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CHAPTER XIII For two days after that Rostóv did not see Dólokhov at his own or at Dólokhov’s home: on the third day he received a note from him: As I do not intend to be at your house again for reasons you know of, and am going to rejoin my regiment, I am giving a farewell supper tonight to my friends—come to the English Hotel. About ten o’clock Rostóv went to the English Hotel straight from the theater, where he had been with his family and Denísov. He was at once shown to the best room, which Dólokhov had taken for that evening. Some twenty men were gathered round a table at which Dólokhov sat between two candles. On the table was a pile of gold and paper money, and he was keeping the bank. Rostóv had not seen him since his proposal and Sónya’s refusal and felt uncomfortable at the thought of how they would meet. Dólokhov’s clear, cold glance met Rostóv as soon as he entered the door, as though he had long expected him. “It’s a long time since we met,” he said. “Thanks for coming. I’ll just finish dealing, and then Ilyúshka will come with his chorus.” “I called once or twice at your house,” said Rostóv, reddening. Dólokhov made no reply. “You may punt,” he said. Rostóv recalled at that moment a strange conversation he had once had with Dólokhov. “None but fools trust to luck in play,” Dólokhov had then said. “Or are...
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Summary
Rostóv finds himself drawn into a high-stakes card game with Dólokhov, the same man whose marriage proposal to his cousin Sónya was recently rejected. The tension between them crackles as Dólokhov runs a gambling table at the English Hotel, surrounded by candles and piles of money. What starts as an uncomfortable social encounter quickly becomes something much more dangerous. Dólokhov seems to be testing Rostóv, challenging his courage and manhood through the cards. Despite knowing better—he even remembers Dólokhov once saying that only fools trust to luck in gambling—Rostóv can't resist the psychological pressure. He begins playing and losing immediately. As his losses mount to eight hundred rubles, Rostóv faces a terrible choice: walk away in shame or risk everything on one final card. The seven of hearts becomes his make-or-break moment. If he loses, he'll not only be financially ruined but will have to break his word of honor to his father about spending money responsibly. As Dólokhov deals the cards with deliberate slowness, Rostóv thinks about everything he could lose—his comfortable home, his family's warmth, his sister Natásha's songs. The chapter captures that awful moment when we realize we've let pride and manipulation lead us into a trap, but it's too late to escape without devastating consequences. Dólokhov's psychological warfare is masterful—he questions Rostóv's courage while dealing the very cards that will destroy him.
That's what happens. To understand what the author is really doing—and to discuss this chapter with confidence—keep reading.
Terms to Know
Punt
In card games, to bet against the bank or house. The punter risks their money against whoever is running the game. It's essentially gambling where you're playing against one person who holds all the cards.
Modern Usage:
We still use this when talking about taking big risks - 'I'm going to punt on this investment' or any situation where you're betting against the house odds.
Keeping the bank
Being the dealer/house in a gambling game. The banker controls the cards and collects the money from losing bets. It's a position of power because the odds favor the house.
Modern Usage:
Today we see this in casinos where 'the house always wins' - someone always controls the game and has the mathematical advantage.
Word of honor
A solemn promise that was considered absolutely binding in aristocratic society. Breaking your word meant social disgrace and loss of reputation. Your honor was literally your most valuable possession.
Modern Usage:
We still talk about someone's word being their bond, though it carries less social weight than it used to.
Psychological warfare
Using mind games, intimidation, and emotional manipulation to defeat an opponent without physical force. It's about breaking someone's confidence and making them make bad decisions.
Modern Usage:
We see this everywhere - from workplace bullies who undermine colleagues to toxic relationships where one person manipulates the other's self-doubt.
Pride trap
A situation where someone's ego prevents them from making the smart choice. They know they should walk away, but their pride won't let them appear weak or cowardly.
Modern Usage:
This happens constantly - staying in bad jobs because quitting feels like failure, or continuing arguments you can't win just to save face.
Sunk cost fallacy
Continuing a losing course of action because you've already invested so much that quitting feels like wasting everything. The more you lose, the harder it becomes to stop.
Modern Usage:
People stay in bad relationships, keep throwing money at failing businesses, or continue college majors they hate because they've already invested so much.
Characters in This Chapter
Rostóv
Victim/protagonist
A young nobleman who gets manipulated into a high-stakes card game he can't afford to lose. Despite knowing better, his pride and social pressure make him unable to walk away as his losses mount.
Modern Equivalent:
The guy who gets in over his head with credit cards or gambling because he can't admit he's outmatched
Dólokhov
Manipulative antagonist
A calculating man running the card game who seems to be deliberately targeting Rostóv. He's cold, controlled, and appears to be seeking revenge for his rejected marriage proposal to Rostóv's cousin.
Modern Equivalent:
The toxic ex who finds subtle ways to mess with your life after you've rejected them
Sónya
Absent catalyst
Rostóv's cousin who recently rejected Dólokhov's marriage proposal. Though not present, her rejection is the underlying reason for the tension and possible revenge playing out at the card table.
Modern Equivalent:
The person whose dating decision creates drama between their family and the rejected suitor
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to recognize when someone reframes your reasonable boundaries as character flaws to pressure you into harmful choices.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when someone questions your 'commitment' or 'courage' to get you to do something that serves their interests, not yours.
