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CHAPTER XXI Pierre, as one of the principal guests, had to sit down to boston with Count Rostóv, the general, and the colonel. At the card table he happened to be directly facing Natásha, and was struck by a curious change that had come over her since the ball. She was silent, and not only less pretty than at the ball, but only redeemed from plainness by her look of gentle indifference to everything around. “What’s the matter with her?” thought Pierre, glancing at her. She was sitting by her sister at the tea table, and reluctantly, without looking at him, made some reply to Borís who sat down beside her. After playing out a whole suit and to his partner’s delight taking five tricks, Pierre, hearing greetings and the steps of someone who had entered the room while he was picking up his tricks, glanced again at Natásha. “What has happened to her?” he asked himself with still greater surprise. Prince Andrew was standing before her, saying something to her with a look of tender solicitude. She, having raised her head, was looking up at him, flushed and evidently trying to master her rapid breathing. And the bright glow of some inner fire that had been suppressed was again alight in her. She was completely transformed and from a plain girl had again become what she had been at the ball. Prince Andrew went up to Pierre, and the latter noticed a new and youthful expression in his friend’s...
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Summary
Pierre watches a fascinating transformation unfold at a card party. Natasha sits quietly, looking plain and disinterested—until Prince Andrew enters the room. Suddenly, she's radiant again, the same captivating girl from the ball. The change is so dramatic that Pierre can't stop watching, realizing something important is happening between his friend and this young woman. Meanwhile, Vera tries to play matchmaker with all the subtlety of a sledgehammer, fishing for information about Natasha's romantic history and making pointed comments about her flirtatiousness. Her clumsy attempts at sophistication only make Prince Andrew uncomfortable, especially when she brings up Boris's childhood crush on Natasha. The mention of this past romance clearly bothers Andrew, revealing his own growing feelings. Pierre notices his friend's unusual animation and restlessness—telltale signs of a man falling in love. The chapter captures that electric moment when two people discover their mutual attraction, while everyone around them tries to decode what's happening. It's a perfect example of how love changes everything: Natasha transforms from ordinary to extraordinary simply by being in Andrew's presence, while Andrew loses his usual cool composure. The social dynamics play out like a chess game, with Vera maneuvering for information, Pierre observing with growing understanding, and the central couple communicating through glances and blushes.
That's what happens. To understand what the author is really doing—and to discuss this chapter with confidence—keep reading.
Terms to Know
Boston (card game)
A popular 19th-century card game similar to bridge, played by wealthy Russians as social entertainment. It required strategy and partnership, making it perfect for observing social dynamics while playing.
Modern Usage:
Like poker night or game night today - a social activity where the real drama happens between hands.
Salon culture
The practice of wealthy families hosting regular social gatherings in their homes where guests would play cards, drink tea, and engage in conversation. These events were crucial for networking and matchmaking.
Modern Usage:
Similar to dinner parties, book clubs, or regular friend gatherings where people socialize and catch up on gossip.
Chaperoned courtship
The 19th-century system where young unmarried people could only interact under family supervision. Private conversations between potential romantic partners were carefully monitored and limited.
Modern Usage:
Like how some families still supervise their teenagers' dating, or how workplace relationships develop under everyone's watchful eyes.
Social transformation
The dramatic change in someone's appearance and demeanor based on their emotional state or who they're with. Tolstoy shows how love literally transforms how we look and act.
Modern Usage:
When someone lights up around their crush, or how we act differently when we're around someone we're attracted to.
Matchmaking interference
When family members or friends try to manipulate romantic situations by asking pointed questions or making strategic comments to push people together or apart.
Modern Usage:
Like when your friends or family members try to set you up, or when they fish for information about your love life.
Emotional intelligence through observation
The ability to read social situations and understand what's happening between people by watching their behavior, expressions, and reactions rather than relying on words.
Modern Usage:
Being able to tell when two coworkers are into each other, or sensing tension in a room even when no one says anything.
Characters in This Chapter
Pierre
Observer and friend
He's playing cards but really watching the drama unfold between Natasha and Prince Andrew. His observations help us understand the significance of what we're seeing.
Modern Equivalent:
The perceptive friend who notices when someone's falling in love before they admit it themselves
Natasha
Young woman discovering love
She transforms from plain and disinterested to radiant and alive the moment Prince Andrew enters. Her dramatic change shows the power of mutual attraction.
Modern Equivalent:
The person who becomes their best self when their crush walks into the room
Prince Andrew
Love interest
His presence completely changes Natasha's demeanor, and he shows unusual animation and restlessness - signs he's falling for her too. He's normally composed but love is making him vulnerable.
Modern Equivalent:
The usually cool, collected person who gets flustered around someone they really like
Vera
Meddling family member
She tries to play matchmaker and gather information through awkward, pointed questions about Natasha's romantic history, making everyone uncomfortable with her lack of subtlety.
Modern Equivalent:
The family member who asks inappropriate questions about your dating life at family gatherings
Count Rostóv
Host and card partner
He's focused on the card game while the real drama unfolds around the table, representing how adults often miss the romantic developments happening right in front of them.
Modern Equivalent:
The parent who's oblivious to their teenager's crush that's obvious to everyone else
Why This Matters
Connect literature to life
This chapter teaches how to distinguish between genuine attraction and performance by watching for unconscious transformation in someone's presence.
Practice This Today
This week, notice when people around you suddenly become more animated, confident, or radiant—that reveals who they're really drawn to, not who they claim to like.
You have the foundation. Now let's look closer.
Key Quotes & Analysis
"What's the matter with her?"
