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CHAPTER XV On returning late in the evening Sónya went to Natásha’s room, and to her surprise found her still dressed and asleep on the sofa. Open on the table, beside her lay Anatole’s letter. Sónya picked it up and read it. As she read she glanced at the sleeping Natásha, trying to find in her face an explanation of what she was reading, but did not find it. Her face was calm, gentle, and happy. Clutching her breast to keep herself from choking, Sónya, pale and trembling with fear and agitation, sat down in an armchair and burst into tears. “How was it I noticed nothing? How could it go so far? Can she have left off loving Prince Andrew? And how could she let Kurágin go to such lengths? He is a deceiver and a villain, that’s plain! What will Nicholas, dear noble Nicholas, do when he hears of it? So this is the meaning of her excited, resolute, unnatural look the day before yesterday, yesterday, and today,” thought Sónya. “But it can’t be that she loves him! She probably opened the letter without knowing who it was from. Probably she is offended by it. She could not do such a thing!” Sónya wiped away her tears and went up to Natásha, again scanning her face. “Natásha!” she said, just audibly. Natásha awoke and saw Sónya. “Ah, you’re back?” And with the decision and tenderness that often come at the moment of awakening, she embraced her friend, but...
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Summary
Sónya discovers Natásha has been secretly corresponding with Anatole and confronts her friend about abandoning Prince Andrew. What follows is a devastating argument that reveals how completely Anatole has manipulated Natásha. Natásha claims she's found true love and has no choice but to follow her heart, even writing to Princess Mary to break off her engagement. She describes feeling like Anatole's 'slave' and insists this overwhelming passion is different from anything she's felt before. Sónya, horrified by the secrecy and Anatole's refusal to openly court Natásha, tries to make her friend see reason. But every attempt to help only drives Natásha further away. The chapter shows how predators isolate their victims by making them believe that anyone who questions the relationship is an enemy. Natásha, completely under Anatole's influence, becomes hostile toward the person who cares most about her welfare. Sónya realizes Natásha is planning to elope and positions herself as the last line of defense for the family's honor. This chapter brilliantly illustrates how manipulation works - not through force, but by making the victim feel they're making free choices while actually being controlled. It also shows the painful position of watching someone you love destroy themselves while being powerless to stop them.
That's what happens. To understand what the author is really doing—and to discuss this chapter with confidence—keep reading.
Terms to Know
Elopement
Running away to get married secretly, without family permission or a proper ceremony. In 19th century Russia, this would ruin a woman's reputation and her family's honor forever.
Modern Usage:
Today we see this pattern when someone makes a major life decision in secret because they know their support system would object.
Social isolation
When someone cuts themselves off from friends and family, often because they're being manipulated. The manipulator convinces them that people who care are actually enemies.
Modern Usage:
This is a classic warning sign in abusive relationships - when your partner tries to turn you against your friends and family.
Love bombing
Overwhelming someone with intense attention and declarations of love very quickly. It's designed to make the victim feel special and chosen, but it's actually a control tactic.
Modern Usage:
We see this in dating apps and social media - someone who comes on extremely strong right away is often not genuine.
Engagement breaking
Ending a formal promise to marry. In Tolstoy's time, this was a serious breach of social contract that could destroy reputations and family alliances.
Modern Usage:
Breaking up with someone you've made serious commitments to still carries emotional and sometimes financial consequences today.
Moral panic
The fear and urgency someone feels when they discover a loved one is making dangerous choices. Sónya experiences this classic response to crisis.
Modern Usage:
This is what parents feel when they find out their teenager is involved with drugs or a dangerous crowd.
Enabler vs. protector
The difference between someone who helps destructive behavior continue versus someone who tries to stop it. Sónya must choose which role to play.
Modern Usage:
Family members of addicts face this same choice - do you cover for them or hold them accountable?
Characters in This Chapter
Sónya
The concerned friend
She discovers Natásha's secret and realizes the danger. She's torn between loyalty to her friend and protecting the family from scandal. Her horror at the situation shows how serious this is.
Modern Equivalent:
The friend who finds out you're being catfished online
Natásha
The manipulated victim
She's completely under Anatole's influence but believes she's making free choices. She turns hostile toward Sónya for questioning her 'love' and is planning to destroy her future.
Modern Equivalent:
The friend who's fallen for a obvious scammer but attacks anyone who points it out
Anatole
The predatory manipulator
Though not present, his influence dominates the chapter. He's convinced Natásha that their secret relationship is romantic rather than predatory, and that she must choose between him and everyone else.
Modern Equivalent:
The smooth-talking guy who slides into DMs promising you're 'different from other girls'
Prince Andrew
The abandoned fiancé
He's the honorable man Natásha is throwing away for Anatole. His absence from this scene makes Natásha's betrayal even more stark - she's discarding real love for manipulation.
Modern Equivalent:
The decent partner you dump for someone who's obviously using you
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how manipulators use the language of love and loyalty to cut victims off from their support systems.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when someone frames outside concern as jealousy or asks you to keep major decisions secret from people who care about you.
You have the foundation. Now let's look closer.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"How was it I noticed nothing? How could it go so far?"
