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A Family Party Maggie left her good aunt Gritty at the end of the week, and went to Garum Firs to pay her visit to aunt Pullet according to agreement. In the mean time very unexpected things had happened, and there was to be a family party at Garum to discuss and celebrate a change in the fortunes of the Tullivers, which was likely finally to carry away the shadow of their demerits like the last limb of an eclipse, and cause their hitherto obscured virtues to shine forth in full-rounded splendor. It is pleasant to know that a new ministry just come into office are not the only fellow-men who enjoy a period of high appreciation and full-blown eulogy; in many respectable families throughout this realm, relatives becoming creditable meet with a similar cordiality of recognition, which in its fine freedom from the coercion of any antecedents, suggests the hopeful possibility that we may some day without any notice find ourselves in full millennium, with cockatrices who have ceased to bite, and wolves that no longer show their teeth with any but the blandest intentions. Lucy came so early as to have the start even of aunt Glegg; for she longed to have some undisturbed talk with Maggie about the wonderful news. It seemed, did it not? said Lucy, with her prettiest air of wisdom, as if everything, even other people’s misfortunes (poor creatures!) were conspiring now to make poor dear aunt Tulliver, and cousin Tom, and naughty Maggie...
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Summary
Tom's fortunes have dramatically turned around—he's about to regain the family mill after the current tenant had a drunken accident. The family gathers at Aunt Pullet's to celebrate, and suddenly everyone treats the Tullivers with newfound respect and generosity. The aunts compete to give Tom household gifts, and there's talk of how wonderful it is that the family's reputation is restored. Lucy arrives early, hoping to use this moment of triumph to convince Tom to accept Maggie's relationship with Philip Wakem. She believes that with Tom so happy about the mill, he'll be flexible about everything else. But Lucy fundamentally misunderstands Tom's character. When she explains how Philip used his influence with his father to help Tom get the mill back, she expects gratitude. Instead, Tom becomes even more rigid in his opposition to any connection with the Wakem family. The chapter reveals how some minds work—Tom's type of personality actually feeds on prejudices because they provide certainty and moral authority in a complex world. His success doesn't make him more generous; it reinforces his sense of righteous judgment. Lucy's well-intentioned meddling backfires completely, leaving Tom more convinced than ever that Maggie will do something 'perverse'—likely marry Philip. The chapter shows how family dynamics shift with fortune, how success can reveal rather than change character, and how the same information can be interpreted completely differently by different personality types.
That's what happens. To understand what the author is really doing—and to discuss this chapter with confidence—keep reading.
Terms to Know
Family party
A formal gathering of extended family to discuss important news or decisions. In Victorian times, these were serious business meetings where the whole clan weighed in on major life changes. Everyone had a voice and an opinion.
Modern Usage:
Like when the whole family gets together for a big announcement - someone's getting married, divorced, or there's inheritance news to discuss.
Demerits
Black marks against your reputation or character. When a family fell into debt or scandal, it stained everyone's name. The whole extended family felt the shame and social consequences.
Modern Usage:
When one family member's mistakes reflect badly on everyone - like when your brother gets arrested and neighbors start looking at your whole family differently.
Creditable
Respectable and worthy of social acceptance again. Once Tom regains financial success, the family becomes 'creditable' - meaning other people want to associate with them without embarrassment.
Modern Usage:
When someone gets their life together after a rough patch and suddenly everyone wants to be friends again.
Cordiality of recognition
The warm, friendly treatment people suddenly show when your circumstances improve. Eliot notes how quickly family members become generous and welcoming when there's success to celebrate.
Modern Usage:
Fair-weather friends - people who are suddenly super nice when you're doing well but were nowhere to be found when you were struggling.
Antecedents
Past history or previous circumstances. Eliot suggests people ignore your messy past when your present looks good. Yesterday's failures get conveniently forgotten.
Modern Usage:
How people act like your past mistakes never happened once you become successful - selective memory about your struggles.
Millennium
A perfect future time when all conflicts will be resolved. Eliot uses this ironically to describe how family harmony seems possible when everyone's happy about Tom's success.
Modern Usage:
That fantasy moment when you think all your family drama is finally over because something good happened.
Characters in This Chapter
Tom Tulliver
Protagonist (in this chapter)
Tom is about to regain the family mill, which transforms how everyone treats him. His success doesn't make him more generous or flexible - it actually reinforces his rigid moral judgments and prejudices against the Wakem family.
Modern Equivalent:
The guy who gets promoted and becomes more judgmental instead of more understanding
Lucy Deane
Well-meaning mediator
Lucy arrives early hoping to use Tom's good mood to convince him to accept Maggie's relationship with Philip. She fundamentally misunderstands that success makes Tom more rigid, not more flexible.
Modern Equivalent:
The friend who thinks good news will make someone reasonable about everything else
Aunt Pullet
Family hostess
She hosts the family gathering to celebrate Tom's success. Like the other aunts, she's suddenly generous with gifts and praise now that the Tullivers are respectable again.
Modern Equivalent:
The relative who's suddenly super supportive when things are going well
Aunt Glegg
Family matriarch
She joins the other family members in celebrating Tom's success and offering household gifts. Her attitude toward the Tullivers has completely shifted now that they're financially secure.
Modern Equivalent:
The judgmental family member who changes their tune when your circumstances improve
Maggie Tulliver
Absent but central figure
Though not present for most of the chapter, she's the subject of Lucy's hopes and Tom's concerns. Tom expects she'll do something 'perverse' like marry Philip Wakem.
Modern Equivalent:
The family member everyone talks about but who isn't there to defend themselves
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to predict whether someone's success will make them more generous or more rigid based on their core personality patterns.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when someone gets a promotion, raise, or win—do they become more flexible with others or more convinced they're always right?