Context: Pierre notices Natasha looks plain and disinterested, completely different from the ball
This shows how dramatically our appearance changes based on our emotional state. Pierre's confusion highlights how love affects us physically - we literally look different when we're happy versus sad.
In Today's Words:
Why does she look so different? What's going on with her?
"She was completely transformed and from a plain girl had again become what she had been at the ball."
Context: The moment Prince Andrew speaks to Natasha, she becomes radiant again
This captures the magical transformation that happens when we're around someone we're attracted to. It's not just internal - others can see the change in our entire presence and energy.
In Today's Words:
She went from looking ordinary to absolutely glowing, just like that night when she was the center of attention.
"The bright glow of some inner fire that had been suppressed was again alight in her."
Context: Describing Natasha's transformation when Prince Andrew arrives
Tolstoy shows how love awakens something powerful within us. The 'inner fire' suggests passion and life force that can be dampened by circumstances but ignites when we connect with the right person.
In Today's Words:
That spark in her eyes came back - you could see she was alive again.
Intelligence Amplifier™ Analysis
The Transformation Effect - How Context Changes Everything
People become different versions of themselves depending on their audience, accessing their best or worst qualities based on who's present.
Thematic Threads
Identity
In This Chapter
Natasha literally becomes a different person when Andrew enters—from plain to radiant in moments
Development
Builds on earlier themes of how social context shapes who we become
In Your Life:
You probably act differently around your boss than your family, and both versions are authentically you
Social Expectations
In This Chapter
Vera tries to orchestrate romantic revelations through clumsy social maneuvering and pointed questions
Development
Continues exploring how society tries to control and direct personal relationships
In Your Life:
That relative who keeps asking 'When are you getting married?' thinks they're helping but creates pressure instead
Human Relationships
In This Chapter
The electric connection between Andrew and Natasha communicates more through glances than words
Development
Deepens the exploration of how real connection transcends social games
In Your Life:
The best relationships often develop through small moments and unspoken understanding rather than grand gestures
Class
In This Chapter
The card party setting reveals how romantic connections must navigate social observation and approval
Development
Shows how class boundaries complicate even genuine emotional connections
In Your Life:
Dating someone from a different background means dealing with family expectations and social assumptions
Personal Growth
In This Chapter
Pierre develops deeper emotional intelligence by observing and understanding the dynamics around him
Development
Continues Pierre's journey from passive observer to someone who truly sees human nature
In Your Life:
Learning to read people and situations accurately is a skill that improves with practice and attention
Modern Adaptation
When Someone Special Walks In
Following Andrew's story...
Andrew's watching the break room dynamics at his warehouse job when something fascinating happens. Maya, the quiet night-shift supervisor, sits hunched over her phone, looking exhausted and unremarkable after pulling a double. Then Jake from maintenance walks in—the guy she's been stealing glances at for months. Suddenly Maya straightens up, her whole face changes, and she's transformed into someone completely different: confident, radiant, magnetic. Andrew can't stop staring at the dramatic shift. Meanwhile, his coworker Vera keeps making obvious comments about how Maya 'lights up around certain people' and asking loaded questions about Maya's dating history. When Vera mentions Maya's ex-boyfriend from another department, Jake's jaw tightens visibly. Andrew recognizes the signs—his friend is falling hard. The whole scene plays out like a chess match: Vera fishing for gossip, Andrew observing the transformation, and Maya and Jake communicating through stolen glances and nervous energy. It's the same dance Andrew's seen a thousand times, but this time he's watching two people discover they're both interested, and everyone around them trying to figure out what's happening.
The Road
The road Natasha walked in 1869, Andrew walks today. The pattern is identical: we become different versions of ourselves when someone who matters to us enters the room—more alive, more ourselves, more everything.
The Map
Andrew now has a navigation tool for reading attraction and transformation. He can spot when someone's 'audience' changes their entire presence, and he knows this reveals who really matters to them.
Amplification
Before reading this, Andrew might have dismissed Maya as 'just quiet' or missed the significance of Jake's reaction. Now he can NAME the transformation pattern, PREDICT when it will happen, and NAVIGATE social dynamics by understanding who brings out people's best selves.
You now have the context. Time to form your own thoughts.
Discussion Questions
- 1
What physical and emotional changes happen to Natasha when Prince Andrew enters the room?
analysis • surface - 2
Why does Andrew lose his usual cool composure around Natasha, and what does this reveal about how attraction affects us?
analysis • medium - 3
Think about your own life - who brings out your best self just by being present? What changes in you when they're around?
application • medium - 4
How could you use this 'meaningful audience' principle to help someone else shine in a difficult situation?
application • deep - 5
What does this chapter teach us about the difference between our 'default self' and our 'activated self'?
reflection • deep
Critical Thinking Exercise
Map Your Transformation Triggers
Create a personal map of who brings out different versions of yourself. Draw yourself in the center, then around the edges write the names of people who make you feel more confident, creative, funny, serious, or nervous. For each person, note what specific quality they activate in you and why you think this happens.
Consider:
- •Notice patterns - do certain types of people consistently bring out your best or worst?
- •Consider both positive and negative transformations - who makes you shrink or become defensive?
- •Think about what this reveals about your core values and insecurities
Journaling Prompt
Write about a specific moment when someone's presence completely changed how you showed up. What was different about you in that moment, and how can you access that version of yourself more often?
Coming Up Next...
Chapter 128: Love Declared and Witnessed
What lies ahead teaches us love transforms people from the inside out, and shows us the power of having someone witness your joy. These patterns appear in literature and life alike.