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CHAPTER XVIII It was a long time before Pierre could fall asleep that night. He paced up and down his room, now turning his thoughts on a difficult problem and frowning, now suddenly shrugging his shoulders and wincing, and now smiling happily. He was thinking of Prince Andrew, of Natásha, and of their love, at one moment jealous of her past, then reproaching himself for that feeling. It was already six in the morning and he still paced up and down the room. “Well, what’s to be done if it cannot be avoided? What’s to be done? Evidently it has to be so,” said he to himself, and hastily undressing he got into bed, happy and agitated but free from hesitation or indecision. “Strange and impossible as such happiness seems, I must do everything that she and I may be man and wife,” he told himself. A few days previously Pierre had decided to go to Petersburg on the Friday. When he awoke on the Thursday, Savélich came to ask him about packing for the journey. “What, to Petersburg? What is Petersburg? Who is there in Petersburg?” he asked involuntarily, though only to himself. “Oh, yes, long ago before this happened I did for some reason mean to go to Petersburg,” he reflected. “Why? But perhaps I shall go. What a good fellow he is and how attentive, and how he remembers everything,” he thought, looking at Savélich’s old face, “and what a pleasant smile he has!” “Well, Savélich, do...
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Summary
Pierre spends a sleepless night pacing his room, finally admitting to himself what he's been avoiding: he's completely in love with Natasha and wants to marry her. The realization transforms everything—suddenly his planned trip to Petersburg seems meaningless, and he can barely focus on practical matters. His servant Savelich notices the change, even suggesting marriage would be good for Pierre. When Pierre visits Princess Mary's house for dinner, he's struck by how different Natasha seems—no longer the heartbroken girl he knew, but radiant and alive again. He can't bring himself to leave, staying awkwardly long until Princess Mary takes pity on him. After Natasha goes to bed, Pierre pours his heart out to Princess Mary, confessing his love and asking if there's any hope. Princess Mary, who has observed Natasha's own transformation, tells him she believes Natasha will love him back. She offers to help by speaking to Natasha and suggests Pierre write to her parents. Pierre is overwhelmed with joy but can barely believe it's possible. The next day, when he says goodbye before his trip, Natasha whispers that she'll look forward to his return—words that will sustain him for months. This chapter marks Pierre's emotional breakthrough after years of searching for meaning, showing how love can suddenly make everything else fall into place.
That's what happens. To understand what the author is really doing—and to discuss this chapter with confidence—keep reading.
Terms to Know
Arranged Marriage vs. Love Match
In Tolstoy's time, marriages were typically arranged by families for social and economic reasons. A 'love match' where people chose their own partners based on feelings was revolutionary and often scandalous.
Modern Usage:
We still see tension between practical considerations (financial stability, family approval) and following your heart in relationships.
Social Calling Hours
Formal visiting times when people would drop by each other's homes for conversation and socializing. These visits followed strict rules about duration, topics, and behavior.
Modern Usage:
Like scheduled hangouts or dinner parties today, but way more formal and with unspoken rules about when to leave.
Chaperone System
Unmarried women couldn't be alone with men who weren't family members. A chaperone (usually an older woman) had to be present to protect the woman's reputation.
Modern Usage:
We see echoes in parents meeting dates, workplace policies about closed-door meetings, or friends looking out for each other on dating apps.
Emotional Breakthrough
The moment when someone finally admits to themselves what they've been avoiding or denying. Pierre stops fighting his feelings and accepts he's in love.
Modern Usage:
That moment when you finally admit you need to leave a toxic job, end a relationship, or pursue something you've been scared to try.
Domestic Servant Relationship
Wealthy Russians had personal servants who knew their masters intimately and often acted as informal advisors. Savelich has watched Pierre grow up and cares about his happiness.
Modern Usage:
Like having a longtime housekeeper, nanny, or personal assistant who becomes almost family and gives you life advice.
Characters in This Chapter
Pierre
Protagonist in emotional crisis
Spends the night pacing and finally admits he's completely in love with Natasha. His realization transforms everything - suddenly his planned trip seems meaningless and he can barely focus on practical matters.
Modern Equivalent:
The guy who finally admits he's head-over-heels and can't think about anything else
Natasha
Love interest
Appears transformed from the heartbroken girl Pierre knew into someone radiant and alive again. Her whispered promise to look forward to his return gives him hope to sustain him for months.
Modern Equivalent:
The woman who's finally healed from past trauma and ready to love again
Princess Mary
Matchmaker and confidante
Observes both Pierre and Natasha's transformations and plays cupid. She encourages Pierre by telling him she believes Natasha will love him back and offers to help by speaking to Natasha.
Modern Equivalent:
The wise friend who sees what's happening before the couple does and gives them the push they need
Savelich
Loyal servant and informal advisor
Pierre's longtime servant who notices his master's emotional state and even suggests marriage would be good for him. Represents the practical voice trying to ground Pierre.
Modern Equivalent:
The longtime assistant or housekeeper who knows you better than you know yourself
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how we use busyness and elaborate planning to avoid confronting truths we're not ready to face.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when you're making complex plans or staying frantically busy—ask yourself what feeling or truth you might be avoiding.
