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CHAPTER XXVI The gray-haired valet was sitting drowsily listening to the snoring of the prince, who was in his large study. From the far side of the house through the closed doors came the sound of difficult passages—twenty times repeated—of a sonata by Dussek. Just then a closed carriage and another with a hood drove up to the porch. Prince Andrew got out of the carriage, helped his little wife to alight, and let her pass into the house before him. Old Tíkhon, wearing a wig, put his head out of the door of the antechamber, reported in a whisper that the prince was sleeping, and hastily closed the door. Tíkhon knew that neither the son’s arrival nor any other unusual event must be allowed to disturb the appointed order of the day. Prince Andrew apparently knew this as well as Tíkhon; he looked at his watch as if to ascertain whether his father’s habits had changed since he was at home last, and, having assured himself that they had not, he turned to his wife. “He will get up in twenty minutes. Let us go across to Mary’s room,” he said. The little princess had grown stouter during this time, but her eyes and her short, downy, smiling lip lifted when she began to speak just as merrily and prettily as ever. “Why, this is a palace!” she said to her husband, looking around with the expression with which people compliment their host at a ball. “Let’s come, quick,...
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Summary
Prince Andrew returns home with his pregnant wife Lise to visit his father and sister Princess Mary before departing for war. The chapter reveals the rigid structure of the old prince's household, where even his son's arrival cannot disrupt the established daily routine. The contrast between personalities becomes immediately apparent: Lise is bubbly and talkative, Princess Mary is gentle and emotional, while Andrew appears uncomfortable with displays of affection. The reunion between the two women is tearfully joyful, but Andrew finds their emotional outpouring awkward and unnatural. Meanwhile, his father maintains his eccentric habits—precise schedules, mathematical lessons, and dismissive attitudes toward modern military strategy. When Andrew finally meets with his father, the old prince shows both affection and stubborn opinions, insisting on hearing war plans while simultaneously mocking them. The old man's interruptions during Andrew's military briefing reveal his scattered attention and preoccupation with domestic details, even as his son prepares for battle. This chapter establishes the family dynamics that will influence Andrew's emotional development throughout the novel, showing how different generations and personalities cope with love, duty, and impending separation. The structured household routines provide comfort and continuity, even as war threatens to disrupt everything.
That's what happens. To understand what the author is really doing—and to discuss this chapter with confidence—keep reading.
Terms to Know
Rigid household routine
A strict daily schedule that cannot be disrupted, even for important events. The old prince's household operates like clockwork, with set times for meals, lessons, and activities that everyone must respect.
Modern Usage:
We see this in families with strict bedtimes and meal times, or workplaces where meetings can't be moved even for emergencies.
Generational clash
The conflict between older and younger generations' values and ways of thinking. Prince Andrew's father dismisses modern military strategy while clinging to outdated methods.
Modern Usage:
Like when grandparents refuse to use smartphones or parents can't understand social media trends their kids follow.
Emotional restraint
The cultural expectation to control feelings and avoid public displays of emotion. Prince Andrew feels uncomfortable with his wife and sister's tearful reunion.
Modern Usage:
Similar to how some people feel awkward at family gatherings when relatives get too huggy or emotional.
Duty before comfort
The belief that obligations and responsibilities come before personal happiness or convenience. Andrew visits his difficult father before leaving for war, despite the stress it causes.
Modern Usage:
Like visiting demanding relatives during holidays or working overtime when your family needs the money.
Patriarchal authority
A family structure where the oldest male makes all decisions and everyone else must accommodate his wishes. The prince's schedule dominates the entire household.
Modern Usage:
Still seen in families where Dad's work schedule determines when everyone eats dinner or takes vacations.
Social performance
Acting in ways expected by society rather than expressing true feelings. Lise compliments the house like a proper guest, even though she's family.
Modern Usage:
Like posting happy family photos on social media even when you're fighting, or saying 'fine' when someone asks how you are.
Characters in This Chapter
Prince Andrew
Conflicted son and husband
Returns home before going to war, struggling to connect emotionally with his family. He's caught between duty to his father and discomfort with emotional displays.
Modern Equivalent:
The adult child who visits difficult parents out of obligation but counts the minutes until they can leave
Lise (the little princess)
Cheerful young wife
Andrew's pregnant wife who tries to keep things light and pleasant. She's genuinely happy to see family but also performs the role of the perfect guest.
Modern Equivalent:
The spouse who overcompensates with cheerfulness when visiting their partner's intimidating family
Princess Mary
Devoted daughter and sister
Lives under her father's strict control but shows genuine emotion when reunited with her sister-in-law. She represents traditional feminine virtues.
Modern Equivalent:
The adult daughter who never moved out and still lives by her parents' rules
The old prince (Prince Bolkonsky)
Demanding patriarch
Controls every aspect of household life through rigid schedules and routines. He's both loving and difficult, wanting to hear about the war while dismissing modern ideas.
Modern Equivalent:
The aging parent who insists everything be done their way and interrupts conversations with random complaints
Tíkhon
Loyal household servant
Protects the prince's routine and knows the family dynamics better than anyone. He understands that the schedule cannot be disrupted.
Modern Equivalent:
The long-time employee who knows all the boss's quirks and shields them from interruptions
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to recognize when someone's rigid behavior stems from fear rather than genuine authority.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when someone insists on following procedures during emotional moments—they might be using rules to avoid vulnerability.
