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CHAPTER XVIII Countess Rostóva, with her daughters and a large number of guests, was already seated in the drawing room. The count took the gentlemen into his study and showed them his choice collection of Turkish pipes. From time to time he went out to ask: “Hasn’t she come yet?” They were expecting Márya Dmítrievna Akhrosímova, known in society as le terrible dragon, a lady distinguished not for wealth or rank, but for common sense and frank plainness of speech. Márya Dmítrievna was known to the Imperial family as well as to all Moscow and Petersburg, and both cities wondered at her, laughed privately at her rudenesses, and told good stories about her, while none the less all without exception respected and feared her. In the count’s room, which was full of tobacco smoke, they talked of the war that had been announced in a manifesto, and about the recruiting. None of them had yet seen the manifesto, but they all knew it had appeared. The count sat on the sofa between two guests who were smoking and talking. He neither smoked nor talked, but bending his head first to one side and then to the other watched the smokers with evident pleasure and listened to the conversation of his two neighbors, whom he egged on against each other. One of them was a sallow, clean-shaven civilian with a thin and wrinkled face, already growing old, though he was dressed like a most fashionable young man. He sat with his...
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Summary
At the Rostov dinner party, we witness a masterclass in social dynamics and character revelation. The chapter opens with men discussing war while smoking pipes, where we meet two contrasting figures: Shinshin, a sharp-tongued bachelor who speaks in mixed French and Russian, and Berg, a young officer obsessed with his own advancement. Berg dominates the conversation with detailed explanations of how his military career moves benefit him financially, completely oblivious to others' reactions. His self-absorption is so complete yet innocent that it becomes almost charming rather than offensive. Meanwhile, Pierre sits awkwardly in the drawing room, still the social misfit despite his recent notoriety from the bear incident. The real power shift occurs when Marya Dmitrievna arrives - 'le terrible dragon' - a woman who commands respect not through wealth or rank, but through her direct honesty and moral authority. Everyone rises when she enters, and she immediately takes charge, addressing people's flaws directly but with underlying affection. She scolds Pierre for his recent antics while his father lies dying, suggesting he should go to war instead. At dinner, the seating arrangement reveals the social hierarchy, and we observe various romantic tensions: Natasha's crush on Boris, Sonya's jealousy over Nicholas's attention to Julie, and Berg's affected romantic talk with Vera. The chapter brilliantly shows how formal social gatherings become theaters where people perform their identities, reveal their true natures, and navigate complex power dynamics.
That's what happens. To understand what the author is really doing—and to discuss this chapter with confidence—keep reading.
Terms to Know
Le terrible dragon
A nickname for Marya Dmitrievna, meaning 'the terrible dragon' in French. It shows how Russian aristocrats mixed French into their speech to sound sophisticated. The name captures her fierce honesty and moral authority.
Modern Usage:
Like calling someone 'the office mom' or 'the family enforcer' - someone who keeps everyone in line through tough love.
Drawing room politics
The complex social maneuvering that happens at formal gatherings. People position themselves, form alliances, and compete for status through conversation and seating arrangements. Every interaction has hidden meaning.
Modern Usage:
Think office holiday parties or family reunions - same dynamics of who sits where, who talks to whom, and who has real influence.
Social climbing
Berg's behavior shows classic social climbing - constantly talking about his promotions and financial gains to impress others. He's trying to use military success to rise in society's ranks.
Modern Usage:
The coworker who name-drops connections, brags about their new car payment, or posts every achievement on social media.
Moral authority
Marya Dmitrievna commands respect not through money or title, but because people trust her judgment and honesty. She can scold anyone, even Pierre, because they know she speaks truth.
Modern Usage:
Like the grandmother or community elder everyone listens to, or the teacher whose tough love actually helps you grow.
Manifesto
An official government announcement, in this case about war. The men discuss it even though none have read it yet - showing how news and rumors spread in pre-internet times.
Modern Usage:
Like when major news breaks and everyone's discussing it based on headlines and social media posts before getting the full story.
Turkish pipes
Expensive smoking pipes that show the count's wealth and taste. Men would gather to smoke and discuss serious matters - it was a masculine social ritual of the upper class.
Modern Usage:
Like having the latest gaming setup, expensive whiskey collection, or fancy grill - status symbols that create social spaces.
Characters in This Chapter
Berg
Social climber
A young officer who dominates conversation with detailed explanations of how his military career benefits him financially. His complete self-absorption is so innocent it becomes almost charming rather than offensive.
Modern Equivalent:
The coworker who turns every conversation into their personal success story
Marya Dmitrievna
Moral authority figure
Known as 'le terrible dragon,' she commands respect through direct honesty rather than wealth or rank. She scolds Pierre about his behavior while his father is dying and suggests he should go to war.
Modern Equivalent:
The family matriarch who tells everyone the hard truths they need to hear
Pierre
Social misfit
Still awkward in social situations despite his recent notoriety from the bear incident. He sits uncomfortably in the drawing room and gets lectured by Marya Dmitrievna about his life choices.
Modern Equivalent:
The guy who never quite fits in at parties, even after becoming locally famous
Count Rostov
Gracious host
Shows off his Turkish pipe collection to male guests and keeps checking if Marya Dmitrievna has arrived. He facilitates conversation between others rather than dominating it himself.
Modern Equivalent:
The dad who loves showing off his tools or collection while hosting backyard barbecues
Shinshin
Sharp-tongued observer
A sallow, fashionably dressed civilian who speaks in mixed French and Russian. He provides witty commentary and serves as a contrast to Berg's earnest self-promotion.