You have the foundation. Now let's look closer.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"Strange and impossible as such happiness seems, I must do everything that she and I may be man and wife"
Context: Pierre's internal monologue after his sleepless night of pacing
This shows Pierre's complete emotional transformation. He's moved from denial to total commitment in one night. The word 'must' shows this isn't just a wish - it's become his life's mission.
In Today's Words:
I know this sounds crazy, but I have to make this happen - we have to end up together
"What, to Petersburg? What is Petersburg? Who is there in Petersburg?"
Context: When his servant asks about packing for his planned trip
Pierre's confusion shows how love has completely reordered his priorities. Things that seemed important yesterday now feel meaningless. His whole world has shrunk to just thoughts of Natasha.
In Today's Words:
Wait, what trip? Why would I go anywhere when the only thing that matters is right here?
"I believe she will love you"
Context: Encouraging Pierre after he confesses his feelings
Princess Mary has been watching both of them and sees what they can't see themselves. Her confidence gives Pierre the hope he needs to pursue Natasha despite his insecurities.
In Today's Words:
Trust me, I think she's into you too
Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Finally Knowing
We stay busy to avoid admitting truths our hearts already know, until the truth finally demands acknowledgment and reorganizes everything.
Thematic Threads
Personal Growth
In This Chapter
Pierre's emotional breakthrough from avoidance to honest self-recognition about his love
Development
Culmination of Pierre's long journey toward self-awareness and authentic feeling
In Your Life:
You might recognize this in your own moments of finally admitting what you've been avoiding about a relationship or life situation.
Human Relationships
In This Chapter
The tender dynamic between Pierre, Natasha, and Princess Mary as love becomes possible
Development
Evolution from grief and isolation toward connection and hope for multiple characters
In Your Life:
You see this when trusted friends help you recognize your own feelings or potential for happiness.
Identity
In This Chapter
Pierre's identity shifting from restless seeker to man who knows what he wants
Development
Pierre's ongoing transformation from confused wanderer to someone with clear purpose
In Your Life:
You experience this when a major realization suddenly makes your priorities crystal clear.
Social Expectations
In This Chapter
The careful navigation of courtship through Princess Mary as intermediary
Development
Continued exploration of how relationships must work within social frameworks
In Your Life:
You encounter this when pursuing important relationships requires respecting family dynamics and social protocols.
Modern Adaptation
When You Finally Stop Running
Following Andrew's story...
Andrew paces his apartment at 2 AM, unable to sleep after another failed attempt at meditation and self-help podcasts. He's been avoiding the truth for months—he's completely in love with Natasha, the single mom from his volunteer group at the community center. She was devastated after her ex left, and Andrew told himself he was just being a friend, helping with groceries and babysitting. But tonight, staring at his packed bag for a weekend retreat he doesn't want to attend, he finally admits it: he wants to build a life with her and her daughter. The retreat suddenly seems pointless. When he shows up at the community center the next day, he can barely focus on the food distribution. Natasha seems different—laughing with other volunteers, her confidence returning. After everyone leaves, he confesses everything to Maria, the center coordinator who's become like a sister to him. Maria smiles knowingly and tells him what he's been too scared to hope: Natasha has been asking about him too.
The Road
The road Andrew walked in 1869, Andrew walks today. The pattern is identical: we avoid truths that scare us by staying busy, making elaborate plans to escape what our hearts already know.
The Map
This chapter provides a navigation tool for emotional breakthrough moments. When you find yourself making elaborate plans or staying frantically busy, ask what truth you're avoiding.
Amplification
Before reading this, Andrew might have kept making excuses and planning escapes from his feelings. Now he can NAME the avoidance pattern, PREDICT where endless busyness leads (nowhere), and NAVIGATE toward honest self-admission.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
What finally forces Pierre to admit his feelings for Natasha, and how does this admission change his perspective on everything else in his life?
analysis • surface - 2
Why do you think Pierre had been avoiding acknowledging his love for so long, and what role did his busy travel plans play in this avoidance?
analysis • medium - 3
Think about someone you know who stays extremely busy with work, activities, or plans. What uncomfortable truth might they be avoiding by never sitting still?
application • medium - 4
When you've avoided facing a difficult truth in your own life, what finally made you stop running and confront it? How did that moment of admission change your priorities?
application • deep - 5
What does Pierre's breakthrough reveal about the difference between what our hearts know and what our minds are ready to accept?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Avoidance Patterns
Think about an area of your life where you feel restless or keep yourself unusually busy. Write down what you're doing to stay in motion, then ask yourself what truth you might be avoiding. Don't judge yourself—just notice the pattern. Sometimes we need to stay busy until we're ready to face what's underneath.
Consider:
- •Avoidance isn't weakness—sometimes our hearts know things before our minds are ready to handle them
- •The things we work hardest to avoid thinking about often hold important information about what we need
- •Breakthrough moments feel scary because they usually require us to change something significant
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you finally stopped avoiding something and faced a difficult truth. What made you ready to stop running? How did your life change after that admission?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 336: Pierre's Transformation Through Love
As the story unfolds, you'll explore genuine love changes your entire perspective on life, while uncovering the difference between self-doubt and authentic confidence. These lessons connect the classic to contemporary challenges we all face.