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OF THE ROMAN GRANDEUR I will only say a word or two of this infinite argument, to show the simplicity of those who compare the pitiful greatness of these times with that of Rome. In the seventh book of Cicero’s Familiar Epistles (and let the grammarians put out that surname of familiar if they please, for in truth it is not very suitable; and they who, instead of familiar, have substituted “ad Familiares,” may gather something to justify them for so doing out of what Suetonius says in the Life of Caesar, that there was a volume of letters of his “ad Familiares “) there is one directed to Caesar, then in Gaul, wherein Cicero repeats these words, which were in the end of another letter that Caesar had written to him: “As to what concerns Marcus Furius, whom you have recommended to me, I will make him king of Gaul, and if you would have me advance any other friend of yours send him to me.” It was no new thing for a simple citizen of Rome, as Caesar then was, to dispose of kingdoms, for he took away that of King Deiotarus from him to give it to a gentleman of the city of Pergamus, called Mithridates; and they who wrote his Life record several cities sold by him; and Suetonius says, that he had once from King Ptolemy three millions and six hundred thousand crowns, which was very like selling him his own kingdom: “Tot Galatae, tot...
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Summary
Montaigne examines what real power looks like by contrasting modern leaders with ancient Rome's almost casual dominance over the known world. He shares fascinating stories that reveal how Roman authority worked: Caesar casually promising to make someone 'king of Gaul' in a letter, as if kingdoms were party favors to hand out. The most striking example involves a Roman senator named Popilius who confronted King Antiochus, who had just conquered Egypt and was expanding his empire. Popilius refused even to shake the king's hand until he read Rome's message, then drew a circle in the dirt around the king with his walking stick, demanding an answer before Antiochus could step out of it. The king, despite commanding vast armies, immediately agreed to abandon his conquests. Montaigne marvels at this: three lines of writing from Rome could stop an empire in its tracks. He notes how Rome often left conquered kings on their thrones as puppet rulers, understanding that true control meant others did your work for you. The essay reveals how authentic power operates through psychological dominance and institutional authority rather than constant displays of force. When people truly respect your power, you don't need to constantly prove it. Montaigne suggests that modern leaders who constantly flex and posture actually reveal their weakness - they're trying too hard because they lack the deep, unquestioned authority that Rome possessed.
That's what happens. To understand what the author is really doing—and to discuss this chapter with confidence—keep reading.
Terms to Know
Roman Grandeur
The massive scale and casual confidence of Roman power at its peak. Romans didn't just conquer - they reorganized the world like it was their personal property. Montaigne uses this to show what real authority looks like.
Modern Usage:
We see echoes in how tech giants casually reshape entire industries, or how superpowers influence global politics through economic pressure rather than military force.
Puppet King
A ruler who keeps his title and throne but takes orders from Rome. The Romans understood that letting conquered people keep familiar faces in charge made occupation easier and cheaper.
Modern Usage:
Corporate acquisitions often work this way - keeping the old CEO and brand name while the parent company calls the shots behind the scenes.
Psychological Dominance
Power that works through reputation and expectation rather than force. When everyone knows you're in charge, you rarely need to prove it through violence or threats.
Modern Usage:
The boss who never raises their voice but gets instant compliance, or the parent whose disappointed look stops bad behavior faster than yelling.
Institutional Authority
Power that comes from representing something bigger than yourself. Popilius wasn't personally intimidating, but he spoke for Rome - and everyone knew what that meant.
Modern Usage:
A health inspector shutting down a restaurant, or an IRS agent getting immediate cooperation - the uniform and badge carry more weight than the individual.
Casual Disposal of Kingdoms
How Romans treated entire countries like poker chips, giving away thrones in casual letters. This wasn't cruelty but supreme confidence in their right to reorganize the world.
Modern Usage:
When major investors or corporations reshape entire markets with a single decision, treating billion-dollar companies like chess pieces.
Circle in the Dirt
Popilius's famous power move - drawing a circle around King Antiochus and demanding an answer before he could step out. Physical gesture that demonstrated Rome's psychological control.
Modern Usage:
Any moment when someone forces an immediate decision through pure confidence - 'I need an answer right now' backed by unquestioned authority.
Characters in This Chapter
Caesar
Example of casual Roman authority
Shows how Romans treated kingdoms like party favors. In his letters, he casually promises to make someone 'king of Gaul' as if handing out business cards. Represents the mindset of supreme confidence.
Modern Equivalent:
The CEO who reshuffles entire divisions in casual conversation
Cicero
Correspondent and observer
Receives Caesar's letter containing the casual promise about making someone king of Gaul. His correspondence preserves these examples of Roman attitudes toward power for Montaigne to analyze.
Modern Equivalent:
The insider who documents how power really works behind the scenes
Popilius
Roman senator and ultimate power broker
Confronts King Antiochus with nothing but a letter from Rome and supreme confidence. Draws the famous circle in the dirt, forcing an empire to back down through pure psychological pressure.
Modern Equivalent:
The federal regulator who walks into a corporate boardroom and gets immediate compliance
King Antiochus
Conquered king despite his armies
Commands vast military forces but immediately submits to a single Roman senator with a stick. Represents how even powerful people recognize superior authority when they encounter it.
Modern Equivalent:
The tough manager who immediately becomes compliant when corporate headquarters calls
Marcus Furius
Beneficiary of Roman favor
The person Caesar casually promises to make king of Gaul. Represents how Roman power could instantly elevate people to positions of authority across the known world.
