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CHAPTER XI The Rostóvs’ monetary affairs had not improved during the two years they had spent in the country. Though Nicholas Rostóv had kept firmly to his resolution and was still serving modestly in an obscure regiment, spending comparatively little, the way of life at Otrádnoe—Mítenka’s management of affairs, in particular—was such that the debts inevitably increased every year. The only resource obviously presenting itself to the old count was to apply for an official post, so he had come to Petersburg to look for one and also, as he said, to let the lassies enjoy themselves for the last time. Soon after their arrival in Petersburg Berg proposed to Véra and was accepted. Though in Moscow the Rostóvs belonged to the best society without themselves giving it a thought, yet in Petersburg their circle of acquaintances was a mixed and indefinite one. In Petersburg they were provincials, and the very people they had entertained in Moscow without inquiring to what set they belonged, here looked down on them. The Rostóvs lived in the same hospitable way in Petersburg as in Moscow, and the most diverse people met at their suppers. Country neighbors from Otrádnoe, impoverished old squires and their daughters, Perónskaya a maid of honor, Pierre Bezúkhov, and the son of their district postmaster who had obtained a post in Petersburg. Among the men who very soon became frequent visitors at the Rostóvs’ house in Petersburg were Borís, Pierre whom the count had met in the street and dragged...
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Summary
The Rostov family's money troubles have only gotten worse during their two years in the countryside, forcing Count Rostov to seek a government job in Petersburg. In the capital, they discover their provincial status—the same people they once entertained in Moscow now look down on them. Their social circle becomes a mixed bag of country neighbors, minor officials, and social climbers. Among their frequent visitors is Berg, a methodical German officer who has built his career on self-promotion and strategic positioning. Four years ago, he coldly decided Vera Rostov would be his wife, and now he formally proposes. The family accepts with surprising lukewarm enthusiasm, partly because Vera is 24 and still unmarried, partly because their financial desperation makes any decent match welcome. Berg explains his decision with calculated precision—he's arranged support for his parents, has a steady income, and believes marriage should be a practical partnership where both parties contribute resources. His cold-blooded approach to love reveals a man who sees relationships as business transactions. When Berg presses Count Rostov about Vera's dowry, the count's embarrassment becomes clear—he has no idea what he can actually afford to give. The family's estates are sold or mortgaged, their debts mounting. Under pressure, the count promises more than he can deliver, agreeing to twenty thousand rubles cash plus an eighty-thousand-ruble promissory note. The chapter exposes how financial crisis forces families to accept marriages they wouldn't otherwise consider, while showing how social climbers like Berg exploit others' desperation to advance their own interests.
That's what happens. To understand what the author is really doing—and to discuss this chapter with confidence—keep reading.
Terms to Know
Provincial status
Being from the countryside or smaller cities, considered less sophisticated than those from the capital. In 19th century Russia, Moscow families were often seen as backwards when they moved to St. Petersburg.
Modern Usage:
Like when someone from a small town moves to New York or LA and suddenly feels out of place around people who seem more cosmopolitan.
Marriage of convenience
A marriage arranged for practical reasons like money, social status, or family alliances rather than love. Common among the upper classes when families needed to solve financial problems.
Modern Usage:
Still happens today when people marry for citizenship, financial security, or to combine business interests rather than romance.
Dowry
Money or property that a bride's family gives to the groom's family when they marry. This was expected in upper-class marriages and could make or break a match.
Modern Usage:
Some cultures still practice this, but now it's more like expensive weddings where families go into debt to make a good impression.
Promissory note
A written promise to pay money at a future date, essentially an IOU. Families used these when they didn't have cash but needed to make financial commitments.
Modern Usage:
Like writing a check when you don't have the money in your account yet, hoping you'll figure it out before it bounces.
Social climbing
Deliberately trying to move up in society by associating with higher-class people or marrying into better families. Berg represents this calculated approach to advancement.
Modern Usage:
People who network obsessively, name-drop constantly, or date someone mainly for their connections or money.
Mixed society
A social circle that includes people from different classes and backgrounds, often seen as less prestigious than exclusive upper-class gatherings.
Modern Usage:
Like when your friend group includes people from very different income levels or social backgrounds - some people judge this as 'not classy enough.'
Characters in This Chapter
Berg
Social climber and suitor
A calculating German officer who has methodically planned his marriage to Vera for four years. He approaches marriage like a business deal, explaining his financial situation and expectations with cold precision.
Modern Equivalent:
The guy who dates someone mainly for their connections or treats relationships like networking opportunities
Vera Rostov
Bride-to-be
At 24, she's considered almost too old to marry well. Her family accepts Berg's proposal with lukewarm enthusiasm, partly from desperation and partly because she's not particularly lovable.
Modern Equivalent:
The family member everyone worries will never find someone, so they're relieved when anyone decent shows interest
Count Rostov
Desperate father
The family patriarch struggling with mounting debts and seeking a government job. He promises Berg a dowry he can't afford, showing how financial pressure forces poor decisions.
Modern Equivalent:
The parent who overspends on their kid's wedding or promises financial help they can't actually provide
Nicholas Rostov
Dutiful son
Despite his resolution to live modestly in military service, his family's debts continue growing. His attempts at responsibility can't fix the deeper financial problems.
Modern Equivalent:
The adult child trying to be responsible while their parents keep making financial mistakes
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to recognize when someone is taking advantage of your desperate situation rather than genuinely helping.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when people approach you with 'solutions' during your worst moments—ask yourself if their timing feels too convenient.