You have the foundation. Now let's look closer.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"relatives becoming creditable meet with a similar cordiality of recognition, which in its fine freedom from the coercion of any antecedents"
Context: Describing how family members suddenly become warm and generous when Tom's fortunes improve
Eliot sarcastically points out how people conveniently forget your past struggles when you become successful. The phrase 'freedom from antecedents' shows how selective human memory can be about others' difficulties.
In Today's Words:
Amazing how friendly family gets when you're doing well, like they completely forgot how they treated you when you were down
"It seemed, did it not? said Lucy, with her prettiest air of wisdom, as if everything, even other people's misfortunes were conspiring now to make poor dear aunt Tulliver happy"
Context: Lucy talking to Maggie about how Tom's success seems to solve everything
Lucy's naive optimism shows she doesn't understand how complex family dynamics really work. She thinks one piece of good news will fix all relationships and conflicts.
In Today's Words:
Isn't it great how everything's working out? Like the universe finally decided to give your family a break
"Tom's was not a nature to be softened by prosperity"
Context: Explaining why Tom becomes more rigid rather than more generous with his success
This reveals a crucial insight about personality types - some people become more judgmental when they succeed, not more understanding. Success feeds their sense of moral superiority rather than creating empathy.
In Today's Words:
Success didn't make Tom nicer - it made him more convinced he was right about everything
Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Righteous Rigidity - How Success Hardens Our Worst Traits
Success often reinforces our harshest traits by making us believe our rigid positions are morally justified.
Thematic Threads
Pride
In This Chapter
Tom's success with the mill inflates his moral authority and makes him more judgmental rather than grateful
Development
Evolved from Tom's childhood need to be 'right' into adult self-righteousness validated by achievement
In Your Life:
You might catch yourself becoming more demanding or critical when things are going well for you
Class
In This Chapter
The aunts suddenly shower the Tullivers with respect and gifts now that their fortune has turned
Development
Consistent theme showing how social standing determines treatment throughout the novel
In Your Life:
You've likely seen how differently people treat you when your job title, income, or circumstances change
Family Dynamics
In This Chapter
Lucy's well-meaning attempt to reconcile Tom and Maggie backfires because she misreads Tom's character
Development
Building pattern of family members talking past each other and making assumptions about motivations
In Your Life:
You might recognize times when your good intentions in family conflicts made things worse
Moral Certainty
In This Chapter
Tom's rigid personality feeds on prejudices because they provide clear moral authority in complex situations
Development
Tom's need for moral clarity has grown stronger as life's complications have increased
In Your Life:
You might notice how comforting it feels to have clear 'rules' about who's right and wrong in complicated situations
Misunderstanding
In This Chapter
Lucy expects gratitude from Tom about Philip's help but gets the opposite reaction—more rigid opposition
Development
Pattern of characters consistently misreading each other's motivations and reactions
In Your Life:
You've probably experienced giving someone good news and getting an unexpectedly negative reaction
Modern Adaptation
When the Promotion Goes Sideways
Following Maggie's story...
Maggie's brother Tom finally gets promoted to shift supervisor at the plant after three years of grinding work. The whole family celebrates at their aunt's house, and suddenly everyone's treating the siblings with new respect. Their cousin Lucy, trying to help, mentions how Philip from HR put in a good word for Tom during the promotion process. Lucy thinks this is the perfect moment to tell Tom that Maggie and Philip have been quietly dating—surely Tom will be grateful and flexible now that he's succeeded? But Tom's reaction is the opposite. Learning that a Wakem helped him makes him furious, not grateful. He sees it as manipulation, as being 'handled.' His promotion doesn't make him more generous—it makes him more convinced he's right about everything. He becomes even more rigid about Maggie staying away from Philip, viewing any connection to that family as a threat to their newfound respectability.
The Road
The road Tom Tulliver walked in 1860, Tom walks today. The pattern is identical: success doesn't soften rigid personalities—it hardens them, making them more convinced their harsh judgments are righteous.
The Map
This chapter provides a map for reading how success affects different personality types. Maggie can now predict that Tom's promotion will make him more controlling, not less.
Amplification
Before reading this, Maggie might have hoped Tom's good fortune would make him more understanding. Now she can NAME righteous rigidity, PREDICT that success will harden his positions, and NAVIGATE by timing her revelations differently.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
What changes in how the family treats Tom once they learn he's getting the mill back, and what does this reveal about family dynamics?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does learning that Philip helped him get the mill back make Tom more opposed to Maggie's relationship, not less?
analysis • medium - 3
Where have you seen someone become more rigid or judgmental after experiencing success, rather than more generous?
application • medium - 4
How would you approach someone like Tom if you needed to change their mind about something important to you?
application • deep - 5
What does this chapter suggest about whether success reveals character or changes it?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Track Your Success Patterns
Think of a recent success or win in your life - a promotion, recognition, solving a problem, or achieving a goal. Write down how you felt immediately after and what conclusions you drew about yourself or your methods. Then honestly assess: did this success make you more flexible and generous with others, or did it make you feel more justified in being strict or judgmental?
Consider:
- •Success often feels like validation of our methods, even when other factors contributed
- •Notice whether you became more willing to help others or more convinced others should 'work as hard as you did'
- •Consider how your success affected your patience with people who struggle in similar areas
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you had to deal with someone who became more difficult after they succeeded. What approach worked (or might have worked) to reach them?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 52: Swept Away by Temptation
The coming pages reveal small compromises can lead to life-altering consequences, and teach us the difference between being carried along and making conscious choices. These discoveries help us navigate similar situations in our own lives.