listless to vibrant during the dinner. His perceptive observations suggest he understands what others miss about her changing nature.
Modern Equivalent:
The wise family friend who sees what's really going on when everyone else is oblivious
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to distinguish between energy-draining social obligations and energy-creating genuine connections.
Practice This Today
This week, notice which people and activities leave you feeling more alive versus drained—these patterns reveal your authentic nature and guide better choices.
You have the foundation. Now let's look closer.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"His coming was in the nature of a welcome disturbance; it seemed to furnish a new direction for her emotions."
Context: Describing how Edna feels about her father's visit
This reveals how starved Edna has been for genuine connection. Even her relationship with her father provides more emotional stimulation than her daily life. The word 'disturbance' suggests her life has been stagnant.
In Today's Words:
Having him around shook things up in a good way and gave her feelings somewhere new to go.
"She was becoming acquainted with a new set of sensations."
Context: Describing Edna's experience spending time with her father
This shows Edna discovering parts of herself that have been dormant. The companionship with her father awakens responses she didn't know she was capable of, hinting at her capacity for deeper connections.
In Today's Words:
She was experiencing feelings she'd never had before.
"The woman who had dominated at twenty-five could not be dominated at forty."
Context: Telling a story during dinner that seems to relate to Edna's situation
This suggests that women change as they mature and may no longer accept situations they once tolerated. It's a pointed observation about how life experience can lead to awakening and resistance.
In Today's Words:
A woman who could be controlled in her twenties won't put up with it anymore in her forties.
Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Compatible Energy - When the Right Company Awakens Your True Self
When we encounter truly compatible company, dormant aspects of our personality suddenly spring to life, revealing energy we thought we'd lost.
Thematic Threads
Authentic Connection
In This Chapter
Edna comes alive with her father in ways she never does with her husband, discovering genuine compatibility
Development
Builds on her earlier connections with Robert and Mademoiselle Reisz—relationships that energize rather than drain
In Your Life:
You might notice how certain people bring out sides of yourself that others never see.
Social Performance
In This Chapter
Edna observes other women's flirtation skills and realizes she lacks this instinct entirely
Development
Continues her pattern of rejecting expected feminine behaviors that don't feel natural to her
In Your Life:
You might feel inadequate at social games that others seem to play effortlessly.
Energy Awakening
In This Chapter
Dr. Mandelet notices Edna's transformation from listless to 'palpitant with the forces of life'
Development
Shows her capacity for vitality when in the right circumstances, contrasting with earlier lethargy
In Your Life:
You might find yourself surprisingly energized in certain company or situations.
Unexpected Compatibility
In This Chapter
Edna and her formal military father discover they're surprisingly good companions
Development
Introduced here—shows compatibility can come from unexpected sources
In Your Life:
You might find meaningful connections with people you initially thought had nothing in common with you.
Storytelling Truth
In This Chapter
Edna tells a tale of lovers who escaped together and were never seen again
Development
Her stories increasingly reveal her inner desires and fantasies about freedom
In Your Life:
You might find your casual stories reveal more about your true desires than you intended.
Modern Adaptation
When Dad Shows Up
Following April's story...
When April's father visits for a week, something unexpected happens—she comes alive in ways her marriage never sparked. The retired Army sergeant is formal and direct, but they click immediately. She drives him around town, takes him to her art class, even goes to the casino with him—activities that energize her more than anything has in years. At her friend's birthday party, April watches other women work the room with easy charm, realizing she's never had that social instinct. She connects with people through genuine interest, not flirtation. When their neighbor Dr. Martinez joins them for dinner, he notices the transformation—this isn't the exhausted woman her husband described, but someone 'buzzing with life.' The evening flows with stories: her husband reminisces about college, her father shares deployment memories, and Dr. Martinez tells about a patient who left everything behind for love. April contributes her own story about a couple who disappeared on a road trip and were never found. For the first time in years, she feels like herself.
The Road
The road April Pontellier walked in 1899, April walks today. The pattern is identical: we don't lack energy—we lack compatible company that allows our authentic self to emerge.
The Map
This chapter provides a crucial navigation tool: the Energy Audit. April can now track which relationships and activities genuinely energize her versus those that drain her through social obligation.
Amplification
Before reading this, April might have assumed she was just tired or depressed, accepting her lifeless routine as normal. Now she can NAME authentic compatibility, PREDICT which situations will energize her, and NAVIGATE toward relationships that bring out her true self.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
Why does Edna come alive around her father when she feels drained around her husband?
analysis • surface - 2
What does it mean that Edna lacks the 'instinct' for flirtation that other women use naturally?
analysis • medium - 3
Where have you seen someone transform from listless to energetic based on who they're with?
application • medium - 4
How can you tell the difference between relationships that drain your energy versus ones that restore it?
application • deep - 5
What does this chapter suggest about the role of compatibility in human relationships?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Energy Audit Your Relationships
List five people you spend regular time with. Next to each name, write whether you feel more or less energetic after being with them. Then identify what specific qualities in those relationships either drain or restore you. This isn't about judging people as good or bad, but understanding your own energy patterns.
Consider:
- •Energy levels can vary with the same person in different contexts
- •Some draining relationships may be necessary but manageable with boundaries
- •Energizing relationships often involve people who appreciate your authentic self
Journaling Prompt
Write about a relationship that unexpectedly energizes you, like Edna's connection with her father. What does this relationship reveal about who you really are when you're not trying to fit someone else's expectations?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 24: The Sweet Taste of Solitude
Moving forward, we'll examine to recognize the difference between loneliness and chosen solitude, and understand family pressure often masks control disguised as concern. These insights bridge the gap between classic literature and modern experience.