Modern Equivalent:
The sarcastic friend who always has a cutting comment about everyone else's behavior
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to distinguish between people performing success and those with genuine authority or contentment.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when someone over-explains their achievements or qualifications—they're usually the most insecure person in the room, while quiet confidence speaks louder.
You have the foundation. Now let's look closer.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"None of them had yet seen the manifesto, but they all knew it had appeared."
Context: Men discussing the war announcement in the count's smoking room
Shows how information spreads through social networks before anyone has actual facts. People form opinions based on rumors and assumptions rather than direct knowledge.
In Today's Words:
Nobody had actually read the official announcement, but everyone was already talking about it like they knew what it said.
"You know I have been made a captain of the Guards?"
Context: Berg announcing his promotion to the dinner guests
Reveals Berg's need for validation and his belief that military advancement makes him more socially valuable. His innocent pride in self-promotion makes him both annoying and endearing.
In Today's Words:
Did I mention I got promoted? Because I definitely want everyone to know about my success.
"Why aren't you serving? I don't like dodgers!"
Context: Scolding Pierre for not joining the military while his father is dying
Shows her moral authority and direct speaking style. She cuts through social niceties to address what she sees as Pierre's character flaws and wasted potential.
In Today's Words:
Stop making excuses and step up - I can't stand people who avoid their responsibilities.
Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Social Performance - When Everyone's Acting
The harder people try to impress in social settings, the more their insecurities and true character become visible to observant watchers.
Thematic Threads
Social Authority
In This Chapter
Marya Dmitrievna commands instant respect through direct honesty, while others perform for attention
Development
Building on earlier class distinctions—now showing earned vs. inherited authority
In Your Life:
You see this in workplaces where the real leaders aren't always the ones with the biggest titles
Self-Absorption
In This Chapter
Berg monopolizes conversation with detailed accounts of his career advancement and financial benefits
Development
Continues theme from Pierre's earlier social awkwardness—different expressions of social blindness
In Your Life:
That family member who turns every conversation back to their own achievements and problems
Performance vs. Authenticity
In This Chapter
Everyone performs their social role at dinner while genuine connections happen in smaller moments
Development
Introduced here as major theme—formal vs. authentic social interaction
In Your Life:
The difference between how you act at work parties versus with your closest friends
Romantic Competition
In This Chapter
Sonya's jealousy over Nicholas, various crushes and attractions creating social tension
Development
Continuing from earlier romantic threads—now showing how romance affects group dynamics
In Your Life:
Workplace dynamics shift when romantic interests enter the picture
Class Performance
In This Chapter
Seating arrangements and conversation topics reveal social hierarchy and expectations
Development
Deepening from earlier class themes—showing how class gets performed daily
In Your Life:
How you adjust your behavior depending on whether you're with coworkers, family, or strangers
Modern Adaptation
When Everyone's Performing
Following Andrew's story...
At his cousin's engagement party, Andrew watches the familiar theater unfold. His cousin Marcus dominates every conversation, loudly explaining how his new warehouse supervisor position comes with overtime opportunities and health benefits, calculating his annual earnings for anyone who'll listen. Meanwhile, Andrew sits awkwardly by the snack table, still the odd one out despite his recent windfall from selling his late father's property. The real shift happens when Aunt Dorothy arrives—everyone calls her 'Dot the Truth-Teller.' She commands the room not through money or status, but through her direct honesty. She immediately corners Andrew about wasting his inheritance on philosophical books instead of getting serious about his future, suggesting he join the military or at least get a steady job. At dinner, the seating reveals everything: Marcus holding court about his career moves, his fiancée Vera nodding along, while the younger cousins perform their own versions of success—community college achievements, new relationships, weekend side hustles. Everyone's trying so hard to impress that the actual celebration gets lost.
The Road
The road Berg walked in 1869, Andrew walks today. The pattern is identical: social gatherings become performance stages where people amplify their perceived strengths, revealing their true insecurities through what they think will impress others.
The Map
Andrew learns to read social theater—identifying who's performing versus who has genuine authority. He can navigate by staying curious about others rather than advertising himself.
Amplification
Before reading this, Andrew might have felt obligated to match everyone's self-promotion or felt inadequate for not having impressive achievements to share. Now he can NAME the performance, PREDICT who will dominate conversations with their accomplishments, and NAVIGATE by connecting authentically rather than competing.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
What does Berg's behavior at the dinner party reveal about how he sees himself versus how others see him?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does Marya Dmitrievna command more respect than wealthier or higher-ranking guests at the party?
analysis • medium - 3
Where do you see people performing exaggerated versions of themselves in your daily life - at work, family gatherings, or social media?
application • medium - 4
How would you handle being in a social situation where someone like Berg dominates the conversation with tedious self-promotion?
application • deep - 5
What does this chapter suggest about the difference between trying to impress people and actually earning their respect?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Social Performance
Think about the last formal gathering you attended - a work meeting, family dinner, or social event. Identify who was performing (trying to impress) versus who had quiet authority. Then honestly assess your own behavior: What version of yourself did you perform, and what were you trying to prove?
Consider:
- •Look for people who talked the most about their accomplishments or expertise
- •Notice who others naturally turned to for opinions or decisions
- •Consider what topics you emphasized when introducing yourself or contributing to conversations
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you caught yourself performing a version of yourself to impress others. What were you really trying to prove, and how did it feel? How might you approach similar situations differently now?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 19: War Talk and Dinner Courage
Moving forward, we'll examine people use grand rhetoric to mask their real fears about conflict, and understand young people often feel pressure to perform patriotism loudly. These insights bridge the gap between classic literature and modern experience.