You have the foundation. Now let's look closer.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"I considered it my duty to let you know that I wish to marry your daughter"
Context: Berg's formal proposal to Count Rostov about Vera
Berg treats marriage like a business transaction, using the word 'duty' rather than love or desire. This reveals his calculated, emotionless approach to what should be a romantic moment.
In Today's Words:
I'm here to inform you that I've decided your daughter would be a suitable wife for my purposes.
"You know my income. How can we manage? That's what I wanted to ask you"
Context: Berg discussing the practical arrangements of marriage with Count Rostov
Berg reduces marriage to a financial equation, asking how they'll 'manage' rather than expressing any emotional connection. He's essentially negotiating a business deal.
In Today's Words:
Let's talk numbers - what's this going to cost me and what are you bringing to the table?
"The debts inevitably increased every year"
Context: Describing the Rostov family's worsening financial situation
This simple statement reveals the family's fundamental problem - they're living beyond their means with no real plan to change. The word 'inevitably' suggests they're trapped in a cycle.
In Today's Words:
No matter what they did, they kept going deeper into debt every year.
Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Road of Desperation Marriages
When vulnerability meets opportunity, the desperate party always pays more than the relationship is worth.
Thematic Threads
Financial Desperation
In This Chapter
The Rostovs' mounting debts force them to accept Berg's calculated proposal and promise dowry money they don't have
Development
Escalated from earlier money troubles to complete financial vulnerability
In Your Life:
You might recognize this when financial pressure makes you consider job offers, relationships, or deals you'd normally refuse.
Social Calculation
In This Chapter
Berg treats marriage like a business transaction, selecting Vera based on practical considerations rather than love
Development
Introduced here as extreme example of strategic social climbing
In Your Life:
You see this in people who network only for personal gain or date for status rather than genuine connection.
Class Anxiety
In This Chapter
The Rostovs discover their provincial status in Petersburg, where former guests now look down on them
Development
Continued from their earlier social decline, now with geographic displacement
In Your Life:
You might feel this when changing jobs, neighborhoods, or social circles and suddenly feeling like an outsider.
Exploitation
In This Chapter
Berg leverages the family's desperation to secure a wife and dowry while offering minimal emotional investment
Development
Introduced here as calculated opportunism
In Your Life:
You encounter this when someone offers help during your crisis but their terms seem disproportionately favorable to them.
Compromise
In This Chapter
The family accepts a loveless match because they have no better options for Vera
Development
New theme showing how circumstances force unwanted choices
In Your Life:
You face this when life circumstances make you choose between bad options rather than good ones.
Modern Adaptation
When Desperation Makes Bad Deals Look Good
Following Andrew's story...
Andrew's family restaurant is drowning in debt after his father's medical bills wiped out their savings. They're three months behind on rent, and the landlord is circling. Then Marcus, a smooth-talking franchise consultant, shows up with a 'perfect solution'—he'll buy into the business as a partner, cover the debts, and modernize operations. The catch? Andrew's family loses majority control and Marcus gets 60% ownership for his investment. Andrew's parents are ready to sign immediately—they're terrified of losing everything. But something feels off about Marcus's timing and his overly generous offer. He seems to know exactly how desperate they are, like he's been watching and waiting for the perfect moment to swoop in. The family meeting turns tense when Andrew questions the terms, but his parents snap that they don't have the luxury of being picky. Marcus sits back with a knowing smile, letting the family pressure do his work for him.
The Road
The road Berg walked in 1869, Andrew walks today. The pattern is identical: opportunists exploit desperation, timing their 'generous' offers for maximum leverage when people feel they have no choice.
The Map
This chapter provides a navigation tool for recognizing when someone is exploiting your crisis rather than genuinely helping. Andrew can learn to spot the warning signs: perfect timing, pressure tactics, and deals that seem too good to be true during your worst moments.
Amplification
Before reading this, Andrew might have felt grateful for any help during a crisis, unable to see manipulation disguised as rescue. Now they can NAME opportunistic timing, PREDICT the hidden costs, and NAVIGATE by creating breathing room before accepting 'salvation.'
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
Why does the Rostov family accept Berg's proposal to Vera, even though no one seems particularly excited about it?
analysis • surface - 2
How does Berg's approach to marriage reveal his character and motivations? What does he gain from this arrangement?
analysis • medium - 3
Where do you see people today accepting relationships or opportunities they wouldn't normally consider because they feel they have no other choice?
application • medium - 4
When someone approaches you with a 'perfect solution' during a difficult time, what questions should you ask yourself before accepting?
application • deep - 5
What does this chapter reveal about how desperation changes our decision-making, and how can we protect ourselves from making choices we'll regret?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Spot the Desperation Deal
Think of a situation in your life where you felt pressured to accept something because you had limited options. Write down what you were desperate for, what the other person offered, and what they gained from the arrangement. Then identify three warning signs that someone might be taking advantage of your vulnerability.
Consider:
- •Notice how timing affects your judgment - are you being rushed to decide?
- •Ask yourself what the other person really gets out of helping you
- •Consider whether this 'opportunity' would still seem good if you weren't in crisis
Journaling Prompt
Write about a time when you had to make a major decision while under pressure. What would you do differently now, and how can you create more options for yourself in future difficult situations?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 118: When Old Promises Collide with New Ambitions
What lies ahead teaches us childhood promises can become adult complications, and shows us avoiding difficult conversations makes situations worse. These patterns appear in literature and life alike.