The House of Mirth
by Edith Wharton (1905)
Book Overview
The House of Mirth traces Lily Bart's tragic decline through Gilded Age New York society. Beautiful, charming, and broke, Lily has been trained for only one career: marrying rich. But she keeps sabotaging herself, unable to fully commit to the cynical game. Edith Wharton's devastating masterpiece explores what happens when a woman's only value is her marriageability—and that value has an expiration date.
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Major Themes
Key Characters
Lily Bart
Protagonist
Featured in 29 chapters
Lawrence Selden
Love interest/confidant
Featured in 14 chapters
Bertha Dorset
Social rival
Featured in 11 chapters
Simon Rosedale
Social climber/potential threat
Featured in 7 chapters
Percy Gryce
Marriage prospect
Featured in 6 chapters
Gus Trenor
Predatory helper
Featured in 6 chapters
Gerty Farish
Moral compass
Featured in 6 chapters
Mrs. Trenor
Wealthy hostess
Featured in 5 chapters
George Dorset
Unwitting victim
Featured in 5 chapters
Mrs. Peniston
Lily's aunt and guardian
Featured in 4 chapters
Key Quotes
"The worst of it is that I am horribly poor and very expensive."
"I have been about too long - people are getting tired of me; they are beginning to say I ought to marry."
"Why must a girl pay so dearly for her least escape from routine?"
"He had his race's accuracy in the appraisal of values"
"She had been brought up in the faith that, whatever it cost, she must keep up appearances."
"The worst of it was that she had always been a desultory worker, and was not sure of being able to earn her living."
"It was understood that Miss Bart should fill the gap in such emergencies, and she usually recognized the obligation without a murmur."
"Everything in her surroundings ministered to feelings of ease and amenity."
"She saw that she had been living in a house of mirrors, and that all her life had been a kind of reflected existence."
"The long white road stretched before her without dip or turning, and she saw herself walking down it alone."
"The only way I can help you is by loving you"
"I have never been able to understand the laws of a universe which was so ready to leave me out of its calculations"
Discussion Questions
1. Why does Lily go to Selden's apartment, and what does this choice reveal about what she's missing in her life?
From Chapter 1 →2. How does Lily's comment about being 'horribly poor and very expensive' capture her impossible situation?
From Chapter 1 →3. What mistake did Lily make with Rosedale, and why does she realize it will come back to hurt her?
From Chapter 2 →4. How does Lily use her knowledge of Percy Gryce's personality and interests to position herself as attractive to him?
From Chapter 2 →5. What specific financial pressures is Lily facing, and how do they limit her choices?
From Chapter 3 →6. How did Mrs. Bart's teachings about poverty and appearances shape Lily's current mindset?
From Chapter 3 →7. What kind of work does Mrs. Trenor expect Lily to do, and why can't Lily refuse?
From Chapter 4 →8. How has Lily been changing her behavior to attract Percy Gryce, and what does this cost her emotionally?
From Chapter 4 →9. What specific moment makes Lily realize what her life with Gryce would actually look like, and how does she react to this vision?
From Chapter 5 →10. Why does seeing Selden change Lily's entire perspective on the wealthy people around her, and what does this reveal about the power of outside viewpoints?
From Chapter 5 →11. What happens when Lily and Selden walk away from the group, and how do they both change during their conversation?
From Chapter 6 →12. Why does the sound of returning cars immediately make Lily panic, even though moments before she felt free and honest?
From Chapter 6 →13. What specific financial mistake does Lily make in this chapter, and what warning signs does she ignore?
From Chapter 7 →14. Why does Lily convince herself she can control Trenor's expectations when she clearly recognizes the danger?
From Chapter 7 →15. Why does Lily avoid examining the details of her arrangement with Trenor, even though his behavior is making her uncomfortable?
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Chapter 1: A Chance Encounter at Grand Central
Lily Bart, a beautiful but financially precarious woman of 29, encounters Lawrence Selden at Grand Central Station while waiting for a delayed train. ...
Chapter 2: Strategic Mistakes and Calculated Charm
Lily realizes she's made a costly error with Rosedale—her clumsy lie about the dressmaker has given him ammunition against her, and her history of snu...
Chapter 3: The Cost of Playing the Game
Lily faces the brutal mathematics of her situation after losing $300 at cards—money she desperately needed for bills. As she stares at her reflection,...
Chapter 4: The Price of Playing the Game
Lily wakes to a summons from her hostess Mrs. Trenor to help with secretarial work—the kind of unpaid labor expected from houseguests who can't afford...
