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XXXVII Edna looked in at the drug store. Monsieur Ratignolle was putting up a mixture himself, very carefully, dropping a red liquid into a tiny glass. He was grateful to Edna for having come; her presence would be a comfort to his wife. Madame Ratignolle’s sister, who had always been with her at such trying times, had not been able to come up from the plantation, and Adèle had been inconsolable until Mrs. Pontellier so kindly promised to come to her. The nurse had been with them at night for the past week, as she lived a great distance away. And Dr. Mandelet had been coming and going all the afternoon. They were then looking for him any moment. Edna hastened upstairs by a private stairway that led from the rear of the store to the apartments above. The children were all sleeping in a back room. Madame Ratignolle was in the salon, whither she had strayed in her suffering impatience. She sat on the sofa, clad in an ample white _peignoir_, holding a handkerchief tight in her hand with a nervous clutch. Her face was drawn and pinched, her sweet blue eyes haggard and unnatural. All her beautiful hair had been drawn back and plaited. It lay in a long braid on the sofa pillow, coiled like a golden serpent. The nurse, a comfortable looking Griffe woman in white apron and cap, was urging her to return to her bedroom. “There is no use, there is no use,” she...
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Summary
Edna arrives at the Ratignolle home where Adèle is in labor, experiencing intense pain and anxiety about the delayed doctor. The scene unfolds with all the chaos of a medical emergency—Adèle's suffering, the nurse's attempts to maintain calm, and the family's mounting worry. But for Edna, this becomes something much deeper than helping a friend. Watching Adèle's agony triggers memories of her own childbirth experiences, but now they feel distant and unreal, as if they happened to someone else. The clinical details—the chloroform, the pain, the sudden appearance of new life—come flooding back, but without the meaning they once held. Edna finds herself questioning everything about the cycle of life and suffering she's witnessing. She wants to leave, recognizes her presence isn't really necessary, and could easily make an excuse. Yet she stays, paralyzed by social obligation and her own inner turmoil. The experience becomes a form of torture for her, watching what she now sees as nature's cruel design. As she finally prepares to leave, Adèle grabs her with a desperate final plea: 'Think of the children, Edna. Oh think of the children! Remember them!' These words hit Edna like a physical blow, representing everything she's been trying to escape—the expectations, the sacrifices, the endless cycle of putting others' needs before her own authentic self.
That's what happens. To understand what the author is really doing—and to discuss this chapter with confidence—keep reading.
Terms to Know
Peignoir
A loose, flowing robe or dressing gown worn by women, typically made of silk or fine fabric. In this period, it was considered proper attire for a woman in labor or recovering from illness, more modest than a nightgown but still comfortable.
Modern Usage:
Today we'd call this a bathrobe or loungewear - something comfortable you wear when you're sick or need to be dressed but comfortable at home.
Griffe
A racial classification used in 19th-century Louisiana referring to someone of mixed African and European ancestry, specifically three-quarters Black and one-quarter white. The term reflects the complex racial hierarchy of Creole society.
Modern Usage:
This shows how society once used detailed racial categories to determine social status and job opportunities, similar to how we still see discrimination based on appearance and background today.
Chloroform
An early anesthetic used during childbirth and surgery in the 1800s. It was considered modern medicine at the time, though we now know it was dangerous and often ineffective for pain relief.
Modern Usage:
This represents any medical intervention that promises to make difficult experiences easier - like epidurals during labor or anxiety medication during stressful times.
Social obligation
The unwritten rules about what you're expected to do for others based on friendship, family ties, or community expectations. Edna feels trapped by the expectation that she should stay and support Adèle.
Modern Usage:
We still feel this pressure - staying late at work because everyone else does, attending events we don't want to go to, or helping people even when we're overwhelmed ourselves.
Maternal duty
The belief that women are naturally obligated to sacrifice their own needs and desires for their children's welfare. This was considered a woman's highest calling and moral responsibility in the 19th century.
Modern Usage:
Today we call this 'mom guilt' - the pressure mothers feel to put their children's needs above everything else, often at the cost of their own mental health and identity.
Awakening
The process of becoming aware of your own desires and identity separate from what others expect of you. For Edna, this means recognizing that she wants more than just being a wife and mother.
Modern Usage:
We see this in people who realize they've been living someone else's life - whether it's staying in the wrong career, relationship, or lifestyle because it's what's expected.
Characters in This Chapter
Edna Pontellier
Protagonist
She attends Adèle's childbirth out of obligation but finds the experience disturbing rather than moving. The birth reminds her of her own children and the sacrifices motherhood demands, making her question the cycle of women's suffering.
Modern Equivalent:
The friend who shows up when you need them but realizes they're only there out of guilt, not genuine care
Adèle Ratignolle
Foil character
She represents traditional motherhood - suffering through childbirth while completely devoted to her role as wife and mother. Her final desperate plea to Edna about thinking of the children shows how she can't understand Edna's awakening.
Modern Equivalent:
The mom friend who lives entirely for her family and can't understand why you'd want anything else
Monsieur Ratignolle
Supporting character
He's grateful for Edna's presence and focused on practical matters like medicine and getting help for his wife. He represents the conventional husband dealing with a family crisis.
Modern Equivalent:
The husband who handles emergencies by staying busy with logistics rather than emotions
The nurse
Professional caregiver
She's practical and experienced, trying to manage Adèle's pain and keep the situation under control. Her presence shows this is routine medical work for her, while it's emotionally devastating for the family.
Modern Equivalent:
The healthcare worker who's seen it all and stays calm while families fall apart
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to recognize when someone uses guilt and manufactured urgency to control your time and energy.
Practice This Today
Next time someone creates a crisis that somehow requires your specific presence, ask yourself: Are they asking for help, or making me feel guilty for having boundaries?
