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CHAPTER VII The dreadful news of the battle of Borodinó, of our losses in killed and wounded, and the still more terrible news of the loss of Moscow reached Vorónezh in the middle of September. Princess Mary, having learned of her brother’s wound only from the Gazette and having no definite news of him, prepared (so Nicholas heard, he had not seen her again himself) to set off in search of Prince Andrew. When he received the news of the battle of Borodinó and the abandonment of Moscow, Rostóv was not seized with despair, anger, the desire for vengeance, or any feeling of that kind, but everything in Vorónezh suddenly seemed to him dull and tiresome, and he experienced an indefinite feeling of shame and awkwardness. The conversations he heard seemed to him insincere; he did not know how to judge all these affairs and felt that only in the regiment would everything again become clear to him. He made haste to finish buying the horses, and often became unreasonably angry with his servant and squadron quartermaster. A few days before his departure a special thanksgiving, at which Nicholas was present, was held in the cathedral for the Russian victory. He stood a little behind the governor and held himself with military decorum through the service, meditating on a great variety of subjects. When the service was over the governor’s wife beckoned him to her. “Have you seen the princess?” she asked, indicating with a movement of her head a...
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Summary
Nicholas receives devastating news about Moscow's fall and Prince Andrew's wounds, leaving him restless and uncomfortable with civilian life. At a church service, he encounters Princess Mary, who is desperately searching for news of her wounded brother. Their brief conversation reveals her deep spiritual nature and his growing attraction to her—qualities that both draw him in and intimidate him. That evening, Nicholas finds himself in an unusual moment of self-reflection, comparing Princess Mary's profound spirituality to his fiancée Sonya's more superficial nature. He realizes he doesn't truly love Sonya and begins to pray earnestly for release from their engagement, something he hasn't done since childhood. His prayer is immediately answered when a letter arrives from Sonya, releasing him from their promise due to his family's financial ruin and his mother's preference for Princess Mary. The timing seems too perfect to be coincidence, yet Nicholas is astonished that his prayer was heard. This chapter explores the complexity of duty versus desire, showing how external circumstances can align with internal longings to create opportunities for authentic choice. Nicholas's spiritual awakening through Princess Mary's influence represents a maturation from his earlier, more superficial romantic attachments. The juxtaposition of prayer and practical release suggests that sometimes what we need most comes when we're finally honest about what we truly want.
That's what happens. To understand what the author is really doing—and to discuss this chapter with confidence—keep reading.
Terms to Know
Borodinó
A massive, brutal battle between Napoleon's forces and the Russian army in 1812. Though technically a French victory, it devastated both sides and marked the beginning of Napoleon's downfall in Russia.
Modern Usage:
We use this to describe pyrrhic victories where winning costs so much it feels like losing, like companies that win lawsuits but destroy their reputation in the process.
Thanksgiving service
A special church ceremony held to thank God for military victories or other blessings. In wartime Russia, these were major public events that brought communities together.
Modern Usage:
Similar to how communities hold memorial services or prayer vigils after tragedies, bringing people together to process shared experiences.
Engagement by family arrangement
Marriage promises made between families, often when the couple was young, based on social status and financial considerations rather than romantic love.
Modern Usage:
Like being expected to stay in a relationship because 'we've been together so long' or family pressure to marry someone who 'looks good on paper' but isn't right for you.
Regiment duty vs. civilian life
The contrast between the clear structure and purpose of military service versus the confusing, morally ambiguous nature of civilian society during wartime.
Modern Usage:
Like how some people feel more comfortable in structured work environments than dealing with the messiness of personal relationships and social situations.
Spiritual awakening
A moment when someone suddenly feels a deeper connection to faith or meaning, often triggered by meeting someone who embodies those qualities.
Modern Usage:
When meeting someone makes you want to be a better person or reconnect with values you'd forgotten, like volunteering after meeting someone dedicated to helping others.
Prayer of release
Asking God to free you from obligations or situations you can't escape on your own, especially when duty conflicts with your true desires.
Modern Usage:
Like hoping the universe will give you a way out of a job, relationship, or commitment you can't break yourself without looking like the bad guy.
Characters in This Chapter
Nicholas Rostóv
Conflicted protagonist
Feels uncomfortable in civilian life after hearing about Moscow's fall and his friend's wounds. Meets Princess Mary and realizes he doesn't love his fiancée Sonya, leading to a spiritual crisis and answered prayer.
Modern Equivalent:
The guy who knows he's in the wrong relationship but feels trapped by everyone's expectations
Princess Mary
Spiritual catalyst
Searching desperately for news of her wounded brother Prince Andrew. Her deep faith and genuine spirituality awakens something in Nicholas and makes him question his shallow engagement.
Modern Equivalent:
The person whose authenticity and depth makes you realize how superficial your current life is
Sonya
Obligatory fiancée
Nicholas's childhood sweetheart who releases him from their engagement in a letter, citing his family's financial troubles and his mother's preference for Princess Mary.
Prince Andrew
Absent wounded brother
Though not present, his battle wounds drive Princess Mary's desperate search and create the circumstances that bring her into Nicholas's orbit.
Modern Equivalent:
The family member whose crisis brings everyone together and changes everything
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to recognize when you're going through motions versus living authentically, and how honest self-assessment precedes positive change.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when you feel restless or 'off' in situations you think you should enjoy—that's your internal compass pointing toward misalignment between your actions and your actual desires.
