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CHAPTER VI Emma could not feel a doubt of having given Harriet’s fancy a proper direction and raised the gratitude of her young vanity to a very good purpose, for she found her decidedly more sensible than before of Mr. Elton’s being a remarkably handsome man, with most agreeable manners; and as she had no hesitation in following up the assurance of his admiration by agreeable hints, she was soon pretty confident of creating as much liking on Harriet’s side, as there could be any occasion for. She was quite convinced of Mr. Elton’s being in the fairest way of falling in love, if not in love already. She had no scruple with regard to him. He talked of Harriet, and praised her so warmly, that she could not suppose any thing wanting which a little time would not add. His perception of the striking improvement of Harriet’s manner, since her introduction at Hartfield, was not one of the least agreeable proofs of his growing attachment. “You have given Miss Smith all that she required,” said he; “you have made her graceful and easy. She was a beautiful creature when she came to you, but, in my opinion, the attractions you have added are infinitely superior to what she received from nature.” “I am glad you think I have been useful to her; but Harriet only wanted drawing out, and receiving a few, very few hints. She had all the natural grace of sweetness of temper and artlessness in herself....
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Summary
Emma's matchmaking scheme kicks into high gear as she orchestrates a portrait session that brings Harriet and Mr. Elton together. What starts as an innocent artistic endeavor becomes a carefully choreographed romance, with Emma pulling the strings. She decides to paint Harriet's portrait, and Mr. Elton's enthusiastic support seems to confirm her suspicions about his growing feelings. The chapter reveals Emma's pattern of starting projects with great enthusiasm but rarely finishing them—her portfolio is full of abandoned sketches and half-completed portraits. This habit reflects her broader approach to life: she loves the excitement of new ventures but lacks the patience for sustained effort. During the portrait sessions, Mr. Elton hovers constantly, offering excessive praise for Emma's artistic skills and Harriet's beauty. His behavior is so over-the-top that Emma briefly questions whether he's genuinely in love or just being gallant. When it comes time to frame the finished portrait, Mr. Elton eagerly volunteers to handle the task in London, treating the painting like a 'precious deposit.' Emma notices his theatrical sighs and studied compliments, wondering if he might be performing love rather than feeling it. The portrait becomes a symbol of Emma's manipulation—she's literally reshaping Harriet's image, making her taller and more elegant than she actually is, just as she's trying to reshape Harriet's social prospects. This chapter shows how Emma's good intentions are tangled up with her need to control and improve others, often without considering what they actually want.
That's what happens. To understand what the author is really doing—and to discuss this chapter with confidence—keep reading.
Terms to Know
Drawing out
The 19th-century belief that education meant bringing out a person's natural qualities rather than forcing knowledge into them. Emma thinks she's helping Harriet discover her 'true self' through gentle guidance and hints.
Modern Usage:
We see this in life coaching, mentoring, and therapy - the idea that people have potential that just needs the right environment to flourish.
Accomplishments
Skills like painting, music, and languages that upper-class women were expected to master to be considered marriageable. These weren't hobbies but social requirements for catching a good husband.
Modern Usage:
Today's equivalent might be having the right college degree, knowing wine, or being Instagram-worthy - skills that signal you belong in certain social circles.
Portfolio
A collection of an artist's work, but in Emma's case, it's full of unfinished projects. This was common for wealthy women who dabbled in arts without needing to master them professionally.
Modern Usage:
Like someone who starts every new fitness trend, hobby, or side hustle but never sticks with anything long enough to get good at it.
Gallantry
Exaggerated politeness and flattery toward women, especially in romantic situations. It was considered proper manners, but could mask true feelings or intentions.
Modern Usage:
Think of someone who's overly charming on dating apps or lays on the compliments so thick you wonder if they're genuine or just trying to impress.
Natural grace
The idea that some people are born with inherent elegance and charm, versus those who have to learn proper behavior. Emma believes Harriet has this quality naturally.
Modern Usage:
We still talk about people having 'natural charisma' or being 'effortlessly cool' - that quality some people seem born with while others have to work for it.
Precious deposit
Something valuable entrusted to your care. Mr. Elton treats Harriet's portrait like a treasure he's been honored to protect, showing his supposed devotion.
Modern Usage:
Like when someone makes a big deal about holding your phone or watching your pet - turning a simple favor into proof of how much they care about you.
Characters in This Chapter
Emma
Protagonist and matchmaker
She orchestrates the portrait sessions to bring Harriet and Mr. Elton together, convinced she's reading the romantic signals correctly. Her pattern of starting but not finishing projects reveals her lack of sustained commitment.
Modern Equivalent:
The friend who's always trying to set people up and thinks she knows what's best for everyone
Harriet
Emma's protégé
She becomes the subject of Emma's portrait and matchmaking scheme. Emma literally reshapes her image in the painting, making her taller and more elegant, symbolizing the social transformation Emma wants for her.
Modern Equivalent:
The younger coworker everyone wants to give a makeover to
Mr. Elton
Supposed romantic target
He hovers during the portrait sessions, offering excessive praise for both Emma's artistic skills and Harriet's beauty. His over-the-top behavior makes Emma briefly question whether his feelings are genuine.
Modern Equivalent:
The guy who's trying way too hard to impress someone but you can't tell if he's sincere or performing
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to recognize when good intentions become controlling behavior that disrespects others' autonomy.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when you feel the urge to fix someone's situation—pause and ask yourself: 'Did they request this help, or am I solving my own discomfort with their choices?'