Chapter 5: The Price of Performance
Lily Bart faces a moment of truth about the life she's choosing. She plans to attend church with Percy Gryce, calculating that her pious appearance wi...
Chapter 6: The Republic of the Spirit
Lily and Selden escape together for an afternoon walk, leaving behind the social obligations that usually govern their lives. In the natural setting, ...
Chapter 7: The Price of Financial Desperation
Lily faces the harsh reality of her financial situation after losing Percy Gryce as a potential husband. Mrs. Trenor lectures her about the missed opp...
Chapter 8: The Price of Easy Money
Lily receives her first thousand-dollar check from Gus Trenor and feels a surge of confidence as she pays off her debts. She convinces herself this st...
Chapter 9: The Charwoman's Dangerous Discovery
Lily returns to her aunt's dreary Fifth Avenue house, feeling increasingly isolated as her social invitations dwindle. Her world feels smaller and mor...
Chapter 10: The Price of Independence
Lily enjoys her newfound financial independence from Trenor's stock tip, finally free from constantly borrowing from friends. She spends freely, reaso...
Chapter 11: When Gossip Becomes Weaponized
As New York's social season begins amid economic uncertainty, only newcomers like Simon Rosedale are thriving while established families feel the fina...
Chapter 12: The Tableau and the Kiss
Lily finds herself trapped in increasingly complicated relationships with the Trenors. Gus Trenor, who helped her invest money, is becoming more deman...
Chapter 13: The Trap Springs Shut
Lily receives two notes that will change everything: one from Mrs. Trenor inviting her to dinner, another from Selden asking to see her. Still glowing...
Chapter 14: The Cruelty of Unequal Hearts
Gerty Farish awakens from dreams of happiness, believing Lawrence Selden's growing attention signals romantic interest. Her joy deepens when she reali...
Chapter 15: When All Doors Close
Lily wakes in Gerty's cramped room, confronting the harsh reality of her situation in daylight. The previous night's crisis feels even more overwhelmi...
Chapter 16: Running from What Follows You
Selden arrives in Monte Carlo hoping to escape his complicated feelings about Lily Bart, only to literally run into her on a train. The irony is sharp...
Chapter 17: The Mask Slips Off
Lily wakes up alone on the yacht in Monte Carlo, basking in the Mediterranean beauty that has helped her forget her crushing debts back in New York. F...
Chapter 18: The Public Humiliation
Selden works behind the scenes to prevent the Dorset marriage from exploding into public scandal, knowing that Lily would be caught in the crossfire. ...
Chapter 19: The Will That Changes Everything
Lily arrives at her aunt's will reading expecting to inherit a fortune that will solve all her problems. Instead, she receives only $10,000 while her ...
Chapter 20: Finding New Friends, Losing Yourself
Lily hits rock bottom after being cut off by her aunt, wandering Fifth Avenue like a lost soul when Mrs. Fisher swoops in with a lifeline. Fisher offe...
Chapter 21: The Temptation of Revenge
Lily encounters George Dorset during a solitary walk, and he desperately begs for her forgiveness and help. He hints that she holds the key to his fre...
Chapter 22: The Blackmail Proposition
Lily takes a walk with Rosedale, steeling herself to accept his marriage proposal as her last chance for financial security and social redemption. But...
Chapter 23: The Price of Keeping Up
Lily's world continues to shrink as winter settles over New York. The Gormers, her latest social lifeline, begin pulling away as they climb higher in ...
Chapter 24: The False Position
Lily wakes up in luxury at the Emporium Hotel, working as secretary to Mrs. Norma Hatch, a wealthy divorcée from the West trying to break into New Yor...
Chapter 25: The Weight of Honest Work
Lily's fall from grace reaches its most concrete form as she struggles in a millinery workroom, her privileged hands unable to master the simple task ...
Chapter 26: The Last Temptation
Lily wanders Fifth Avenue after losing her job at the millinery shop, watching her former social world pass by in carriages while she faces an uncerta...
Chapter 27: The Final Goodbye
Lily visits Selden one last time in his library, the same room where their relationship began. She comes to apologize for their harsh parting and to t...
Chapter 28: The Weight of a Child's Trust
Lily sits alone in Bryant Park, exhausted and dependent on chloral to sleep, when Nettie Struther—a working girl Lily once helped—recognizes her and o...
Chapter 29: The Final Reckoning
Selden rushes to Lily's boarding house on a bright morning, finally ready to declare his love. But he arrives too late—Lily has died from an overdose ...
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