Modern Equivalent:
The protégé who gets fast-tracked to executive positions through connections
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to distinguish between authentic authority and empty performance by recognizing behavioral patterns of secure versus insecure power.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when someone feels the need to constantly prove their authority versus when someone simply exercises it—the difference reveals who actually has it.
You have the foundation. Now let's look closer.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"I will make him king of Gaul, and if you would have me advance any other friend of yours send him to me."
Context: Written casually in a letter to Cicero, treating kingship like a job recommendation
This perfectly captures Roman grandeur - the casual tone of someone who treats entire kingdoms as personal gifts to hand out. Caesar isn't boasting; he's just stating what he can do as easily as offering someone a drink.
In Today's Words:
I'll set him up with that promotion, and if you have other friends who need jobs, just send them my way.
"Before you step out of this circle, give me an answer that I may carry back to Rome."
Context: Drawn in the dirt around King Antiochus, forcing an immediate decision
The ultimate power move - using a simple gesture to demonstrate absolute authority. Popilius transforms a casual conversation into a moment where an empire must choose submission or war with Rome.
In Today's Words:
You're not leaving this room until you give me a yes or no answer I can take back to my boss.
"Three lines of writing sent from Rome could make the mightiest king in the world tremble."
Context: Reflecting on how Roman authority worked through reputation rather than force
Montaigne marvels at how efficiently Roman power operated. They didn't need massive displays of force because everyone understood the consequences of defying Rome. Fear did the work for them.
In Today's Words:
A simple email from the right person can make the most powerful executives panic.
Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Quiet Authority
Genuine power operates through calm confidence while insecurity demands constant performance and display.
Thematic Threads
Power Dynamics
In This Chapter
Rome's casual dominance versus modern leaders' desperate posturing reveals how authentic authority operates
Development
Builds on earlier discussions of social hierarchy and personal influence
In Your Life:
You might notice how the most respected people at work rarely need to announce their importance
Class Recognition
In This Chapter
Roman senators could casually redistribute kingdoms while maintaining aristocratic restraint
Development
Extends previous observations about how upper classes signal status through understatement
In Your Life:
You see this in how established professionals dress down while newcomers overdress to prove themselves
Psychological Control
In This Chapter
Popilius's circle in the dirt demonstrates how mental dominance trumps physical force
Development
New thread exploring how authority operates through psychological rather than physical means
In Your Life:
You might recognize when someone's trying to intimidate you mentally versus when they actually have leverage
Institutional Authority
In This Chapter
Rome's power came from systematic respect for their institutions rather than individual strength
Development
Introduced here as foundation for understanding how systems create and maintain power
In Your Life:
You see this in how hospital protocols carry weight regardless of who's enforcing them
Strategic Restraint
In This Chapter
Rome often left conquered kings as puppet rulers, understanding that indirect control was more efficient
Development
New concept showing how sophisticated power operates through others
In Your Life:
You might notice how effective parents guide behavior without constant confrontation
Modern Adaptation
When the Promotion Goes Sideways
Following Arthur's story...
Arthur watches the new department head operate with quiet confidence that makes everyone listen. Dr. Martinez never raises her voice, rarely sends urgent emails, but when she speaks, decisions get made instantly. Meanwhile, the previous head had been all flash—constant meetings, dramatic announcements, micromanaging every detail. Arthur remembers how exhausting that felt, how nobody really trusted those grand gestures. Now he sees the difference: Martinez assigns a struggling adjunct to lead the curriculum committee with a simple 'I think you'd be perfect for this,' and somehow that carries more weight than all of her predecessor's PowerPoints combined. When the dean questions a budget decision, Martinez just says 'I'll handle it' and the conversation ends. Arthur realizes he's witnessing real authority—the kind that doesn't need to prove itself because everyone already knows it's there.
The Road
The road that Roman senator Popilius walked in ancient Syria, Arthur walks today in academic politics. The pattern is identical: authentic power operates through calm confidence while insecurity demands constant performance.
The Map
Arthur can now distinguish between theatrical authority and genuine influence. He can recognize when someone's overcompensating for weakness and when someone possesses real institutional power.
Amplification
Before reading this, Arthur might have been impressed by dramatic leadership displays and confused by quiet authority. Now he can NAME the difference between secure and insecure power, PREDICT which leaders will actually deliver results, and NAVIGATE institutional politics more strategically.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
What made the Roman senator's circle-in-the-dirt moment so powerful that it stopped an entire empire?
analysis • surface - 2
Why could Rome casually promise to make someone 'king of Gaul' while modern leaders often struggle to get basic respect?
analysis • medium - 3
Think about your workplace or family - who has real authority versus who just makes the most noise?
application • medium - 4
When you're in charge of something (a project, your kids, a team), how do you avoid the trap of over-proving your authority?
application • deep - 5
What does this chapter reveal about why some people command respect effortlessly while others constantly fight for it?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Authority Landscape
Draw three columns: 'Quiet Power' (people who command respect without trying), 'Loud Insecurity' (people who constantly prove themselves), and 'My Position' (where you fit in different situations). Fill each column with examples from your life - work, family, community. Notice the patterns in how each group operates.
Consider:
- •Look for people who speak softly but everyone listens versus those who dominate conversations
- •Consider how different situations might put you in different columns
- •Notice what specific behaviors separate quiet authority from empty posturing
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you felt the need to over-prove yourself. What was really driving that behavior, and how might you handle it differently now?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 81: When Fake It Till You Make It Backfires
As the story unfolds, you'll explore pretending to have problems can actually create real ones, while uncovering self-awareness is crucial for personal growth. These lessons connect the classic to contemporary challenges we all face.