You have the foundation. Now let's look closer.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"You have given Miss Smith all that she required. You have made her graceful and easy."
Context: He's praising Emma for improving Harriet's manners and appearance
This reveals how people in Emma's world see others as projects to be improved rather than individuals to be accepted. It also shows Mr. Elton's tendency to flatter Emma while supposedly complimenting Harriet.
In Today's Words:
You've really helped her come out of her shell and gain confidence.
"Harriet only wanted drawing out, and receiving a few, very few hints."
Context: Emma responds to Mr. Elton's praise by downplaying her role in Harriet's transformation
Emma genuinely believes she's just helping Harriet discover her natural potential, not realizing how much she's actually trying to control and reshape her friend's life and prospects.
In Today's Words:
She just needed someone to believe in her and give her a little guidance.
"She was quite convinced of Mr. Elton's being in the fairest way of falling in love, if not in love already."
Context: Describing Emma's confidence in her matchmaking success
This shows Emma's certainty about reading romantic signals, but the narrator's tone suggests she might be misinterpreting the situation. Emma sees what she wants to see.
In Today's Words:
She was totally sure he was catching feelings, if he wasn't already head over heels.
Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Good Intentions - When Helping Becomes Controlling
When the desire to help someone transforms into the need to control their choices and outcomes.
Thematic Threads
Control
In This Chapter
Emma orchestrates every detail of the portrait sessions, positioning herself as director of Harriet's romantic life
Development
Escalating from previous chapters where Emma simply gave advice to now actively manipulating situations
In Your Life:
You might recognize this when you find yourself planning someone else's decisions instead of supporting their choices
Self-Deception
In This Chapter
Emma convinces herself that Mr. Elton's obvious attention to her artistic skills means he loves Harriet
Development
Building on Emma's pattern of misreading social cues to fit her preferred narrative
In Your Life:
You see this when you ignore obvious signs that contradict what you want to believe about a situation
Class
In This Chapter
The portrait literally reshapes Harriet's image, making her appear more refined and elevated than her actual social position
Development
Continuing the theme of Emma trying to elevate Harriet beyond her natural station
In Your Life:
You might experience this pressure to present yourself as more sophisticated or successful than you feel
Incomplete Projects
In This Chapter
Emma's portfolio full of abandoned sketches reflects her pattern of starting enthusiastically but lacking follow-through
Development
Introduced here as a character trait that mirrors her approach to matchmaking
In Your Life:
You might recognize this in your own tendency to start projects with excitement but struggle to maintain momentum
Performance
In This Chapter
Mr. Elton's theatrical sighs and studied compliments suggest he's performing romance rather than feeling it
Development
Introduced here, showing how social expectations create artificial behavior
In Your Life:
You see this when someone's romantic interest feels rehearsed rather than genuine
Modern Adaptation
When the Promotion Goes Sideways
Following Emma's story...
Emma's convinced her shy coworker Harriet deserves better than stocking shelves at the grocery store. When their manager mentions an opening in the deli counter, Emma launches into action. She volunteers to help Harriet practice customer service skills, coaches her on speaking up in meetings, and even suggests a makeover to boost confidence. Emma orchestrates situations where Harriet can shine—scheduling them together during busy shifts, making sure Harriet handles the difficult customers Emma knows she can manage. She's so focused on positioning Harriet for the promotion that she misses obvious signs: Harriet actually likes the quiet of stocking shelves and feels overwhelmed by Emma's constant coaching. Meanwhile, their supervisor keeps praising Emma's leadership skills and asking her opinion about staffing decisions. Emma assumes he's impressed by how she's developing Harriet, but she's too busy managing her project to notice he might be considering her for advancement instead.
The Road
The road Emma Woodhouse walked in 1815, Emma walks today. The pattern is identical: good intentions transform into controlling behavior when we decide someone needs fixing without asking what they actually want.
The Map
This chapter provides a navigation tool for recognizing when helping crosses into controlling. Emma can learn to check her motivations and ask for consent before launching improvement projects.
Amplification
Before reading this, Emma might have continued orchestrating Harriet's career without questioning her methods. Now she can NAME the Helper's Trap, PREDICT how it breeds resentment, and NAVIGATE it by asking 'Did you ask for this help?' before acting.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
What specific actions does Emma take to bring Harriet and Mr. Elton together during the portrait sessions?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does Emma reshape Harriet's appearance in the portrait, making her taller and more elegant than she actually is?
analysis • medium - 3
Where have you seen someone 'help' by taking control of a situation without being asked? What happened?
application • medium - 4
How can you tell the difference between genuine helping and the need to control someone else's life?
application • deep - 5
What does Emma's pattern of starting projects but never finishing them reveal about her approach to relationships?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Spot the Helper's Trap
Think of a time when someone 'helped' you without asking, or when you tried to fix someone else's situation. Write down what actually happened versus what the helper thought they were doing. Then identify three warning signs that help has crossed into control.
Consider:
- •Did the helper ask permission before jumping in?
- •Who benefited more - the person being helped or the helper's need to feel useful?
- •What would have happened if the helper had simply listened instead of acting?
Journaling Prompt
Write about a current situation where you want to help someone. What questions would you ask them before taking any action? How would you respond if they said no thank you?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 7: The Marriage Proposal That Changes Everything
The coming pages reveal social pressure can override personal feelings in major decisions, and teach us the way manipulation works through creating fear of social isolation. These discoveries help us navigate similar situations in our own lives.