You have the foundation. Now let's look closer.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"He will get up in twenty minutes. Let us go across to Mary's room."
Context: Andrew tells his wife they must wait because his father is napping on schedule
Shows how completely the father's routine dominates the household. Even Andrew's return from a long absence and departure for war cannot disrupt the established order.
In Today's Words:
Dad's still sleeping and we can't wake him up, so we'll have to wait.
"Why, this is a palace!"
Context: The little princess comments on the house as they enter
Demonstrates her attempt to be the perfect guest, complimenting her host even though this is her family home. It shows her social training and desire to please.
In Today's Words:
Wow, this place is amazing! (Even though I've been here before and feel obligated to say something nice)
"Tíkhon knew that neither the son's arrival nor any other unusual event must be allowed to disturb the appointed order of the day."
Context: Explaining why the servant won't wake the sleeping prince
Reveals how completely routine has taken over this household. Even major life events like a son's final visit before war cannot interrupt the schedule.
In Today's Words:
The routine was more important than anything else happening in their lives.
Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Rigid Rhythms - When Structure Becomes Prison
Using rigid structure and routine to maintain control while unconsciously preventing genuine connection and adaptation to what actually matters.
Thematic Threads
Control
In This Chapter
The old prince maintains absolute control over household routines, even when his son returns from war
Development
Introduced here
In Your Life:
You might recognize this when you insist on your usual routine during family visits instead of being present for rare time together.
Emotional Distance
In This Chapter
Andrew feels uncomfortable with his wife and sister's tearful reunion, finding their emotions 'awkward and unnatural'
Development
Introduced here
In Your Life:
You might see this when you feel awkward around coworkers who express genuine emotion or vulnerability.
Generational Conflict
In This Chapter
Father dismisses son's military knowledge while demanding to hear war plans, showing both love and stubborn opinions
Development
Introduced here
In Your Life:
You might experience this when older family members simultaneously worry about your choices while dismissing your expertise.
Social Expectations
In This Chapter
Each family member performs their expected role—bubbly wife, gentle sister, dutiful son—even during emotional reunion
Development
Introduced here
In Your Life:
You might notice this when you automatically slip into expected family roles during visits, even when they don't fit who you are now.
Duty vs. Connection
In This Chapter
Andrew fulfills his duty to visit family before war, but struggles to genuinely connect with their emotions
Development
Introduced here
In Your Life:
You might see this when you check all the boxes of being a good family member without actually being emotionally present.
Modern Adaptation
When Success Feels Like Prison
Following Andrew's story...
Andrew returns to his childhood home after selling his startup, bringing his pregnant girlfriend Maya to meet his controlling father who still runs the family plumbing business like a military operation. Every conversation happens on Dad's schedule—coffee at 7 AM sharp, dinner at 6 PM, no exceptions. When Andrew tries to explain his plans for using his money to start a nonprofit, his father interrupts constantly, asking about Maya's doctor appointments and whether Andrew remembered to change his oil. The old man's rigid routines—checking inventory at the same time daily, insisting on teaching Maya how to balance a checkbook—feel suffocating. Andrew realizes his father's need to control every detail is actually fear about losing his son to a world he doesn't understand. The structured household that once provided stability now prevents real conversation about what matters: Andrew's search for meaning, his fears about becoming a father, and his dad's terror of being left behind.
The Road
The road Prince Andrew walked in 1869, Andrew walks today. The pattern is identical: rigid structures that once provided safety become barriers to genuine connection when life demands adaptation.
The Map
This chapter provides a navigation tool for recognizing when control disguises fear. Andrew can learn to see past his father's demanding routines to the scared parent underneath.
Amplification
Before reading this, Andrew might have seen his father as simply stubborn and controlling. Now he can NAME the fear behind the rigidity, PREDICT when structure will replace connection, and NAVIGATE toward the real conversation hiding beneath the surface.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
Why does the old prince refuse to change his daily routine even when his son returns from war?
analysis • surface - 2
What does Andrew's discomfort with emotional displays reveal about how he's learned to cope with feelings?
analysis • medium - 3
Where have you seen people use rigid routines or rules to avoid dealing with difficult emotions or situations?
application • medium - 4
How would you balance maintaining helpful structure while staying emotionally available to people you care about?
application • deep - 5
What does this family's struggle with connection teach us about the difference between being organized and being present?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Audit Your Own Armor
Think about your own daily routines and habits. Make two lists: structures that help you connect with others (family dinner time, regular check-ins with friends) and structures that might be protecting you from difficult emotions or conversations (always being busy, strict schedules that prevent spontaneous connection). Be honest about which category each routine really falls into.
Consider:
- •Notice when you feel most resistant to changing a routine - that resistance often signals emotional protection
- •Consider whether your structures serve the people in your life or just make you feel more in control
- •Think about times when flexibility led to better outcomes than sticking to the plan
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when your need for routine or control prevented you from being fully present for someone who needed you. What were you really protecting yourself from?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 27: Dinner Table Power Dynamics
The coming pages reveal powerful people use social rituals to maintain control, and teach us family dynamics often mirror workplace hierarchies. These discoveries help us navigate similar situations in our own lives.