You have the foundation. Now let's look closer.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"Think of the children, Edna. Oh think of the children! Remember them!"
Context: Adèle's desperate final words to Edna as she's leaving after the birth
This is Adèle's last attempt to pull Edna back into traditional thinking about motherhood and duty. She can sense that Edna is drifting away from conventional expectations and makes this emotional appeal to maternal responsibility.
In Today's Words:
Don't you dare put yourself first - remember you're a mother above everything else!
"She began to feel uneasy. She was seized with a vague dread."
Context: Describing Edna's emotional state while witnessing the birth
This shows how the birth experience triggers anxiety in Edna rather than joy or maternal feelings. She's disturbed by being reminded of the physical and emotional costs of motherhood.
In Today's Words:
Something about this whole situation was making her really uncomfortable and anxious.
"The torture was over."
Context: Describing the end of Adèle's labor pains
The word 'torture' reveals how Edna now views childbirth - not as a beautiful natural process, but as unnecessary suffering that women endure. This reflects her growing rejection of romanticized motherhood.
In Today's Words:
Finally, that nightmare was over.
Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Borrowed Guilt - When Others Make Their Crisis Your Obligation
When others make their crisis your obligation through emotional manipulation rather than direct requests for help.
Thematic Threads
Obligation
In This Chapter
Edna stays at Adèle's bedside not from genuine desire to help, but from social expectation and manufactured guilt
Development
Evolved from earlier chapters where Edna began questioning social duties—now she's trapped by them despite her awakening
In Your Life:
You might recognize this when you find yourself doing things you don't want to do because saying no feels impossible
Manipulation
In This Chapter
Adèle's final desperate plea about 'the children' is perfectly timed to maximize emotional impact and guilt
Development
Introduced here as a direct challenge to Edna's growing independence
In Your Life:
You might see this when someone uses your deepest values or fears against you to get what they want
Identity
In This Chapter
Edna feels disconnected from her own childbirth experiences, as if they happened to someone else
Development
Continues her pattern of questioning her role as mother and woman, now with growing detachment
In Your Life:
You might experience this when looking back at major life events that no longer feel authentic to who you are now
Boundaries
In This Chapter
Edna wants to leave, knows she's not needed, but cannot overcome the social pressure to stay
Development
Shows how difficult it is to maintain the boundaries she's been trying to establish
In Your Life:
You might struggle with this when you know what you need but can't act on it due to others' expectations
Suffering
In This Chapter
Edna sees Adèle's pain as part of nature's cruel design rather than meaningful sacrifice
Development
Represents a shift from accepting women's suffering as noble to questioning its purpose
In Your Life:
You might question this when you stop seeing your own struggles as necessary and start seeing them as choices
Modern Adaptation
When Someone Else's Crisis Becomes Your Emergency
Following April's story...
April's friend Maya calls at 11 PM, sobbing about her boyfriend drama—again. Despite having to work a double shift tomorrow, April finds herself driving across town to Maya's apartment. She sits through three hours of the same circular conversation they've had monthly for two years, watching Maya cry over a man who clearly doesn't respect her. April knows her presence isn't solving anything—Maya will be back with him by Thursday. She could leave, should leave, but Maya keeps saying things like 'I don't know what I'd do without you' and 'you're the only one who really understands.' As April finally stands to go, Maya grabs her arm with desperate eyes: 'Promise me you won't give up on me like everyone else has. Promise me you'll always be there.' The words hit April like a trap snapping shut. She realizes she's been here before—with her mother's 'health scares,' her sister's financial emergencies, her ex-husband's work problems that somehow became her responsibility to fix.
The Road
The road April Pontellier walked in 1899, April walks today. The pattern is identical: recognizing when someone else's emotional crisis has become your mandatory emergency, and the guilt trap that keeps you imprisoned in other people's drama.
The Map
This chapter provides a navigation tool for recognizing borrowed guilt—when others make their problems feel like your responsibility through emotional manipulation rather than direct requests. April can learn to distinguish between genuine emergencies and manufactured crises.
Amplification
Before reading this, April might have felt guilty every time she wanted to leave a friend's crisis, thinking she was being selfish. Now she can NAME borrowed guilt, PREDICT the manipulation tactics, and NAVIGATE by asking: Is my presence actually necessary, or just expected?
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
Why does Edna feel like her own childbirth experiences happened to someone else when she watches Adèle in labor?
analysis • surface - 2
What makes Adèle's final plea about 'the children' so powerful, and why does it hit Edna like a physical blow?
analysis • medium - 3
Where do you see people using guilt or manufactured emergencies to keep others from setting boundaries in your own life?
application • medium - 4
How can you tell the difference between someone who genuinely needs help and someone who's using emotional manipulation to control your choices?
application • deep - 5
What does this scene reveal about how society uses guilt to keep people trapped in roles they want to escape?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Decode the Guilt Trip
Think of a recent situation where someone made you feel guilty for prioritizing your own needs or setting a boundary. Write down exactly what they said and did, then identify the specific techniques they used to make you feel responsible for their problem. Look for patterns like manufactured urgency, helplessness performance, or invoking others who might be hurt by your choices.
Consider:
- •Notice if they asked directly for help or created a scenario where saying no felt cruel
- •Pay attention to timing - did this 'emergency' happen right when you were asserting independence?
- •Consider whether your presence actually solved their problem or just enabled their pattern
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you stayed in a situation out of guilt rather than genuine necessity. What would you do differently now that you can recognize the borrowed guilt pattern?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 38: The Note That Changes Everything
What lies ahead teaches us to recognize when someone's actions don't match their words, and shows us timing matters when making life-changing decisions. These patterns appear in literature and life alike.