You have the foundation. Now let's look closer.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"None but fools trust to luck in play"
Context: Rostóv recalls this warning from Dólokhov even as he's about to gamble with him
This shows the cruel irony - Dólokhov taught Rostóv that gambling is foolish, yet now he's manipulating him into doing exactly that. It reveals how predators often share wisdom they then exploit.
In Today's Words:
Only idiots think they can beat the house
"It's a long time since we met. Thanks for coming."
Context: His greeting when Rostóv arrives at the gambling party
The false politeness masks the trap being set. Dólokhov is being formally courteous while orchestrating Rostóv's downfall. It's the smile of a predator.
In Today's Words:
Oh hey, perfect timing - I've been waiting for you
"You may punt"
Context: Inviting Rostóv to bet against him in the card game
This isn't really an invitation - it's a challenge to Rostóv's manhood. In their social world, refusing would be seen as cowardly. Dólokhov knows Rostóv can't say no.
In Today's Words:
Come on, don't be scared - place your bet
Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Manufactured Courage
When someone deliberately creates a situation where backing down feels like cowardice, trapping you into destructive choices.
Thematic Threads
Pride
In This Chapter
Rostóv's pride makes him unable to walk away from Dólokhov's psychological manipulation, even knowing he's being baited
Development
Evolved from earlier displays of military bravery to this more destructive personal vanity
In Your Life:
You might feel this when someone questions your commitment or courage to manipulate your decisions
Manipulation
In This Chapter
Dólokhov deliberately creates psychological pressure, questioning Rostóv's courage while dealing the cards that will ruin him
Development
Introduced here as sophisticated emotional warfare
In Your Life:
You encounter this when people reframe your good judgment as character weakness
Class
In This Chapter
The gambling debts threaten to destroy Rostóv's family's financial security and social standing
Development
Continues the theme of how financial pressure affects family relationships and social position
In Your Life:
You might face this when financial decisions carry social consequences beyond just money
Honor
In This Chapter
Rostóv's sense of honor traps him—he can't break his word to his father, but also can't appear cowardly
Development
Shows how honor codes can become self-destructive when manipulated by others
In Your Life:
You might experience this when your values are used against you by people who don't share them
Family
In This Chapter
Rostóv thinks of his family's warmth and Natásha's songs as he risks everything, showing what's truly at stake
Development
Reinforces family as the emotional anchor that makes other losses meaningful
In Your Life:
You might find yourself risking what matters most to you when pride takes over rational thinking
Modern Adaptation
When the Promotion Goes Sideways
Following Andrew's story...
Andrew finds himself at Jake's poker night, the same Jake whose advances toward Andrew's friend Sarah were recently shut down. What started as reluctant socializing turns dangerous when Jake starts needling Andrew about his 'silver spoon' background and trust fund. 'Bet you've never actually risked anything real,' Jake says, dealing cards with theatrical precision. Andrew knows he should leave—he promised his therapist he'd avoid self-destructive situations after selling his company left him spiraling. But Jake keeps pushing: 'Rich boys always fold when it gets real.' The stakes climb from fifty to five hundred to two thousand. Andrew's thinking about his empty penthouse, his failed relationships, his desperate need to prove he's more than his money. Jake deals slowly, watching Andrew sweat. One more hand could wipe out what Andrew set aside for his nonprofit dream. But walking away feels like admitting Jake's right—that he's just another privileged coward who's never truly been tested.
The Road
The road Rostóv walked in 1869, Andrew walks today. The pattern is identical: manufactured courage—someone deliberately creating a situation where backing down feels like cowardice, trapping you into destructive choices through pride manipulation.
The Map
Andrew can recognize when someone reframes his good judgment as character weakness. He can ask: 'Who benefits if I prove myself this way?' and remember that real courage often means walking away from fake tests.
Amplification
Before reading this, Andrew might have stayed in the game to prove his worth to Jake. Now he can NAME manufactured courage, PREDICT where it leads, and NAVIGATE by refusing to let others define his bravery through their challenges.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
What specific tactics does Dólokhov use to pressure Rostóv into gambling, and how does he make it hard for Rostóv to walk away?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does Rostóv continue playing even though he knows Dólokhov once said only fools trust to luck in gambling?
analysis • medium - 3
Where have you seen someone question another person's courage or commitment to pressure them into a bad decision?
application • medium - 4
If you were Rostóv's friend watching this scene unfold, what would you say or do to help him recognize what's happening?
application • deep - 5
What does this chapter reveal about how people use our own values and pride against us?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Decode the Manipulation Script
Think of a recent situation where someone pressured you to do something by questioning your character, courage, or commitment. Write out their exact words or tactics, then rewrite the conversation showing how you could have responded differently. Focus on how they tried to make saying 'no' feel like a character flaw.
Consider:
- •Notice how the person reframed your reasonable hesitation as a personal weakness
- •Identify what they gained if you said yes versus what you risked
- •Consider how you could have separated the decision from your identity
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you recognized someone was trying to manipulate you through false courage. How did it feel to see through their tactics? What did you learn about protecting yourself from this pattern?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 82: When Luck Runs Out
The coming pages reveal addiction creates a distorted sense of time and reality, and teach us people stay trapped in destructive situations they can't control. These discoveries help us navigate similar situations in our own lives.