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CHAPTER XIV Expounds this last line of the first stanza. "Kindled in love with yearnings": That is, with desires for God. In this dark night of sense, as the soul is being purged, it becomes enkindled with desires and yearnings for God. And this love grows and increases, for it is through dryness and the denial of sweet experiences that the soul is purified and made ready for the experience of union with God. --- BOOK THE SECOND Treats of the dark night of the spirit, and explains its nature and how it may be distinguished from that of sense.
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Summary
John concludes his exploration of the 'dark night of the senses' with a powerful paradox: when we feel most spiritually empty, love actually burns brightest within us. This chapter explains how the soul, stripped of easy consolations and sweet spiritual feelings, develops a more mature and intense desire for God. Think of it like weaning a child from candy—initially there's protest and dissatisfaction, but eventually they develop a taste for real nourishment. John argues that this spiritual hunger, born from dryness rather than satisfaction, creates the strongest foundation for genuine spiritual union. The soul learns to love God not for the feelings He provides, but for who He truly is. This process of purification through emptiness prepares the soul for deeper experiences ahead. John emphasizes that this isn't punishment or abandonment—it's preparation. Like an athlete who must endure difficult training to compete at higher levels, the soul must be strengthened through this apparent deprivation. The yearning that emerges from this dark night is more authentic than any previous spiritual high, because it's not dependent on emotional consolation. This marks the end of the first major phase of spiritual development, where the soul graduates from needing constant spiritual 'treats' to sustaining itself on pure love and commitment.
That's what happens. To understand what the author is really doing—and to discuss this chapter with confidence—keep reading.
Terms to Know
Dark Night of the Senses
The first stage of spiritual purification where God withdraws pleasant feelings and consolations from prayer and religious practice. It's like spiritual boot camp - all the easy, feel-good experiences are stripped away to build real strength.
Modern Usage:
We see this pattern when someone stops getting instant gratification from activities they once loved, forcing them to find deeper motivation.
Spiritual Dryness
A state where prayer, meditation, or spiritual practices feel empty and unrewarding. Instead of feeling close to God, everything feels flat and meaningless. It's not depression - it's a deliberate spiritual training process.
Modern Usage:
Like when dedicated athletes hit training plateaus where workouts feel harder but results seem to disappear - it's often preparation for a breakthrough.
Yearnings for God
Deep, intense desires for spiritual connection that grow stronger during difficult periods. These aren't emotional highs but steady, burning wants that come from being spiritually hungry rather than spiritually fed.
Modern Usage:
Similar to how people in recovery often develop their strongest commitment to sobriety during their hardest moments, not their easiest ones.
Purification
The process of being cleansed from spiritual immaturity and dependence on good feelings. Like removing training wheels - uncomfortable at first but necessary for real growth.
Modern Usage:
We see this in any field where beginners must move past needing constant praise and validation to develop genuine skill and commitment.
Union with God
The ultimate goal of spiritual development where the soul experiences deep, lasting connection with the divine. It's not about feelings but about fundamental transformation of the person's entire being.
Modern Usage:
Like achieving mastery in any discipline - it's not about the external rewards anymore but about becoming fundamentally different through the practice.
Consolations
Pleasant spiritual experiences like feeling peaceful during prayer, sensing God's presence, or getting emotional highs from religious activities. These are beginner-level rewards that eventually must be outgrown.
Modern Usage:
Like the participation trophies or beginner gains that help people start new habits but can become obstacles to real progress if we stay dependent on them.
Characters in This Chapter
The Soul
Spiritual student/protagonist
Represents anyone going through spiritual development, specifically at the stage where easy rewards are being withdrawn. The soul is learning to love God for who He is rather than for how He makes them feel.
Modern Equivalent:
The dedicated student who's moved past needing gold stars and is learning to find satisfaction in the work itself
God
Divine teacher/guide
Acts as the ultimate spiritual trainer who withdraws consolations not out of cruelty but to strengthen the soul's capacity for real love. Like a wise coach who stops giving easy wins to push for genuine growth.
Modern Equivalent:
The tough-love mentor who stops praising every small step because they know you're capable of much more
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to recognize when difficulty is building strength versus when it's tearing you down.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when you feel frustrated or depleted—ask yourself: 'Is this teaching me something I need to learn, or is this just grinding me down for no purpose?'
You have the foundation. Now let's look closer.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"Kindled in love with yearnings"
Context: Describing what happens to the soul during the dark night of the senses
This captures the central paradox - when spiritual life feels most empty, love actually burns strongest. The yearning that comes from spiritual hunger is more powerful than satisfaction ever was.