You have the foundation. Now let's look closer.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"He felt that only in the regiment would everything again become clear to him."
Context: Nicholas feels lost and uncomfortable in civilian life after hearing the terrible war news
Shows how some people need structure and clear purpose to function. Nicholas finds the moral ambiguity of civilian life during wartime confusing and prefers the clear duties of military service.
In Today's Words:
He needed to get back to work where things made sense and he knew what he was supposed to do.
"I don't love her as I should love my wife."
Context: Nicholas realizes his true feelings about Sonya after meeting Princess Mary
A moment of brutal honesty about settling for someone because it's expected rather than because of genuine love. This recognition is the first step toward authentic choice.
In Today's Words:
I care about her, but I'm not in love with her the way I should be if I'm going to marry her.
"God, let me not be disgraced, let me not be a liar, and let me not deceive myself or her."
Context: His desperate prayer asking to be released from his engagement to Sonya
Shows the moral weight of staying in a relationship you've outgrown. Nicholas recognizes that marrying without love would be dishonest to everyone involved.
In Today's Words:
Please don't let me be the guy who goes through with this just because it's easier than having the hard conversation.
Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Honest Prayer
Authentic acknowledgment of true desires creates psychological readiness to recognize and accept opportunities that were always available.
Thematic Threads
Authenticity
In This Chapter
Nicholas finally admits he doesn't love Sonya and prays honestly for what he wants
Development
Evolved from his earlier romantic fantasies to genuine self-awareness
In Your Life:
You might recognize this when you stop pretending to want what you think you should want
Spiritual Growth
In This Chapter
Nicholas returns to prayer for the first time since childhood, showing maturation
Development
Introduced here as Nicholas encounters Princess Mary's deep spirituality
In Your Life:
You might find yourself returning to practices you abandoned when facing major life decisions
Social Expectations
In This Chapter
The engagement to Sonya represents duty and family expectations rather than love
Development
Continues the theme of characters trapped by social obligations
In Your Life:
You might recognize this in relationships or career paths you maintain for others' approval
Timing
In This Chapter
Sonya's letter arrives immediately after Nicholas's prayer, suggesting perfect timing
Development
Builds on the theme of how external events align with internal readiness
In Your Life:
You might notice how solutions appear when you finally become honest about needing them
Class Consciousness
In This Chapter
Financial ruin makes the engagement to Sonya impractical while Princess Mary offers security
Development
Continues exploration of how economic realities shape romantic choices
In Your Life:
You might see this in how financial pressures influence your relationship decisions
Modern Adaptation
When Prayer Meets Opportunity
Following Andrew's story...
Andrew has been going through the motions with his girlfriend Sarah, a fellow tech worker who shares his interests but not his deeper questions about meaning. At a community center volunteering event, he meets Elena, a social worker whose quiet dedication and spiritual depth both attracts and intimidates him. That night, feeling trapped between duty to Sarah and his growing sense that he's living someone else's life, Andrew does something he hasn't done since childhood—he prays honestly, asking for clarity about what he actually wants, not what he thinks he should want. The next morning, Sarah calls to say she's been offered a job in Seattle and thinks they should take a break to figure out what they really want. The timing feels too perfect to be coincidence, yet Andrew is stunned that his moment of radical honesty seemed to open a door he'd been afraid to walk through himself.
The Road
The road Nicholas walked in 1812, Andrew walks today. The pattern is identical: authentic prayer—honest acknowledgment of what we truly want—often precedes the very opportunities we need.
The Map
This chapter provides a navigation tool for breaking free from obligations that no longer serve you. When you stop pretending and get honest about what you actually want, you become ready to recognize and accept solutions when they appear.
Amplification
Before reading this, Andrew might have stayed trapped in a relationship out of guilt, missing opportunities for authentic connection. Now he can NAME the difference between duty and desire, PREDICT how honesty creates readiness, and NAVIGATE toward what actually fulfills him.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
What happens between Nicholas's prayer and receiving Sonya's letter, and why is the timing significant?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does Nicholas finally pray honestly about his engagement after years of going through the motions?
analysis • medium - 3
Where do you see this pattern today—people getting stuck pretending they want something they don't actually want?
application • medium - 4
How would you help someone recognize when they're being dishonest with themselves about what they truly want?
application • deep - 5
What does Nicholas's experience teach us about the relationship between honesty and opportunity?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
The Honest Want Inventory
Think of one area of your life where you might be going through the motions—a relationship, job, commitment, or goal. Write down what you think you're supposed to want in that situation, then write what you actually want. Notice the difference between these two lists and consider what opportunities you might be missing by not being honest about your real desires.
Consider:
- •Sometimes what we 'should' want comes from family expectations or social pressure
- •Being honest about what you want doesn't mean you have to act on it immediately
- •The gap between 'should want' and 'actually want' often reveals where we feel trapped
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you finally admitted what you really wanted and how that honesty changed what you noticed or how you acted. What opportunities became visible that you hadn't seen before?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 271: The Weight of Sacrifice
As the story unfolds, you'll explore people can manipulate others through guilt and obligation, while uncovering sacrificing your core identity for others leads to resentment. These lessons connect the classic to contemporary challenges we all face.