Context: When she discovers the extent of Natásha's secret relationship
This captures the shock of realizing someone you're close to has been living a double life. Sónya blames herself for missing the signs, which is typical when we discover deception.
In Today's Words:
How did I miss all the red flags? How did this get so out of hand?
"He is a deceiver and a villain, that's plain!"
Context: Her immediate assessment of Anatole's character
Sónya sees clearly what Natásha cannot - that Anatole is a predator. This shows how outsiders often spot manipulation that victims can't see.
In Today's Words:
This guy is obviously a player and a user!
"She could not do such a thing!"
Context: Trying to convince herself Natásha isn't really planning to elope
This is denial - when we can't accept that someone we love is making destructive choices. Sónya knows Natásha well enough to see this is completely out of character.
In Today's Words:
There's no way she would actually do something this stupid!
Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Isolation by Design
Predators control victims not through force but by making isolation from support systems feel like proof of special love or trust.
Thematic Threads
Manipulation
In This Chapter
Anatole controls Natásha by making her feel chosen while systematically cutting her ties to family and friends
Development
Escalated from earlier subtle influence to complete psychological control
In Your Life:
You might see this when someone makes you feel special for keeping secrets that isolate you from your support system
Identity
In This Chapter
Natásha's sense of self has been completely rewritten by Anatole's influence, calling herself his 'slave' while believing she's free
Development
Continued erosion from confident young woman to someone who no longer recognizes her own values
In Your Life:
You might notice this when you find yourself defending choices that contradict your previous values or goals
Loyalty
In This Chapter
Natásha turns against Sónya, her most loyal friend, because manipulation rewires victims to see concern as betrayal
Development
Perverted from healthy family bonds into misplaced devotion to a predator
In Your Life:
You might experience this when someone makes you choose between them and the people who've always supported you
Social Expectations
In This Chapter
The conflict between proper courtship (open, family-approved) versus secret manipulation disguised as romantic passion
Development
Continued tension between social structures designed to protect versus individual desire
In Your Life:
You might face this when someone pressures you to bypass normal safeguards in relationships or business deals
Power
In This Chapter
Anatole's power comes not from position but from psychological control that makes Natásha complicit in her own manipulation
Development
Shifted from social/economic power to psychological domination
In Your Life:
You might encounter this when someone gains influence over you by making you feel like you're making all the choices
Modern Adaptation
When Your Best Friend Won't Listen
Following Andrew's story...
Andrew watches helplessly as his best friend Marcus gets deeper into a relationship with their new supervisor, Elena. What started as workplace flirtation has become something darker - Marcus sneaking around, lying to his girlfriend, and now planning to leave his job and move across the country with Elena. When Andrew tries to point out the red flags - how Elena only texts late at night, demands secrecy, and has isolated Marcus from their friend group - Marcus explodes. 'You're just jealous,' Marcus says. 'Elena says you've always been controlling.' Andrew realizes Elena has been feeding Marcus lines, turning him against anyone who might interfere. Marcus describes feeling like he'd 'do anything for her' and calls it love, but Andrew sees the manipulation. The friendship that survived high school, military deployment, and years of shift work is crumbling because Marcus can't see he's being played. Andrew knows if he pushes harder, he'll lose Marcus completely. But staying silent feels like watching a car crash in slow motion.
The Road
The road Natásha walked in 1812, Andrew walks today. The pattern is identical: predators isolate victims by making concern look like jealousy and manipulation feel like love.
The Map
This chapter provides a roadmap for recognizing isolation tactics. When someone demands secrecy while claiming special love, when they turn you against people who care about you, when they make you feel chosen while cutting your connections - these are warning signs, not romance.
Amplification
Before reading this, Andrew might have kept arguing with Marcus, pushing him further away. Now he can NAME the isolation pattern, PREDICT that direct confrontation will backfire, and NAVIGATE by staying available without enabling while protecting himself from the emotional manipulation.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
How does Natásha describe her feelings for Anatole, and what language does she use that reveals how completely he's influenced her thinking?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does Natásha become hostile toward Sónya, the person who cares most about her welfare? What does this reveal about how manipulation works?
analysis • medium - 3
Where do you see this pattern of 'isolation disguised as special love' in modern relationships, workplaces, or sales situations?
application • medium - 4
If you were Sónya, knowing that direct confrontation is pushing Natásha away, what approach would you take to help your friend see the manipulation?
application • deep - 5
What does this chapter teach us about the difference between healthy privacy and dangerous secrecy in relationships?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Create Your Manipulation Warning System
Think about a major decision you're facing or might face soon. Create a personal 'red flag checklist' based on Anatole's manipulation tactics. List specific warning signs that would tell you someone is trying to isolate your decision-making rather than genuinely help you. Then identify two people in your life who could give you honest input on this decision.
Consider:
- •Notice if someone discourages you from seeking other opinions or advice
- •Pay attention to requests for secrecy that benefit the other person more than you
- •Watch for language that makes you feel 'special' for keeping secrets or making quick decisions
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when someone tried to rush you into a decision or discouraged you from talking to others about it. What happened, and what would you do differently now?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 161: The Point of No Return
As the story unfolds, you'll explore enablers profit from others' destructive choices, while uncovering warnings from experienced people often go unheeded. These lessons connect the classic to contemporary challenges we all face.