In Today's Words:
The more you can't have it, the more you realize how much you really want it
"It is through dryness and the denial of sweet experiences that the soul is purified"
Context: Explaining why God withdraws pleasant spiritual feelings
This reveals that spiritual dryness isn't punishment but preparation. Like how muscles grow through resistance training, souls grow through being denied easy rewards.
In Today's Words:
You get stronger by doing the hard stuff when you don't feel like it, not by only doing what feels good
"The soul learns to love God not for the feelings He provides, but for who He truly is"
Context: Describing the mature love that develops during the dark night
This shows the difference between immature love (based on what you get) and mature love (based on who the other person is). It's the spiritual equivalent of moving from infatuation to real commitment.
In Today's Words:
Real love is about the person, not about how they make you feel
Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Earned Strength
True strength develops through deprivation and struggle, not comfort and abundance.
Thematic Threads
Personal Growth
In This Chapter
The soul develops authentic spiritual strength only after being stripped of easy consolations and emotional highs
Development
Evolved from earlier chapters about recognizing spiritual dryness to understanding it as necessary preparation
In Your Life:
Your most challenging periods at work or in relationships might be building strength you don't yet recognize
Identity
In This Chapter
The soul learns to love God for who He is rather than for the feelings He provides, developing authentic rather than conditional identity
Development
Builds on earlier themes of moving beyond superficial spiritual experiences to genuine commitment
In Your Life:
You discover who you really are not in your successes but in how you handle disappointment and loss
Human Relationships
In This Chapter
True spiritual union requires moving beyond seeking emotional satisfaction to offering pure love and commitment
Development
Culminates the progression from self-focused spirituality to other-focused love
In Your Life:
The strongest relationships are built not on what you get but on what you give, especially when giving is hard
Class
In This Chapter
The soul graduates from needing constant spiritual 'treats' to sustaining itself on pure commitment, like moving from dependency to self-sufficiency
Development
Reflects earlier themes about spiritual maturity requiring independence from external validation
In Your Life:
True professional growth means doing good work even when no one notices or rewards you
Modern Adaptation
When the Promotion Goes Sideways
Following Juan's story...
Maya thought the promotion to shift supervisor would finally validate all her hard work at the warehouse. Instead, she's caught between management who doesn't trust her judgment and workers who see her as a sellout. The small raise barely covers the stress, and she misses the simple satisfaction of her old job where she knew exactly what success looked like. Every day feels like failure—she's not the leader she imagined, and she's lost the easy camaraderie she once had. But something unexpected is happening: stripped of the fantasy about what this role would give her, she's discovering what kind of leader she actually wants to become. The hunger for real respect—not just a title—is teaching her things about herself she never learned when everything felt easy. She's developing muscles she didn't know she needed.
The Road
The road Juan's soul walked in 1578, Maya walks today. The pattern is identical: true strength emerges not from getting what we want, but from learning to love our purpose even when it gives us nothing back.
The Map
This chapter provides a navigation tool for recognizing productive struggle versus destructive suffering. Maya can use it to distinguish between growth-building challenges and situations that are genuinely toxic.
Amplification
Before reading this, Maya might have seen her disappointment as proof she'd made the wrong choice and should quit. Now she can NAME the pattern of earned strength, PREDICT that this hunger will build authentic leadership skills, and NAVIGATE by asking what this struggle is teaching her rather than how to escape it.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
According to John, what happens to the soul's love when it loses all spiritual 'highs' and consolations?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does John compare this process to weaning a child from candy? What's the deeper point about maturity?
analysis • medium - 3
Where do you see this pattern of 'strength through struggle' in modern relationships, careers, or personal challenges?
application • medium - 4
How would you help someone distinguish between productive struggle that builds character and destructive suffering that tears you down?
application • deep - 5
What does this chapter suggest about the difference between conditional love (based on feelings) and unconditional commitment?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Strength-Building Seasons
Think of a time when you felt emotionally or spiritually 'empty' but kept going anyway—maybe during unemployment, illness, relationship struggles, or caring for someone difficult. Write down what you lost during that time, then what unexpected strengths or insights you gained. Look for the pattern John describes: how deprivation built something authentic in you.
Consider:
- •Focus on what you learned about yourself, not just what you endured
- •Consider how this experience changed your approach to future challenges
- •Notice if your motivations became more genuine or less dependent on external rewards
Journaling Prompt
Write about a current situation where you're getting no external rewards but continuing anyway. What strength might this be building in you that you can't see yet?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 15: When Deeper Healing Begins
In the next chapter, you'll discover surface-level changes don't solve deeper problems, and learn to recognize when you're ready for profound transformation. These insights reveal timeless patterns that resonate in our own lives and relationships.